Actor Tuvi James marries South African.

Story by linda
Last Updated: Sunday, December 19, 2010

Tuvi and his new bride, Tshimologo, who have been dating since they met at the Big Brother Africa party, have quietly married. The actor married the South African, who he calls 'the love of my life' in SA a few weeks back.

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12/18/2010 11:30:18 PM
after eating genneviv's you are here marrying and aids victime,nigerian men should marry withing nigeria for sensible reason,the girl is not pretty ,genny is beautifull than her many times
12/19/2010 6:13:15 PM
Which genny are u talkin abt
Tvi's marriage to a south afri
12/20/2010 9:33:31 AM
Learn to write english before you start abusing people from other african nations. Naija men are marrying away from naija becuase they have seen the light.
Which light?
12/24/2010 1:43:44 AM
Which light ? Who cares and who is the loser?
As if Nigerian women are having sleepless nights over some of our men who have chosen to go on missions of sexual or economic fantasies with foreign women!
And even so , how many Nigerian men "are marrying away from naija" , as you said ?
Very few , maybe about 0.001% of Nigerian men do so and most of them end up regretting this decision and MUST see the light , one day and thereafter they come back to marry from home !
These Naija men would confess to you that "east or west, home is home; is the best!"
It is al right "falling love" with foreign women but.....
Look around you and see what has happened to most of the foreign brides in Nigeria of yesteryears.
Where are most of them today?
Nigerian women say "thank you " to foreign women ,for helping us take care of our sons, brothers and future husbands ; until they see the light!
Flash -in -d -pan !
12/24/2010 4:14:24 PM
No news !
Who cares indeed!
Is this the first time a Nigerian man would marry a foreigner? Them plenty world wide , ja burata !
What we hear is that they marry them but we are never told what happens in the marriage afterwards!
Maybe because it is not good to hear!
The only people I pity are the thousands of innocent children born by foreign women to Nigerian men!
Don't say!my frnd is left with a foureign child.
Sissy moa
11/14/2012 9:30:23 PM
I'm so damm woried about s.african girls who are being deceived evil dours of nigeria.what are we going tell our children in future?i guess s.african girls should be more wise and carefull.
Kamuzu, Aids spreading agent!
12/24/2010 3:22:11 PM
Most AFRICANS envy Nigerians and never have anything good to say about us ; but surprising they cannot keep away from Nigerians ! Why?
Even this i***t calling himself "Kamuzu" is always writing r*****h here and cannot keep away from viewing Nigerians on this website!
Do you have a South African website ?
Then go there! How many Nigerians have you seen visiting it?
And how many Nigerian girls have you seen marrying South African men?
Please you people should keep away from us , jo!
Naija you are so ignorant
1/25/2011 12:14:50 PM
So you think aids does not affect naijas. What planet do you live on?? I like reading things about naija, because you are so so ignorant and thieves, you give africans a bad name, especially with the so called 4*9. No man in their senses can marry a naija woman because they are horrible in bed and they sitck
Shame on you
12/20/2010 7:07:02 PM
My dear ignorance kills and pray that never visits your family or even you judge.lucky you God has whispered how you gonna die,Holy Marry
12/22/2010 8:59:32 PM
And who says he is marrying the South African girl for her beauty??? Think before you write, Amaka!!!
Nigerian men , beware !
12/24/2010 3:20:23 PM
There is divorce everywhere in the world and also AIDS ; but South Africa has the worst record of widespread AIDS and divorce and as such , I say "Nigerian men beware !"
Apart from AIDS and divorce epidemic in SA ; South Africans hate and envy Nigerians' success and prosperity in their country and so they attack and kill Nigerians , at the slightest opportunity!
The attacks and killing of Nigerians is an every day event in South Africa by their people.
After the xenophobic slaughter of foreigners in SA ,some years ago, that is enough to teach our men bitter lessons about marrying foreign women!
Why marry your enemies' daughters?
Thousands of Nigerians have lost their lives and properties in SA , for no reason but for jealousy and hatred.
Many have children there which they cannot reclaim or even contact again because they were sent packing by angry SA mobs!
I am sure Nigerians who have gone to marry SA women and had children with them are now "seeing the light", due to the way they are treated in that country!
This should be a lesson to all those Nigerian men who go to foreign lands and marry their women thinking that will make them ACCEPTABLE in that country, because they are their in-laws!
This is a naive and s****d assumption on the part of Nigerians!
Their women are all rushing to marry Nigerian men because they know their own men are inferior to us!
Thandie from SA
11/3/2011 11:38:46 PM
Hey u Amaka you such a loser and a bloody hater get a life and stop talking s**t about South Africans you ain't gonna get nothing from writing such terrible stuff about SAfricans...Aids is everywhere and beware u can end up in jail for insulting other people...Get a life and stop living ur life through other people..You DRUG DEALER get a life and stop scvheming on the street corners it wont do you any goode..u dnt even know english..LOL
Im really disappointed...
Proud African
5/19/2014 3:21:40 PM
It is really disappointing to hear how s****d us as black people sound at times...We are still enslaved mentally! Black people suffer from self hate! We talk to each other like the uncle Sam vs the field slave mentality both slaves talking down on each other failing to realise that they are both enslaved...There is no better African! Be it Nigerian, Congolese, Angolan or South African...we are all brothers! the sooner we start to respect each other the quicker the world will view us as equals amongst other races.. we are inferior in the eyes of the world because of our own ignorance. I'm really disgusted! You s****d Africans! You act like monkeys you making some of us PROUD AFRICANS look bad! Keep your ignorance to your selves you baboons!
1/8/2011 11:48:53 PM
you are a f**l and a hater...stop being jealous of whom others marry..where is it written that nigerians must marry nigerians? so she is SA it means she has aids right? look at yourself before you talk about aids..
1/25/2011 12:09:56 PM
Read your comment again and again. Why should naija men marry within, naija? The little I hear is that naija women do not satisfy their men, so why shouldn't they go and marry someone who satisfies them.
Naija men marryin within Naija
2/15/2011 9:13:12 AM
Why should naija men marry within naija. This is the 21st century. May be those marrying outise naija have seen the light. Your women are useless in bed.
Tuvi james marriage
11/17/2011 11:50:13 AM
U must b out of ur senses or beta still u nid a psychiatric attention 4 postin dat. D guy has made his choice, all we nid 2 do is giv him d support he nids. She might b far beta dan genie wen it cums 2 karakta. So dis is where u nid 2 put away d beauty aspect of it. Cuz all dat glitters is not gold.
tuvi james marrying a south african
7/5/2014 4:54:18 PM
Mary. From Zambia
12/18/2010 11:36:16 PM
i had a discussion with a colleague who resides in SA, n in all honesty, hiv is really rampant over there, n itz even worse bc a lot of pple do not knw there status...
bk 2 tuvi..congrats!
@Amaka and Omalicha
12/19/2010 8:43:33 AM
Why not congratulate a brother and walk? must we always be negative all the time? Mike Ezuruonye married a fellow Nigerian, you people said he is marrying his grand mother, some said the wife is ugly etc, now it's Tuvi's turn, you're talking about hiv and Genevieve, did you test her for the disease? why can't you let people progress? if he had married Genevieve,you will still complain. Please let people enjoy their lives abeg.
12/26/2010 4:28:20 PM
Word up, Oga Blessing...You have spoken well!!!
11/3/2011 11:41:45 PM
11/3/2011 11:40:21 PM
12/19/2010 1:18:54 AM
who cares where he marries? dt,s he,s choice....he must nt marry a nigerian cos he,s nigerian,,,,aftall hiv is still very much rampent in 9ja...worst of it all is dt 90% of carriers doesn,t even knw... my dear even if is sahara desert ur love is...carry go.... congrats
12/19/2010 3:42:44 AM
Tuvi, congrats! your wife is pretty, you made a wonderful choice, wherever you find your love take it. after all many Nigerians who are marrying themselves are still divorcing after a short while. As for Hiv, it is every where, even in Nigeria. Enjoy your beautiful wife and don't mind negative people, they will always be negative even in positive situations like yours. Merry xmas to you both.
sorry Tuvi
6/26/2011 8:52:34 AM
I live in south Africa ,never you invest in south bcos south girls love ur money than ur live,sangoma is at work love is in the air ,ask mike ogoke the producer of Psquare music he married a south africa my dear talk about the devil ,many nigeria are in a hot soup here south ,give tuvi from now until 2013 will see if there is love ,forget about HIV.are u ready to club .south girl use muti to get men ,and check if she is eating chip my dear sangoma is at work
11/3/2011 11:44:35 PM
Jealousy is the root of evil stop being jealous yoh you peeps talk too much stuff about many times must I tell y'all GET A f**kIN LIFE!!!
2/26/2012 2:09:56 PM
You have spoken well sharon, they may love nigerians just bcos of their money. Am in love with a SA girl which loves me with all her heart and l love her also. l knw she loves me bcos she lives in SA and l live in nigeria, she has job already. well, may God help us all. l still have the assurance that some loves naija men bcos of money but am happy my girl loves me from her heart. Pls guys pray for us so that we can get married. God bless you all...
blah blah
12/19/2010 6:16:54 AM
Who cares???
did he date Genivive
12/19/2010 9:11:53 AM
Did this man sleep with Genevive? he is handsome though.
12/19/2010 7:01:30 PM
12/19/2010 7:46:03 PM
Beauty is not everything, I hope he truly married her due to substance, if it is beauty, well it will soon fade.

A beautiful person can indeed become truly ugly and irritating if they have no susbstance.

Nonetheless, there are beautiful 9ja women, though he made his choice, hope he lives by it.

Congratulations all the same.
12/20/2010 4:54:57 AM
Q Omotoshide
12/28/2010 1:07:32 PM
Forumites hun ! including you, we all make the forumites ode ! mumu ! What are you doing here reading all the comments, then writing your own comment, you are IDLE too. Ope ! Aridin agba!
Married life happy
12/20/2010 11:54:02 AM
What is wrong with ladies, this lady is very beautiful, and if you people thinks she has aids then the naija lady whom you said he dated must also declare her status.

the only problem here is her breast, may be is the suit she is putting on, that breast looks flat already and the guy never even tamper with it, apart from stealing it, now that he want to bulldoze everything, i wonder what will be left there.

Anyway, happy married life, or life happy married
12/20/2010 1:36:31 PM
Tuvi James, congratulations to you and your south african wife!! Wishing you God's blessings in your marriage.
@the man acid
hips don`t lie
12/21/2010 5:15:28 AM
Are you sure you are not JOE? infact where is JOE BOBO you two are birds of the same fether. Acid man you too funny i like your talk, focus on the hips the breats is for your babies hahahahahaha you too much Joe bobo where are you.
what is wrong with the breast.
the man acid
12/20/2010 6:47:59 PM
please,ladies and gentle men what is wrong with the breast been flat. are you marry breast or the girl,what you have to talk of is the hip because your are enjoying the yach not the flat breast as you said,please leave the baby girl alone, I the man acid prefer hip than breast,I don,t know which you prefer most, because you not baby any more that your wife will give you breast to sock is only a new that will be demand breast,so guys concentrate on the hip of your wife because that breast belong to the unborn babies.better be wise.
12/20/2010 7:00:59 PM
I cant laugh!!!!!
12/20/2010 9:06:16 PM
why should a woman's breast be flat even after having children dat is disgusting if i were a man i will not marry her never
Nigereian man love b**bs.
Sisy moa
11/14/2012 10:04:24 PM
I can tell u 1thng nigerian man love women with breast.that is what i've notice.
proud to be african
12/20/2010 10:37:18 PM
Some Nigerian man dnt marry Nigerian women coz they r too loud and ignorant, above all some of them r less exposed n dnt knw how to please their man in bed lyk southern african women. We r now in the21st century n everyone is entitled to marry whoever they choose to regardless of where they come from n besides Aids is a global issue. Wake up n smell the coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
12/24/2010 5:00:37 PM
You are a "proud African" from which of the jungle - villages in Africa?
If Nigerian women are not exposed ; then which women in Africa are?
How many Nigerian women do you know ?
I am sure , not many of them!
If you are a man or woman; with this shallow mentality , Nigerian women would not want to know you or touch you with even a pole!
Nigerian women are world class in every thing, men!
Trust me , I know because I have travelled extensively , worldwide, including in South Africa
South African women know how to do "what" did you write?
You are an ignorant person and how did you get your statistics?
Most people would tell you that South African women are generally loud, not exposed, uneducated ,laid back alcoholics, unambitious and very VERY promiscuous!
The most frightening thing is most of South Africans are infected with AIDS-HIV and they do not give a damn about that!
They spend 3/4 of their lives dancing , singing and drinking in local bars and f--king away their lives, spreading AIDS and producing b*****d children.
If a woman is cheap she would be popular with men because she is easy , cheap and "generous" ; not because she is good in bed or better than other women, in any way!
I know them very well and their preferences for Nigerian men over their own men.
One South African woman could have sex with four brothers from the same mother and she would see NOTHING WRONG in doing that!
That is their life style!
Maybe to you,that is "knowing how to please men" ?
And SA women ,like their SA men , rarely get married .
They go about having babies with different men!
I am shocked
1/4/2011 8:24:41 PM
hehehe...You say you have visited South Africa, where was that? A brothel in Hillbrow? I am a South African woman and surely i have not slept with 4 brothers from the same mother.Did you come acrosss a South African woman who told you that she has slept with 4 brothers from the same mother? or is just hearsay that you heard from Nigerian brothers staying in Hillbrow? I believe in each and every country there are good and bad people..Will it be fair if i said all Nigerians are drug dealers and fraudsters just coz of the small percentage of Nigerians doing that?As much as there are good women in Nigerian, there are plenty plus good women in SA, it all depends where you look, and what ur prefences are. Honestly my brother i think you need to be more exposed to South Africans before you start labelling them. As for the HIV issue, i dnt expect u to be so ignorant.HIV is everywhere!!!!....You shuld protect urself...
South Africa Women
4/2/2011 10:36:36 AM
James, I am very surprised by the things you say. I guess you are allowed to voice out your opinions, but saying you know that South African women are not educated, can slepp with brothers, etc, is beyond imagination. i am not sure what type of characters did you interact with when you came to SA. I am a South African and I have never interacted nor came across such people in SA. You might know better than me but I am being honest. Maybe because I am fortunate enough to hold a Masters Degree and run my own successful IT business, so am associating with people of the same calibre. But, in my 38 years of living in South Africa, I have not ever heard about these stories. Yes, SA women are not saints, but they are not very different from other women in Africa. There might be xenophobic issues, yes, but they are in certain areas, not the rest of South Africa. I am not going to start telling you about things that I have heard about Nigerians because I do not have tangible evidence, hence will not write on a forum like this those terrible things. I have met decent Nigerians as welll as the ones that might be a disgrace to Nigeria. But that does not mean Nigerians are bad, only those few individuals taint the reputation of a country. That is the case with SA as well
6/18/2011 2:39:50 AM
I do perfectly agree with you,im South African and also met up with Nigerian.
Nigerian wrecks
6/22/2011 9:08:43 AM
Oh, pls Naijas...James made his onw choice, liv with it. He couldn't marry a Naija girl because he's afraid of being bewitched & cursed. The sooner you realise that Aids is all over the world the better, mind you SA girls have respect their dignity. They don't ever offer themselves to guys for money or booze. Congrats to you James, i hope Tshimo gives you beautiful little models like her.
11/3/2011 11:49:16 PM
Ag go to hell u bloody hater yoh some Nigerians are suckers...Witches!!!
Nigerians are worse
Sisy moa
11/14/2012 10:25:30 PM
First of all education is not much expensinve thn in poor aware if most girls in s.a whr iltrds.u whr nt gnn c btftl grls drvng nice cars.s.a girls are highly educated,smart clean u cn nvr smell swert 4rm them.nigerian girls are even being sold by their mothers turng them 2 p******* aware s.a girl enjoy taking a bath.
so true
@proud to be african
11/3/2011 11:47:25 PM
I like those at least therez someone smart in Africa Aids is a global issue...dont u have televisions?..well it about time u people start watching global news STOP being stuck in Nigeria..LOL
congratulate and bounce
12/21/2010 7:12:42 AM
Pls people need to be mature and stop all this childish talk. this is a merry occasion for him, congratulate him and bounce, are you the one that will stay with him and her in tiger matrimonial home. if you want to marry genevive for yourself go and do that. let gene look for her own somewhere else, she has open her legs for the guy, that is not a guarantee for the guy to be with her. as long as he's happy that's all! congrat my dear! don't mind the enemies of progress, don't let them use their frustration on you. happy blissful life.
1/4/2011 8:33:24 PM
Amen to that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
f**k off naijas
Naija Hater
2/10/2013 12:47:19 PM
How about all nigerian go back home yerr I'm sick of your s**t

12/22/2010 5:56:10 AM
Why not go to Re-hab than wastin ur time in front of ur computer
12/22/2010 7:38:19 AM
Someone is just s****d and illeterate to even think AIDS is only is South Africa
12/22/2010 1:03:57 PM
Congrats Tuvi ofcourse I admired u anyway .
12/22/2010 2:45:57 PM
South African girls are smart, they are always for the rich and handsome Nigerians guys, and at least she will wake up next to her a handsome guy, congratulation gurl.
@ chioma
12/24/2010 3:57:12 PM
Na wa for these USERS o !
All these foreigners hate Nigerians but they want a share in our petrol dollars and high style of living in Nigeria by marrying our men!
They are all users!
South African and other foreign women move in packs , hunting for wealthy Nigerian men!
These foreign women see our Nigerian men as a life-line and escape routes from the poverty and backwardness in their own countries!
There is no big deal about marrying foreigners but the annoying thing for me is that
all these foreigners have NOTHING GOOD to say about Nigerians and yet they want to be involved with us ! WHY? .
We are called all sorts of evil names, attacked killed and lose our businesses and properties in their countries ; yet all their greedy women have eyes on and are gunning for our rich and famous Nigerian men!
They are always doing "long-throat" after our rich and famous men!
Yet you can HARDLY find Nigerian girls consenting to marry their own men , because their men are not good enough!
These foreign women are so desperate that they frequent Nigerian functions all over the world and even come into our country Nigeria , under one guise or the other ; just to hunt for rich and famous Nigerian husbands!
Trust Nigerian men ; they know how to play the "game" and are even smarter than these foreign women! !
I have met quite a number of foreign women ("hunters") complaining about their failed efforts!
There are thousands of disappointed and disgruntled foreign women who have had raw deals of grand deceit from Nigerian men.
Very few of these foreign women succeed because our men know their plans , they sleep with or marry these foreign women and then dump them!
"Cunning man die , cunning man bury am!"
If you say someone is a thief and fraudster , why not KEEP AWAY from that person?
They say Nigerians are no good ? But our money is sweet to enjoy ; isn't it ?
We gonna see!
12/28/2010 10:37:01 AM
congradulation tuvi
1/12/2011 6:01:57 AM
first of all beauty lays in the eyes of the beholder if he married her, he and only he knows what he saw in this lady.
people stop trying to break other peoples marriages and relationship because, we are nigerians and we are the best, and all our men come back to marry us after they marry their foreign wives.
south africans are not loud, and not too demanding like nigerian women so if nigerian men go for foreign ladies maybe that is the reason why.
only God and only him knows if a marriage is not going to work or not, and it is up to the couple to pray for their marriage to work. let the man be his happy and y'all jealous. congradulation tuvi and may God bless you abundantly in your marriage.
like one said hiv is everywhere you might hate south africa, but if you have never been there stop believing any story and every story u read about south africa. infrastructure wise south africa is better than nigeria. you say they want our oil, please!!!!!!!!. what have you done so far with the oil so far and besides sometimes you do not have electricity in your houses unlike south africa. manage your oil effectively and then start dissing south africa and any other african continent move with the times.
1/14/2011 3:00:10 PM
guy Nigerians like u......o anyhow since married low key pls remain low key we dnt want to hear any bad news but she looks older than you maybe is the pix but shes good to go.
1/23/2011 9:57:30 PM
Well, my say in this matter is tht Tuvi should just beware, plant another eye at his back because those girls are dangerous... I live in SA and eceryday i witness what's been done to my fellow brother whom r still married to south african women; most of them has gone back home to marry because not only will they abandon u when u r finished, financially, they'll also claim the children and other assets u have and if they hear frm any source tht u r going home to marry, they'll kill u and brag about it. Nowadays, they have SA women who r married to nigerian men meeting in Cape town and when they see those of us tht our husbands has seen the light, they get very jealous and start plotting conflict in our families.. n the list goes on......It really terrible, but anyway, lets hope tht lady's the mayor/MP's daughter...He'll probably not be going home/going home to naija alone cos they r not ready to leave tht country for naij cos they fear tht naija women will do to them what they do to us..... The women we r talking abt here lives in places worse than Ajegunle ooo!
1/26/2011 1:29:07 PM
dear freinds, what is this insult between african countries, pls lets stop this insults and disgrace we bring upon ourselves. am a ghanaian and we are all africans, blacks for that matter. what ever affects the eye affects the nose so lets stop this kind of game. because this website is there so we can have fun and not to dis ourselves. thanks ma people i great u all. peace
1/30/2011 3:39:39 AM
Kamuzu: You are from a country ruled by white men...where you and your people are treated worse than mad dogs. Where one out of 3 kids born are HIV/AIDS positive.. The only black nation where blacks are the poorest and the struggling minority lmaoo..if that's what you call seeing the light, then am sure Nigerians will rather stay in the "dark"...MORON
blacks are s****d period
5/24/2011 9:10:27 AM
You black people are very s****d humans who fight one another instead,indians embrace each other regardless which part of the world one resides from,go to any black country you find them fighting each other this one from this tribe hates a certain tribe.if a black person were to find one white man and one black man drowning in an ocean he would rescue the white man rather than his fellow brada.
Black people wake up and embrace each other
Sa marrying a nigerian
4/16/2011 6:54:41 PM
What is all the fuss about the beauty and AIDS , are you guys mad. these are two mature people who know what they are doing, if you meet a SA or Nigerian partner go and test simpluy and easy before getting married. there are million many HIv free women and men. Do not be naive, these people love each other, If you are jealous kick the rocks sisi. Infact soon I will be marrying a Nigerian man. come and buy curves fro SA and shut the hell up.
Sa marrying a nigerian
4/16/2011 6:59:56 PM
KAMUZU where do you come from. Who lied to you that this country is ruled by white men. Come here and learn your lesson. let me tell you something, with my salary as a black person I can feed you, and your whole family including your mother inlaw. your professional salaries are pathetic compared to black SA. do notstart comparing you will lose the war. get your facts right Miss or mr whatever.
Chriseldah shidzinga
5/24/2011 6:02:26 PM
Why people are so jealous wth their marriage they are great i love them even thou she has a big breast he love her the way.
Chriseldah shidzinga
5/24/2011 6:02:29 PM
Why people are so jealous wth their marriage they are great i love them even thou she has a big breast he love her the way.
Had enough!!!!!
8/5/2011 3:01:40 PM
The honest truth here is: Nigerian woman still have this rage against South African woman, simply because Nigerian man come here, all in the name of hustle, trying to feed themselves, why?
Because nothing is happening in Nigeria, there are no opportunities, that is why most of them run away from the country.
When they get here in Southey, first they get overwhelmed with the beautiful woman they see here.
And lets be honest again, South Africa woman are far more beautiful than Nigerian woman, inside and out.
South African woman are hardworking, independent and they respect themselves.
Other than the Nigerian woman, who are lazy, they no gree work, the husband must work and they just want to sit at home, producing plenty children for the man, they are dirty no sense of dressing style.
No wonder the man doesn't want to go back when they get here, because they not use to it..
Most South Africans don't believe in juju/sangoma, we were not brought up like that, we believe in our Creator and that is God.
I'm happily married to a Nigerian guy for 7years now, we have two beautiful children.
I didn't marry him for his money, yes he was very blessed, so was I, I had my own house, my own car, I was well established.
We own two houses and two cars in Nigeria, one house in lagos and one in benin where my inlaws stays.
I go to Nigeria every year, I love the place and I love the people, I don't have anything against them.
But it's time……………
Nigerians that have never been to South Africa, and that doesn't know any South African should stop judging us.
All those things I said about Nigerian woman are true, I have plenty Nigerian friends here in South Africa and in Nigeria.
I know how they operate.
We don't have to use juju to get any man. We not that desperate at all.

I know Tuvi and Tshimo personally, they my friends.
Unfortunately, they not together anymore.
Let me get one thing straight, when he came to this country, never mind about his big name back home, he struggled.
All he had was that woman, she is well established, and she helped him and is still helping him.
She never married him for his money, lol…. He didn't even had money when he got here.

But you can't change people, especially when they don't want to change.
Tuvi is not ready for marriage, he never was.
He still wants to play around, and unlike Nigerian woman;
who are desperate and would over look such womanizing behavior from the husband, we don't roll like that.

Man count houses and boys count bottles and how many girls they've slept with.
He needs to grow up.

And just remember while you are busy judging and pointing fingers.
God is judging you as well, and three fingers are pointing back to you.

8/8/2011 5:53:01 PM
wel said anonymous,grt conclusion to dis debate,fully agree wit u and realised sum of ur facts as i am a south african guy datin a nigerian girl.
Actor Tuvi
9/3/2011 8:27:56 PM
Two people met and loved each other whether niferian of mzantsian, get a life guys, they are married period.
sa galz hav assets, period
9/30/2011 1:19:37 PM
We SA galz hav dem curves and dem "behind". And as a bonus we hav d luks n nyc legs. Show me any naija gal wit any of dez assets. So stop hatin coz u aint got any, yo men cnt help bt fall for us & dats d sad truth my fellow nigerian sistaz.
hate between sa and naiger
10/10/2011 11:40:04 AM
I am south african, Nagerian pp must stop worrying about us. We do n't think about
Nagerians or any african contry,except drugs dealers. We started to learn about the continent
After 1994. I worried about you talking bad about my country.
Enjoy your life in your different countries around africa. We enjoy
Our life in sa. Keep on digging oil and keep quite.
Haters from Nigeria
11/17/2011 4:46:24 AM
Im suprised at all this r*****h written here, im a nigerian woman married to a successful south african, i dont understand the hate from Nigerian who themselves are battling to feed themselves, let alone go tests for Hiv.Aids.
I grew up in Nigeria, and i know how desperate Nigerian women can be in getting hitched, ignoring the obvious signs of abuse from the so called suitor, A man should not play you with your sister,mother,aunt or granny, just because he has stolen government money you think he is a catch, wake up girls. Going around labelling south africans as aids carriers its wrong, aids is also rife in nigeria, only if we had a solid federal government to tabulate the statistics then we would know how many of you are living with it. Now get over your high disabled horses and smell the coffee. I respect nigerians and south africans alike, have no beef with anyone except holier than thou people who pretend to be clean during the day and at night they are drug pushers, do 3somes, target politicians, go from one witchdoctor to the other, plotting to kill each other, pleeaseee
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Any person shld marry whoever they want and it's sad to say she is an AIDS patient shame jealousy will not get you anywhere, marry the one who makes you happy coz u gonna spend the rest of yo life with them. Guys lets just do away with the steriotyping thats why Africa never progresses we always look down upon each other. One luv ppl
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10/25/2012 2:07:53 PM
Please people who are commenting on some issues here more so Nigerians, behave and think in a mature way. You a shame your countries i swear, you are the ambassadors of your dear country. What image are you giving us who are not Nigerians and we also on the same site, you forget that its not for you only. Stop insulting people here because they belong to different countries. Am neither a Nigerian nor South African but am an African, AIDS is not killing only South Africans but all people in the world more so Africans. When you try to read out well, South Africa is the leading and ask yourself which is the next country to it, obviously the results show that its Nigeria. But that's not the issue, the issue is that we all have AIDS in our countries whether at a low rate or high, we face it. You should not comment like children. This goes to the so called Amaka and the like, did God inform you in advance the disease you are to suffer, lets get together as Africans to fight it but not to blame one another. And whether one marries a foreigner its his life, that is one's destiny and life. God plans everything for each person in this world. You want to say that Nigerians are the most beautiful ones and also you think that Nigeria is a holy free land from AIDS! Be ware with the language you use here please.
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1/3/2013 8:19:23 PM
What? What's with this cock an bull I see? I must be day dreaming, surely. What are all these s****d Local champions talking....Abeggy una Nigerians take time o. Eeeeeeeeh ive said my own.
it's not all girls that are illiterates as u think, I for one am SA but hold a Masters degree from the university of united kingdom precisely called Kingscross college Uni if you like you could google that, I work in a professional medical field with a private firm an seem to be doing just great. So u see think before u talk....

Just bcoz of this God I will reserve my true comments. An for your own info the next time una pple listen to gossip of who said what....., better u find something tangible an be useful. I'm not siding with SA pple neither am I skidding Nigerians. My fiancé is from Enugu an we been together for 5 yrd plus. I know sometimes Nigerian girls can be very jealous they can't stand they men dating
outside but I guess they have met they match. No nonsense taker igbo's call it akata woman. Yes they can't intimidate me with they loud mouth an pretends.....An as for SA pple on here stop judging Nigerians about things u now s**t about, I've gathered that most r simpley expressing they mind according to what they've seen about some SA local drunkereds that got no self value an woman pride. Some r write to a certain extent about SA girls an they loose behaviour it's honestly discusting an repulsive. Even as I myself I'm totally miffed about they sometimes ways but neither the less SA men r just dick heads. Totally maga's full stop. Nigerians men rnot the best either as they full of s**t...they intead to control and push they woman around like same sort of slaves in a sense that they r too Bossy and stubborn.
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1/9/2013 10:01:14 AM
Wow and we call ourselves Africans just listen to all that'm human first,race,colour or culture is no issue..I'm a 23 old professional lady married to a yoruba guy..I love him so much and I'm really ashamed of what u all r saying...I don't think u both have a right to judge.nawa o..ah..
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1/9/2013 10:03:17 AM
Wow and we call ourselves Africans just listen to all that'm human first,race,colour or culture is no issue..I'm a 23 old professional lady married to a yoruba guy..I love him so much and I'm really ashamed of what u all r saying...I don't think u both have a right to judge.nawa o..ah..
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3/9/2013 8:44:30 AM
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3/19/2013 11:50:45 PM
You f*****g South Africa,you think you have got everything in the world Ne,where were you during the apatite,now because the white have given privileged and freedom,you start making s**t.

As rich as USA,they still got their own problem

South Africans need to travel so that they can be well exposed.

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3/22/2013 9:23:14 PM
i av gone thru some of the comments made on this forum and i am disappointed with most of them......we should learn how to respect ppls marriage choice and we shuld be civil wen it comes to insultin or brandishing other countries with a stigma....i am a nigerian dude and i av had the privillege of workin with some south africans here in nigeria,we had some the best times together and we shared alot on each countries culture,which i must say was a beutiful tin....HIV is evrywre and we shuldnt live in f**ls paradise that we are safe bcos it aint rampant in ur country and inter-country marriage is a wonderful tin that shuld be encouraged as its another postive means of uniting the world,most pple on this forum dat spoke postivley bout nigerians are either married to one or av had a gud encounter with them and also vice versa for south country is perfect let us stop acting f*****hy and embrace each other in spirit of africanism,only us can love each other and only us can protect each other.its all bout love and not wre u come from...remember no country is perfect,bad eggs are inevitable. Thank u
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8/11/2013 11:16:55 PM
Thobela ke Dumela. Im a south african nd wud lyk 2 jst say a few words. I wud lyk 2 congratulate al dat made it dis far in their marriadges or luv arenas, its al by God grace, dat we shud embrace. LET ME NOT TO THE MARRIADGE OF TRUE MINDS. God bless.
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8/12/2013 10:59:15 AM
Nigerian women are fugly thats the reason why Nigerian man chase other females, why are there so many single nigerian women. Most south african women are only with nigerians for their money, they dread having a baby with a smelly Nigerian.
9/5/2013 3:37:38 AM
I thnk these nigerian dudes are jealousy because our places of stay are better than they stay haha i was watching a dstv ss9 where Glo is televising,their grounds are looking like graveyards
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