NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A POOR MAN--SHAN GEORGE SPEAKS
The days are gone when women used to tolerate even if her husband or lover don’t have money.
But these days the first factor that people look at in a relationship is the financial gain.
No doubt money makes the world go round. It is the bond that holds together the marriage when love exists no more.
Money makes a lot of women remain in unhappy relationships.
Without mincing words,many women are married to their husbands for money and not love.
Even when they are unhappy in the marriage they stay on because of the comfort and perks they get.
Although, everyone has a different idea of how important money is in their relationship, some people see it as necessary but not the most important thing. Others, who have a seemingly far shallower view on life, think that money is the most important thing in any relationship.
Nollywood actress Shan George while speaking about the place of love and money in the sustenance of a relationship recently said, “Never fall in love with a poor man, because money would always be more important to him than your heart.”
In a nutshell, Ms. George is trying to say that a poor man is not entitled to the good things of life.
So if one is not financially buoyant such a person is not entitled to marriage?
You mean a man and a woman can’t come together, work together, to build a better future?
Is she right?
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think that some of this nollywood weman re useless & not usefull. That is because
you ve never in your life no what LOVE is. DO fine one because you ve none to give
& none to get. uselesswoman.
PLEASE SHAN, YOU FAILED IN LIFE, YOU PURSUED MONEY AND YOU GOT IT BUT DEEP DOWN IN YOU YOUR DAMN UNHAPPY WITH LIFE CAUSE YOU JUST CANT RETURN TO WHERE YOU CAME FROM, A MAN IN YOUR LIFE YOU CAN HOLD ON TO AS YOU VERY OWN, NOT QUICKIES IN UNCOMPLETED BUILDING.
I HOPE YOU REMEMBER THAT DAY IN 2000 IN AMUWO ODOFIN PHASE 2??.
As 4d guys starting Steve and others whose comments I read or dnt read. Dias dis mentality wt guys especially wen U spill out hot truth. I 4 one do not bliv in marriage wt money. Infact my own philosophy is dat I have 2b independent of my man as much as possible even if he can make some provisions here and dia. If one as a woman or as a man was once a p********e or one who dates married and older women be it wherever doesnt mean life will still remain thus. Those of U who think reminding one of his/her old life is not doin d right thing. Even if d person is still falling, everyone has his/her life and destiny to run as wt one's mental faculty. U dnt have to sound very insultive and barbaric to correct somebody. Dats Y pple dnt actually know how to make comments. WAT IS LIFE WTOUT CHALLENGES? One thing or d other surely can or will make one to pass which will and never suite U. Dnt 4get dat one's meet is anoda's poison. Just make Ur comment coz a good counsellor does make decision 4his/her counsellee except to spill out options. Shan, just kip d struggle but dnt 4get one thing, no mata d GATHERINGS, wtout God; U are damn lost!!!
My pple especially U can marry not necessarily till wen U are rich or in big money but wat is Ur mentality towards marrying a rich woman or one who has moni dan U? I know dia are ladies who can be very very very materialist but I tell wt my psychological calculations, guys fail in dat aspect coz they see dat as an opportunity to amass wealth. f*****hNESS!!!
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Some months ago , when Shan George spoke out the truth about prawstitute married women , people condemned her as if people didn't know already that such married women fill everywhere ,not only in Nolyywood ; they are using their marriage as a camouflage for their prawstitution .
If you like curse Shan for this her comment here till 2morrow, Shan or any woman who refuses to marry a poor man is 100% CORRECT!
Please God , I pray, help us o, may I or any of my daughters and my sisters never be stewpid , mad enough to agree to suffer and sweat and cook fine, delicious soup for other women to come and eat it , to enjoy the soup and insult us on top of it !
Once men make it big, they become financial sponsors and sperm-donors to all sorts of beautiful , top-class gold-diggers and pregnancy-sellers.
Then they become expert and hardened womanisers with no regard for their wives!
All the big babes in the country and even the illiterate orange hawkers want to date them , marry them or at least bear children for rich men , just to get their own share of rich men's money. Some of these gold-diggers and pregnancy-sellers will do anything to send the wife who suffered to make the money , out of her marital home.
Take a survey of all the rich successful men in Nigeria and elsewhere in the world today and you will see that 98% of them , the wife or wives , or girl-friends enjoying with them today are not the women who suffered with them in their days of poverty. These rich men have abandoned and replaced those their poverty-loving first wives and girlfriends, long ago, as soon as after they saw money in their own pockets !
The 2% of rich men who have retained their first wives have done so not because they still love those women who suffered with them , but because these old wives have refused to leave , they have become husband -begging experts , shocks and insults absorbers!
Despite the many humiliation , insults , severe physical punishment and emotional trauma from their ungrateful now-rich husbands and even from their husbands' gold-digging current wives or girlfriends, these women are still in their husband's houses ; they have been put aside , they rarely see their husbands anymore , but they are STILL there hanging on for appearances sakes; for the sake of bearing "MRS" !
But Jeez, my dear you nailed it GBAM ! Wow ! Good talk !
Life is so full of ungrateful people , especially men. It is unbelievable what men do.
Leave these idyiotic women and men who are condemning Shan's comments here.
They know NOTHING about men and they don't know JACK about human nature !
But why are people pretending that this is news to them or that it is not happening?
The truth is that in every family in Nigeria or even in the whole of Africa , you must hear of at least one story about poor men who turned nasty and ungrateful towards their wives and girlfriends who suffered and struggled with them, once the poor , suffer-head men succeeded in making it big financially .
My prayers for all of you who have condemned the warning from Shan George here is that: you , your daughters and your sisters will surely MARRY poor men and SUFFER and STRUGGLE with poor men for many years , until the man becomes rich . Amen.
May God or is it Satan , make your brains DEAD so that you will be seriously in love with poor men ,so that you will marry struggling men and you will stay and suffer with them to build a marital home hand in hand , struggling with poor men .
May God see and hear your fasting and prayers for your darling poor man to become rich and then God will bless the poor man and make him hit a massive jackpot !
I mean , real serious big money. It is then you will see what is called "oh my God!"
Then you will see what will happen to you .
After then you will begin to see wonders from your "darling , loving , sweet , kind and God-fearing husband " before your very eyes , which you cannot believe ! Amen!
All you lovers of poor , struggling men please say AMEN to these prayers.
You can never know a man's real choices when he is poor and struggling.
If a man is rich and still loves you and stays with you as his wife , then you can be sure his love for you is genuine and you are his real choice for marriage
But not so with a poor man .You can never know a poor man's real choice in women
My dear ladies , you will not believe the changes you will see in your ex-poor husband or boyfriend, once he starts commanding money or he gets promotion to a big office !
It is only after your darling poor husband who you struggled with has made it BIG that your eyes will become clear as to what a c***y and phoolish woman you have been. Then and only then you will see the poor man you married in his true colours.
Then you will remember this truthful warning from Shan George and other women against marriage to poor men !
Then you suffer-head fphoolish women writing rhabbish here will know say khakhi no be leather , nama na meat e be !
And so what?
You are so crude in speech which you think is for disgracing Shan . You disgrace yourself . You are an illiterate tout , born by a mother who is a cheap prawstitute and your sisters and your wife are notorious sluts.!
Where was your own mother fcked by countless men before she concieved you ?
Have you forgotten ?
Your mother was fcuked on the bare mud, under some banana tree in the bush.
And your wife ? Who is fcuking her now? Too many men, she can't even count them !
Everybody knows your wife is a cheap w***e , selling pure water and selling herself to motor touts in motor parks all over the place.
Am sure your own wife , every day is fcked inside parked old, disused ,dirty molue buses in Lagos slums joints .People hear her and the men screaming for joy inside the dirty buses as they are doing it to her.
What do you say about all that?
Are u God? when u marry a man for his money, u gain little respect from him but when u hv urs before getting married to him, him and his family respect u that is a God fearing man.
Pls dont believe on ur own wisdom cos money can vanish at anytime. So ladies pls marry a man that can give u happiness. May God help us.
sad way to live, REALLY