NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A POOR MAN--SHAN GEORGE SPEAKS
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SHAN GEORGE

The days are gone when women used to tolerate even if her husband or lover don’t have money.

But these days the first factor that people look at in a relationship is the financial gain.

No doubt money makes the world go round. It is the bond that holds together the marriage when love exists no more.

Money makes a lot of women remain in unhappy relationships.

Without mincing words,many women are married to their husbands for money and not love.

Even when they are unhappy in the marriage they stay on because of the comfort and perks they get.

Although, everyone has a different idea of how important money is in their relationship, some people see it as necessary but not the most important thing. Others, who have a seemingly far shallower view on life, think that money is the most important thing in any relationship.

Nollywood actress Shan George while speaking about the place of love and money in the sustenance of a relationship recently said, “Never fall in love with a poor man, because money would always be more important to him than your heart.”

In a nutshell, Ms. George is trying to say that a poor man is not entitled to the good things of life.

So if one is not financially buoyant such a person is not entitled to marriage?

You mean a man and a woman can’t come together, work together, to build a better future?

Is she right?

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ehen...
titto | 4/10/2012 11:38:38 PM
She speaks her mind oooooo......
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But na true na
Nnesexy | 5/5/2012 12:28:34 AM |
No bi say na her mind na true wey she talk o. Don get blind folded in d name of luv wen he can't comfortably tak kia of u. I no dey 4 such. Na sahn way i dey follow
r*****h
funshyb | 5/13/2012 4:08:56 AM |
u r al f**ls. Wot d imptnce of ur marriage coz of money wn dis is no luv. Tel me hw u wl b hpy. Think b4 succumin 2 anytin says by anybody. If u r nt hpy in dis world then y r u dia
her mind no follow her.
larysouthy | 4/19/2014 3:56:20 AM |
the bed hopper toto don finish......wentin rich man de fine na make dem de leave her...... richmen make una wise after hard work finaly........wen the millions de come u follo bed hoopers dat got there career by bed hooping .....1 left 2 left bros think am ......
u make me laugh shan
njideka | 4/10/2012 11:55:29 PM
Sometimes I wonder y u people publish dis kind of stories.shan believes dat all d rich men in dis world were born with money.anyway dats her own way of conceiving money&marriage.4 me it depends on individual.some men r rich but cnt handle their marriage.after shan george divorced a multi-millionaire oil. Guru.my question 2 her is if money can make a woman stay with her husband if when she is unhappy why then did she divorce her rich husband?pls shan stop deceiving single ladies,allow them hv their way.most billionaires 2day were married b4 the start making real money.
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thank you njideka
offcours a poor man | 5/6/2012 7:45:00 AM |
Thanks njideka, you saved me, I am single and poor and thought if everyone thinks for money only that whats the value of love..
support u NJIDEKA
LARRY | 4/19/2014 1:46:12 AM |
The bible say from there fruit u will recognised dem.....and out of the abundant of the heart the month speaks....if u diligently put her speech into consideration u would see why no man in his right senses will....stay in such marriage her parent did her great favour to had marry her off at early age today she is proud.... bad mouthing those who r nt dat lucky with marriage and divorce......"EVERY WOMAN PRIDE IS A HUSBAND".
hmmm
njideka | 4/11/2012 12:06:54 AM
U married already made man good 4 u.check d richest man in the world in 1980 then check the richest 2day.70% of the world's richest men come 4rm a very poor background.many of them became what the r after getting married.pls allow single ladies 2 get married.
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Dats corect gals
Ronkyyy | 4/11/2012 9:39:41 AM |
U gals said it all....me tooo i concor.
how many house your papa get o
uj | 4/11/2012 1:33:36 AM
A poor man today, can become rich tmorrow, what is she taking about? this make me
think that some of this nollywood weman re useless & not usefull. That is because
you ve never in your life no what LOVE is. DO fine one because you ve none to give
& none to get. uselesswoman.
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Gaba | 4/24/2012 4:55:59 PM |
Complete useless divorcee
All fingers can never be equal
Nneoma | 4/11/2012 1:48:10 AM
4 dose of u who are proud to announce dat dey married already made husband, wat will happen if d man becomes un-made bcos it's possible evn though i dnt pray 4 it to happen as d only ting dat is constant in life is change? I guess u will luk 4 another already made man to marry. Please u guys shld stop deceiving d un-married ladies out there, everything in life is all about choice. D only thing dat can keep one's marriage/family intact (till date do dem part) is LOVE and FEAR OF GOD. D bible gives guidelines we must follow in order to keep a lasting marriage, chek this out in Col. 3:18-21. I am not against a man making money, but 4 Shan and her cohort to give it as a command that no woman shld never fall in love wit a poor man is total rhubbish, u can only speak 4 ur self by saying 'i can never fall in love with a poor man'. D last time i chekd d bible, God does not care abt all d fat accounts or mansions we may have, rather He is interested in d condition of our heart and views all men equal irrespective of our financial status bcos He nos that all fingers are not and can never be equal. I guess d advice would have bn never marry a LAZY man, bcos some men work so hard 4 their family even though d millions re not rolling in as expected while praying nd hoping dat God's tym is d best. If money is dat important in keeping a marriage, why den is d divorce rate higher among d rich & celebrities dan d common man? God's word can never LIE.
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GOD WILL BLESS YOU MORE
Jman | 4/11/2012 6:50:08 AM |
I read ur messages and i fall in love with it cause u bring out the point i really want to hear,, Though money has a lot to do but in as much as d man is not lazy and he can afford to feed himself and the lady i think nothing is wrong with that cause d rich also get poor while poor get rich.. I pray GOD help us all .. INSHA ALLAH
Hmmmmm
Ronkyyyy | 4/11/2012 9:43:41 AM |
U said da rite tin,but i tell u 95% of guys today dont worth a woman suffrin wit dem. I did it twice and was made a lafin stock.so i surport SHAN.
Lovely response
Gold. | 4/11/2012 11:42:51 AM |
May God bless u 4 dat msg.though money has alot to do wit relatnshps bt it shudnt b made a priority(remember dis sayin:money is lyk an eagle,which means it can decide to liv anytym)i bet majority of dis gals aint happily marid.d best tin is to allow God to choose 4 us.
True Talk
NG | 4/11/2012 12:47:13 PM |
Preach on pastor
The end
Gaba | 4/24/2012 5:00:59 PM |
U hav said it all and i wish u a happy home in jesus name
Senseless
Ike | 4/11/2012 3:19:34 AM
This lady is senseless...being actress does'nt really mean she has brain,cos all her script was written by someone. I bet u what she said was either written or borrow from someone.
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True talk
Omega UK | 4/11/2012 3:24:02 AM |
Someone need to tell her the truth..
hmn
Sisi | 4/11/2012 5:56:58 AM
Nah wah oh
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nice
1 time | 4/11/2012 7:38:44 AM
njidika may god bless you for such a beautiful comment
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f**l
1 time | 4/11/2012 7:44:16 AM
shan goerge u better go work for sawmeal,or carry truck with this your muscles to be more rich,since what u earn from acting is not enough for you,how much did your father had before getting married to your mother,thanks to nollywood if not how would u have gotten in contact with any rich man
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she s crasy
rightmind | 4/11/2012 7:48:51 AM
she s very crasy , and people that believe in her r*****h , shan george who manage to suimrvive , now she s talking abiut poor, first and firsmost who s poor and what s poverty,if u dont know the meaning dont say it,i dont like people who forget thier past ,talking about poor men, i remember the time i dont money alot of girls and even boys dont see me as somebody ,but today now who i talk to will be happy bcs things have change , shan george u re dreaming
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Dont go out with a poor man
Apple | 4/11/2012 7:57:45 AM
Shan George you are very right....Especially in Nigeria i see a lot of men maltreat thier wives once they start making money, so women please shine your eyes..
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sure
spicy | 4/11/2012 10:11:31 AM |
Yes now... Wen a man is poor, u won't no his true color,wait til he begin 2 touch cash, d lady bcoms old fashion,afta al d surfer. Its not worth it Jor!
True but
Bright | 4/20/2012 2:04:21 AM |
Yes, but when a man is poor is hard to know his mind until his' rich, but that dosen't mean u should started running around for rich man to marry, all u need to do is to pray for God's favour and make sure his in love with you. Don't force ur self on any man
yes
LARRY | 4/19/2014 3:04:14 AM |
before the rich make money they where once poor dont forget that.....in this system of things no condition is permanent ......even shun George said she grew up in the village....with village sense and city sense funny lol Poverty affected her alot i dont blame her .......I will rather advice her to choose her words wen conducting an interview... because wen u have a low mental faculty and u happen to be in the right place at the right time and God smile at u dont run others down.......I notice one thing rich ppl go for s**t second hand.... but the poor man open the road....in her womb.......today she is proud....
Dont marry a poor man
Nikisha | 4/11/2012 8:19:44 AM
A man who is hardworking is not poor. But a man who is lazy will b poor weather he is rich now or not. All i will just advice d ladies here is dat, try to look into ur guy's future and see if he can make it trully. Dont suffer with any guy unless u have a good reason for dat and have it at d back of your mind dat u are doing it for God. If u have a guy who is not ready to work like other guys, he prefars staying at home most times, but always telling u that prophets said his future is bright, pls run for ur life.
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money 4 hand, back 4 down.
stewart | 4/11/2012 8:30:29 AM
is only in african, that money can buy love, i lives i eup. in which pple dont love 4 money, may god help nigeria, cos proverty is the reason why pple love for money.africa have a long way to go.
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mathers
asare isaac toronto yer | 4/11/2012 8:57:50 AM
want to come to u ard what is ur name
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bankrupsy!
zum | 4/11/2012 9:15:04 AM
What of if u marry a rich man today, and tomorrow he goes bankrupsy?.Will u leave him or stay with him,since u married him for his richness.Its ridicuous the way peuple think.Everybody is not destined to marry rich person,u can be poor today and tomorrow a milloniare.Likewise been rich today and poor tomorrow.Marry for love and not for money so that u can adapt at all situations.Sometimes life is not stable and what will u do.
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Poverty get level
Nnesexy | 5/5/2012 12:32:24 AM |
It depend on wher u r comin 4rm o! If u can't afford 2 place food on our table atleast 1 0 1 e no follow abeg
mather
stewart | 4/11/2012 9:17:37 AM
my name is SCANDINAVIAN.
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These of u dt tink money is all ar nt reason well cos whatever money, wtout peace is usless, 2 me undastanding matters
Zekeri | 4/11/2012 9:37:16 AM
Lve maters
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neverfall inlove witha poorman
steve | 4/11/2012 9:58:48 AM
shan george is it beacause u are lucky to an actress u dnt remember ur days in jibowu when u came back frm italy early 90s that time u was jumping frm one bed to another u dnt remember wat u did in zurich when u came to switzerland please stop deciving young girls that are nt yet married.
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facts
spicy | 4/11/2012 10:08:52 AM
Dats d true fact...she is not sayin a poor dude won't get rich moro buh wen dey are poor, dey can't appreciate love cos all dey wil b thinkin is how 2 make moni and d lady wil b there aging away,(who no like moni?)..Dis new era, dere is noting like ''lets hustle 2geda'' she is very correct! Shan gorge..aka village girl of dose days...lolzzz ur 2much dear!
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Eh eh.
WazMan | 4/11/2012 10:22:19 AM
Even this divorce machine dey advice her fellow ladies on how to go about marriage? Every woman is entitled to her own opinion,dont come and pollute the heart of the good once. After all they say evil communication corrupt good manner. Save ur advise for your self.
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NOW A BIG BOY
SHAN WS FUKE IN 2000 IN ODOFIN | 4/11/2012 10:34:56 AM
I WILL DISGRACE YOU SHAN GOERGE AND IF YOU READ MY POST YOU SURE WOULD REMEMBER I KNOW YOU. IN THE YEAR 2000 YOU CAME WITH AN IGBO GUY TO HIS HOUSE HE WAS BUILDING THEN AT AMUWO ODOFIN PHASE 2, WE WERE WORKING FOR THIS IGBO GUY AS LABORER, REMEMBER THAT THAT IGBO GUY F U C K E D YOU IN HIS UNCOMPLETED BUILDING THEN??. WE HEARD HOW THE WHOLE NOISE WAS COMING OUT FROM THE ROOM FILLED WITH DIRT'S YOU WENT IN WITH HIM.

PLEASE SHAN, YOU FAILED IN LIFE, YOU PURSUED MONEY AND YOU GOT IT BUT DEEP DOWN IN YOU YOUR DAMN UNHAPPY WITH LIFE CAUSE YOU JUST CANT RETURN TO WHERE YOU CAME FROM, A MAN IN YOUR LIFE YOU CAN HOLD ON TO AS YOU VERY OWN, NOT QUICKIES IN UNCOMPLETED BUILDING.

I HOPE YOU REMEMBER THAT DAY IN 2000 IN AMUWO ODOFIN PHASE 2??.
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SHAN
WHO CARES | 4/11/2012 10:42:53 AM
THIS IS ANOTHER SLUT THAT CALLS HERSELF AN ACTRESS, GRANMAMA WEY DEY ACT LIKE A KID, PLS GROW UP SO U CAN MAKE SENSE WHEN U SPEAK.
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SHAN
WHO CARES | 4/11/2012 10:47:39 AM
THIS IS ANOTHER SLUT THAT CALLS HERSELF AN ACTRESS. GRANDMAMA PLS GROW UP SO THAT U CAN MAKE SENSE WHEN U SPEAK.
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FINGERS WOULD HAVE BEEN EQUAL
MEG | 4/11/2012 11:50:17 AM
Y WERE THE FINGERS NOT EQUAL?
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take no advice from failures!!
solomon.... | 4/11/2012 2:02:33 PM
My little advice for men and women is, marry someone that shares the same vision with you, poor or rich, and learn to be independent . above all, God fearing man or women. Who ever love God will keep his law and thereby, committed to his or her partner ie in marriage or in business.
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Never marry a poor man
Juliet | 5/6/2012 11:43:25 PM |
I believe wat u said,young gals should go for guys dat hv desame vision as theirs
the bad guy
djtexas | 4/11/2012 4:31:44 PM
money is not everything.....ok so wht abt a rich man....a rich guy should not get married 2 a poor ladie abi..some celebrity re f*****g c***y,dat y dey beat u girls up every now n den....so money rules now no love again abi...f**k it girl....i cant blame her anyway,i just wonder how some people become a star...me i no be star,na guns i dey sell nd am proud of maself dan 2 con dey talk some s**t...INFACT f**k LUV f**k MONEY f**k SHAN......peace out...opps violence out........
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hmmmm
keee.... | 4/11/2012 7:24:27 PM
i am happy i am not poor anyway.....but what many ladies do not understand is that when a man has already made,.....yes he may marry u but believe me inside his heart he knows that u are only after him for me......he decides the way he wants to treat you.......
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money
brown yugo | 4/11/2012 9:36:27 PM
and u wonder y most of u r single n men keep cheating on u cos we knw most of u wnt date us if we dont have money,instead of thinking bout how to raise ur own stacks n be independent women of substance n make men respect u d more.ur dreaming bout a mans money like its urs
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money
timo | 4/15/2012 11:17:37 PM
She is just such a confused and f*****h lady ,in all her disapearance from movie scene all she could ever come up to say now is such crap.wonder if no one read her messaage befor broadcasting it .people need a lady who talks sense not a bed hopper like you if you ever have a concience you will apologise and say somthing senslble ,maybe you just needed people to comment on your page since you were abandoned in the movie industry you should have just said shan george is dead . And let us comment
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she need advice
na God | 4/20/2012 4:13:28 PM
make dis old ash*w* go die yo
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Marriage madness
Hope | 4/23/2012 8:24:20 AM
Hmmmmmmmmmm! Dnt really know wia 2stat. Wow! Marriage and money. They are both vice versa 4both guys and ladies. Each of dem at one point in time chase afta moni. A woman who started 4rm a poor background wt her husband can stand any s**t wt any man till wen God breaks dia fallow ground. Shan George has gone through so many which I suppose many ladies ave gone through and are still goin thru. U can neva blame her 4passing such comment.

As 4d guys starting Steve and others whose comments I read or dnt read. Dias dis mentality wt guys especially wen U spill out hot truth. I 4 one do not bliv in marriage wt money. Infact my own philosophy is dat I have 2b independent of my man as much as possible even if he can make some provisions here and dia. If one as a woman or as a man was once a p********e or one who dates married and older women be it wherever doesnt mean life will still remain thus. Those of U who think reminding one of his/her old life is not doin d right thing. Even if d person is still falling, everyone has his/her life and destiny to run as wt one's mental faculty. U dnt have to sound very insultive and barbaric to correct somebody. Dats Y pple dnt actually know how to make comments. WAT IS LIFE WTOUT CHALLENGES? One thing or d other surely can or will make one to pass which will and never suite U. Dnt 4get dat one's meet is anoda's poison. Just make Ur comment coz a good counsellor does make decision 4his/her counsellee except to spill out options. Shan, just kip d struggle but dnt 4get one thing, no mata d GATHERINGS, wtout God; U are damn lost!!!

My pple especially U can marry not necessarily till wen U are rich or in big money but wat is Ur mentality towards marrying a rich woman or one who has moni dan U? I know dia are ladies who can be very very very materialist but I tell wt my psychological calculations, guys fail in dat aspect coz they see dat as an opportunity to amass wealth. f*****hNESS!!!
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money
Bt let us believe in GOd | 5/5/2012 7:50:27 AM
Money or knw money let luv one another, wht u will knw is dat dnt 4get whr u started.
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neva love a poor man
abu | 5/5/2012 8:09:36 AM
pls shan u are creating a very bad impressing about dat i think that is y ur marriage has bin broken for twice if u find love anywhere pls go for it it takes two totangle anf bin submissive as a woman creat strong bound btween the two go read the book of 1timothy2v9-13 1peter3v1-5 u are not GOD to say who is poor or rich he might b poor but rich in d lord matthew5,1-11 so pls rephrase ur word thx oriloye abu
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neva love a poor man
abu | 5/5/2012 8:13:46 AM
pls shan u are creating a very bad impressing about dat i think that is y ur marriage has bin broken for twice if u find love anywhere pls go for it it takes two totangle anf bin submissive as a woman creat strong bound btween the two go read the book of 1timothy2v9-13 1peter3v1-5 u are not GOD to say who is poor or rich he might b poor but rich in d lord matthew5,1-11 so pls rephrase ur word thx oriloye abu
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neva love a poor man
abu | 5/5/2012 8:48:04 AM
pls shan u are creating a very bad impression about dat i think that is y ur marriage has bin broken for twice if u find love anywhere pls go for it it takes two tangle and bin submissive as a woman creat strong bound btween the two go read the book of 1timothy2v9-13, 1peter3v1-5 u are not GOD to say who is poor or rich he might b poor but rich in d lord matthew5V1-11 so pls rephrase ur word thx oriloye abu
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That doesnt matter
t.money | 5/8/2012 12:24:08 AM
if you love a poor man doesnt mean he is going to poor for the rest of his life now....so dont say that again.
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efi | 5/8/2012 2:32:06 AM
ou are saying this forum is not for promoting hatred, tribalism and grievance that anyone does that the administration will delete or comment. You are seeing the f**kin and b*****d lalaland and ediot lolo posting s****d things inthis site.
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Moni, shan n u lalaland n co.
Scarface | 5/14/2012 4:45:15 PM
Shan is very very very s****d, by dropn dis kind of comment! Decievin our single ladies here!!! Her name is, Shan bed hopper!!! Nt George!!! All she's after, is Pursuen men's bank Acc. Divoicee!!! Shan ask 4 God's wisdom, very! Important 4 ur life!
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Never marry a poor man
Ng bby | 5/22/2012 9:45:18 AM
Plz shan dnt give such advice, sm of us ar lukin up 2 u. D guy i'm wit now we startd smwhere, he was poor n i startd with, bt now he works in chevron n now i'm a very big woman 2 d envy of my frnds.n also hapi. Plz say smtin else n dnt discourage odas.
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Marry ur choice
CC | 5/25/2012 11:49:52 AM
s****d lady like u shan or wht eve u call u urself continue deceive single lady&let dem continue waitn 4moni till heaven comes down or wen dey reach dare normal time dt time dey will beg 4poor dey will nt even av d poor hw much more d rich,thk God 4nollywd if nt wil u tink of getn rich in urlife.(nonsense lady like u a full for 40 is full 4eve like shan).
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no romance witout finance
A.E Mathew | 6/15/2012 12:41:19 PM
the truth must be told our nigerian ladies are after money, alot of broken relationship and marriages today was as a result of lack of money. money rules the world even ur children will not respect you if you dnt have money. so SHAN GEORGE is right by saying never date a poor man.
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hmmm
sexy | 7/7/2012 2:19:53 PM
Shan is right. Poverty is of the mind.. And a poor man can't be rich.... It hasn't happened before except he wins a lottery which he will mismanage the funds... Cos he is a poor , poor in mind. He will marry u cos of ur money and either leaves u for another woman when he is done syphoning ur wealth or kill u to take all ur wealth. Evry day whe hear of men who killed their wives... Look deep they r usually poor lazy ass men married to hardworking women... Any body that faults shan should marry a poor man. Amen!
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u can fall in love wit a poor man
fazeyacool | 3/29/2013 3:32:05 AM
u gals shud knw dat one ting dats constant n life z change....a guy can b rich 2day nd bcome poor 2mao nd vice versa so it dsnt depend on money but in true happiness,love...money z d root of all evil
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adjide | 7/3/2013 4:06:25 PM
i liked what u said, Njideka. women actually are living under darkness. they get married for money and not for love, that is why the affairs do not go far. money is not everything in the life, sometimes lets do things by love and feeling.
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adjide | 7/3/2013 4:06:27 PM
i liked what u said, Njideka. women actually are living under darkness. they get married for money and not for love, that is why the affairs do not go far. money is not everything in the life, sometimes lets do things by love and feeling.
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adjide | 7/3/2013 4:06:28 PM
i liked what u said, Njideka. women actually are living under darkness. they get married for money and not for love, that is why the affairs do not go far. money is not everything in the life, sometimes lets do things by love and feeling.
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wise | 7/18/2013 11:55:57 AM
it true 2day ladies r afta money instead of luv.bcos dey lack vision.dey fail 2 realise woman is an help mate created by God 2 help man fulfil his purpose. my advise 4 u ladies prayerfuly luk 4 a man dats hv d fear of God,vision & purposeful in life
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Bound to fail without God
AB | 7/26/2013 1:46:48 PM
Wen God is not present in relationship is bound to fail. U cant give wot u dont have.dat is love 4rm God without any condition.
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shan money
Majordaniels | 8/5/2013 5:02:43 PM
De devil wud hav been a nobody in de eyes of our women,bt u see, dey hav given satan a place in their lives instead of God.De most fantastic deceptive weapon of all tym de devil is usin 2 decieve de world is money, which is de root of all evil.We all need money in dis life bt our lives do not depend on it bt on God. Seek God's wisdom so u can knw de ryt frm wrng,nd wisdom means evry gud tin. Tnk u all.
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money is just 30% determinant factor for a personality
agbaje Bolaji | 8/31/2013 6:27:38 PM
To an extent money should be considered when a rich woman is about to settle down with a man, but also the personality, ability to rise up of a man should also be put into consideration. A celebrity can use her connection to upgrade a well educated man whose assumed to be poor because a diamond is always in rough but when polished, valuable than gold. Even if someone steals a diamond it will just be like an ordinary stone in such persons possession unless she has the certificate of ownership.
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Shan is 100% correct
Nina | 1/12/2014 12:13:34 AM
The truth is always bitter.
Some months ago , when Shan George spoke out the truth about prawstitute married women , people condemned her as if people didn't know already that such married women fill everywhere ,not only in Nolyywood ; they are using their marriage as a camouflage for their prawstitution .
If you like curse Shan for this her comment here till 2morrow, Shan or any woman who refuses to marry a poor man is 100% CORRECT!
Please God , I pray, help us o, may I or any of my daughters and my sisters never be stewpid , mad enough to agree to suffer and sweat and cook fine, delicious soup for other women to come and eat it , to enjoy the soup and insult us on top of it !
Once men make it big, they become financial sponsors and sperm-donors to all sorts of beautiful , top-class gold-diggers and pregnancy-sellers.
Then they become expert and hardened womanisers with no regard for their wives!
All the big babes in the country and even the illiterate orange hawkers want to date them , marry them or at least bear children for rich men , just to get their own share of rich men's money. Some of these gold-diggers and pregnancy-sellers will do anything to send the wife who suffered to make the money , out of her marital home.

Take a survey of all the rich successful men in Nigeria and elsewhere in the world today and you will see that 98% of them , the wife or wives , or girl-friends enjoying with them today are not the women who suffered with them in their days of poverty. These rich men have abandoned and replaced those their poverty-loving first wives and girlfriends, long ago, as soon as after they saw money in their own pockets !
The 2% of rich men who have retained their first wives have done so not because they still love those women who suffered with them , but because these old wives have refused to leave , they have become husband -begging experts , shocks and insults absorbers!
Despite the many humiliation , insults , severe physical punishment and emotional trauma from their ungrateful now-rich husbands and even from their husbands' gold-digging current wives or girlfriends, these women are still in their husband's houses ; they have been put aside , they rarely see their husbands anymore , but they are STILL there hanging on for appearances sakes; for the sake of bearing "MRS" !

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@ Nancy , OMG! LMAO!
Wendy | 1/12/2014 1:05:49 AM
Nancy ! What ?! you wanna kill me with laughter !
But Jeez, my dear you nailed it GBAM ! Wow ! Good talk !
Life is so full of ungrateful people , especially men. It is unbelievable what men do.
Leave these idyiotic women and men who are condemning Shan's comments here.
They know NOTHING about men and they don't know JACK about human nature !
Mmmtscheeeewww!
But why are people pretending that this is news to them or that it is not happening?
The truth is that in every family in Nigeria or even in the whole of Africa , you must hear of at least one story about poor men who turned nasty and ungrateful towards their wives and girlfriends who suffered and struggled with them, once the poor , suffer-head men succeeded in making it big financially .
My prayers for all of you who have condemned the warning from Shan George here is that: you , your daughters and your sisters will surely MARRY poor men and SUFFER and STRUGGLE with poor men for many years , until the man becomes rich . Amen.
May God or is it Satan , make your brains DEAD so that you will be seriously in love with poor men ,so that you will marry struggling men and you will stay and suffer with them to build a marital home hand in hand , struggling with poor men .
May God see and hear your fasting and prayers for your darling poor man to become rich and then God will bless the poor man and make him hit a massive jackpot !
I mean , real serious big money. It is then you will see what is called "oh my God!"
Then you will see what will happen to you .
After then you will begin to see wonders from your "darling , loving , sweet , kind and God-fearing husband " before your very eyes , which you cannot believe ! Amen!
All you lovers of poor , struggling men please say AMEN to these prayers.
You can never know a man's real choices when he is poor and struggling.
If a man is rich and still loves you and stays with you as his wife , then you can be sure his love for you is genuine and you are his real choice for marriage
But not so with a poor man .You can never know a poor man's real choice in women
My dear ladies , you will not believe the changes you will see in your ex-poor husband or boyfriend, once he starts commanding money or he gets promotion to a big office !
It is only after your darling poor husband who you struggled with has made it BIG that your eyes will become clear as to what a c***y and phoolish woman you have been. Then and only then you will see the poor man you married in his true colours.
Then you will remember this truthful warning from Shan George and other women against marriage to poor men !
Then you suffer-head fphoolish women writing rhabbish here will know say khakhi no be leather , nama na meat e be !


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@ NOW A BIG BOY
Connie | 1/12/2014 1:51:10 AM
SHAN WAS FCKD IN AMUWO ODOFIN? Very funny!
And so what?
You are so crude in speech which you think is for disgracing Shan . You disgrace yourself . You are an illiterate tout , born by a mother who is a cheap prawstitute and your sisters and your wife are notorious sluts.!
Where was your own mother fcked by countless men before she concieved you ?
Have you forgotten ?
Your mother was fcuked on the bare mud, under some banana tree in the bush.
And your wife ? Who is fcuking her now? Too many men, she can't even count them !
Everybody knows your wife is a cheap w***e , selling pure water and selling herself to motor touts in motor parks all over the place.
Am sure your own wife , every day is fcked inside parked old, disused ,dirty molue buses in Lagos slums joints .People hear her and the men screaming for joy inside the dirty buses as they are doing it to her.
What do you say about all that?

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Shan George are u God?
Debby | 2/19/2014 3:26:53 PM
Shan George,
Are u God? when u marry a man for his money, u gain little respect from him but when u hv urs before getting married to him, him and his family respect u that is a God fearing man.
Pls dont believe on ur own wisdom cos money can vanish at anytime. So ladies pls marry a man that can give u happiness. May God help us.
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Nonsense
Adesegun | 8/5/2014 8:21:29 AM
I am highly disappointed in shan George's statement. No wonder her husband walked out of the marriage. Is she saying poor pple should remain single? Gals u better don't be deceived by someone who is not married, she just want u guys to remain single as she is for life
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