He frustrated me till I aborted the first pregnancy, now I’m pregnant again
Story by Adeola Agor
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I’m FT from Kano. I’ve been dating a guy since June last year and along the line I got pregnant and he rejected it. After he frustrated me so much I decided to abort the pregnancy. Some months later, he came back asking for forgiveness and I’m now three months pregnant for him again. Since I told him, he has hated me, abused and maltreated me like a slave. Please what do I do? Thanks.

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real pinapple | 5/12/2012 2:34:19 PM
Haba why u de allow him sleep with u without condom when he is not ready to marry you yet ? And why will u even allow ursef to get pregnant in the first place, there are contraceptives that will prevent pregnancy, so what kind of advice do u want again from us, cant u read the hand writting on the wall dat dis guy is not ready to be tied down with a child, or he does not have any interest to marry u. It is well use ur tongue count ur teeth afterall u don pass 18yrs
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Adamumu garba akamu
Adamumu garba akamu | 5/12/2012 10:12:43 PM |
Adamumu garba ode going about impregnating babes without taking responsibility of any.
f*****hness
hapiiiiiii | 5/12/2012 11:41:18 PM |
ur jst f*****h....
Stewpid woman
Lalaland | 5/13/2012 7:49:27 AM |
You are the epitome of what stewpidity is all about!! Mtcheewww!!!
real pin
Lalaland | 5/13/2012 7:48:48 AM |
Ah am surprised say you no tell the woman to just accept the man and take him as he is!!
lala
real pinapple | 5/13/2012 12:24:45 PM |
Lala the man never marry her mind u, and i no de support sex before marriage cos it can lead and cause so many bad things if the two parties do not take their time
Is a Pity
Nneoma | 5/21/2012 7:24:36 AM |
Pls don't abort again and i will advice that you give your life to Jesus and that will stop all these happening bcos the Holy Spirit will help you abstain from Fornication and abortion ok. Jesus Loves you
sex toy
mmm | 5/12/2012 2:39:13 PM
you are just his sex toys , simple. my advise to you is that dont abort the pregnancy so that you will not regret your life after many abortion..Nobody knows the future.
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Sex Toy
Trully | 6/19/2012 7:40:58 AM |
Thx so much MMM. This Morose does not not know she is being used by a criminal who doesn't cherish the precious gift of God whom people are scuttling for.

She should do away with that so the man will have an opportunity to put in another one.
na wa ooo
rev | 5/12/2012 2:44:07 PM
stay n get pregnant more, after ur last leason u no lean, den continu. Open leg 4 ram naw, but d guy sha!!!!
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na so
abuvivi | 5/12/2012 2:58:25 PM
Na another boy pregnant you no be this which advise you day fine go abort this one again then from the abortion you go come die
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what are u
gonna do now | 5/12/2012 3:37:04 PM
chillie your 2legs up, 4 de third Game.
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Ww
Kk | 5/12/2012 5:51:28 PM |
Stab him
I see
Model | 5/12/2012 5:53:45 PM
First f**l no b f**l but second f**l na real proper f**l. . . . .everytin wey de sweet go one day bitter. . . Still enjoy ur self d more. .
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why the pregnancy
eazy life | 5/12/2012 6:22:36 PM
Why should u get pregnant for the first time knowing fully well that u are not married to him.Secondly ,the relationship is still new,u need to give ur self more time to discover the character of the man u want to have a baby for.Dont allow any man to ridiculle u cos of ur selfish interest.
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Only God can direct you!
Y | 5/12/2012 8:50:35 PM
Ask God for forgiveness and direction about what to do next.
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dis girls
zedd toey | 5/12/2012 9:00:17 PM
All I sens hia is dis girl mst b an idle liability who is desperate 4osin hersf on d poor guy 4gtin dat no leg no trek. an dis guy cudn't see futur in dat bt usin her as his sexua objet. So my take on dis is gt rid of dat s**t an go a tota seprate way wif d guy 4 he dosnt lov u. try an b mor ambitous an liv a highly priced lyf 2 make him kno u'r wot dyin 4.
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Na wa o
Prety-pre | 5/13/2012 2:05:09 AM
U b mumu o y did u acept him nd mumu-ishly got prgnant 4 him!
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Enuf
Debra | 5/13/2012 3:01:20 AM
From all dis statement,mainly guys gave d right advice,bt some girls ar bsy here calin her mumu.as if they ar so special.some av done more than 5 abortions in d name of been smart,arnt they d most s****d ones.women ar weaker in nature especially wen it cmes to luv.we ar easily deceivd unless u av got d experience ones.pls u girls shuld stop calo her mumu rada advice her on wat to do
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truth
debra | 5/13/2012 4:57:51 AM |
may God bless u


debra
hapiiiiiiiiii | 5/13/2012 5:12:50 AM |
u no get sense
Hapi
Debra | 5/17/2012 1:53:56 PM |
Thunder blast ur brain f**l
MUMU
Apple | 5/13/2012 4:35:39 AM
MUMU! f**l! ODEH! OLODO!...........
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f*****h GIRL
GEJ | 5/13/2012 7:12:01 AM
YOU ARE A BIG FOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLL. IF YOUR MAMA ABORTED YOU HOPE YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN ALIVE TO SAY THIS NONSENSE. I REPEAT YOU ARE A BIG FOOOOOOOLLLL.
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evil
fitness | 5/13/2012 7:16:44 AM
na prick dey hungry you baa. you will let the guy condemn your life. stop terminating pregnancy it is a sin. u be asheewooo
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no b ashew.....
yellowpawpaw | 5/13/2012 8:32:41 AM |
if you de do am ,she e de sweet you too? Mistake can happen, so advice correctly.
pregnancy
yellowpawpaw | 5/13/2012 8:17:28 AM
My girl, I advice you keep d pregnancy and have dat child, cos you don't know if it will b your last. Besides, it was all it fault.
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condom
yellowpawpaw | 5/13/2012 8:25:45 AM
from smell of mess we know how s**t go smell. Man dump you first time cos of belle, and you f......shly go back go do without condom.
men are very deceitful, with their sweet tongue, but try to stand and protect ur image as a lady, incase of next time.
I had similar problem, and my baby is 1yr old now, so kp. Urs.
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Abeg
U baba | 5/13/2012 10:55:41 AM
Go sit for ground na person tell you to de fouk any how or u been no no say belle go come continue de wire until de hole close.
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well well well
GLOBE | 5/13/2012 11:27:53 AM
Abort it again, and wait for his apology,
and please be ready to forgive him, when he came back asking for forgiveness!
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globe
zedd toey | 5/13/2012 12:13:50 PM |
Shut dat trap an 4k boko haram
Pregnant
Gallant baby | 5/13/2012 7:19:19 PM
Pls my dear jus kep d pregancy n tel him mayb he wil change his mind bt b careful incase of nxt tym.
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keep it
uj | 5/14/2012 12:35:01 AM
please my dear keep it, it a gift from God. keepit. if he comes back than is ok,
if didnot than is also ok. because life goes on. how many women re marrieged in nigeria? even in the world without a child. you just keep.
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HELLO
SUNDAY IGHOYOTA COUSIN | 5/14/2012 2:08:55 AM
You should be ashamed of yourself, you sell your body as if you are the owner of it by having sex with a man that has not yet marry you right? This is the result for fornication my dear, you have killed one before and that blood will definitely be required from you. I advice you to keep this one even if your sinful lover boy will not want you to keep.
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Pregnant
Incheew | 5/14/2012 5:56:24 AM
If I where u I will keep this baby and work very hard to take good care of him/her. You never know what will become of him/her in the future. Time will surely tell. Never mess your self with such s****d men again!!
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God's word
lizzy | 5/14/2012 1:07:32 PM
D bible says we shld flee frm fornication. D reason is 4 our gud u can c wat u're goin tru now d agony, d pain nd rejection . I urge u 2 pls giv ur life 2 Jesus nd obey is commandment. Who am I 2 condemn u. Of course I won't do dat. My first advice is 4 u 2 surrender 2 Jesus completely, ask 4 4givness . He wil 4giv u becos is merciful nd jst 2 4giv u all ur sins nd bring everlastin joy into ur life. Secondly, do not abort d pregnancy whether he accept it or not never go 4 abortion cos if u do u've not only comitted fornication bt murderer nd its written in d book of exodus among d ten commandment dat thou shall nt commit adultery, thou shall nt kill so my sister my advice 2 u is never 2 think of abortion nt 2 talk of goin 4 an abortion. Keep d baby nd who knws wat 2morrow may bring. May God b wit u.
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An advice to my friends
Ada | 5/15/2012 5:21:59 AM
H. I. V. Aids is really stop playing around with your bodies b4 play,,play uu
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Dnt abort it
Benny | 5/15/2012 5:54:29 AM
Haba, y did allow a second chance after he had made u undergo an abortion, babe is nt wise nah. But my advice 2 u is 2 kip ds 1 cos u dnt kno wot 2moro holds 4 u.
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Ijsexy7
Soso | 8/13/2012 2:15:14 AM |
My dear friend ,don't abort d child coz if u do u are comitting murdering and 4 d guy he is not meant 4 u. so keep d Child, don't abort d baby and 4get about d guy, even if he comes back again 4give him but don't accept him.
Pls dont abort dis because u dont knowe what tomorrow will be,as for de guy let God be his judge.
Faith uchenna | 5/15/2012 6:41:00 AM
Pls dont abort it u dont know what God has in store for u and dat baby,as for de man let God be his judge.
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Pls dont abort dis because u dont knowe what tomorrow will be,as for de guy let God be his judge.
Faith uchenna | 5/15/2012 6:41:43 AM
Pls dont abort it u dont know what God has in store for u and dat baby,as for de man let God be his judge.
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born the baby
bb. | 5/15/2012 7:29:16 AM
deliver the baby.and get ready for the third because he is coming back for the third game to play...just be an object of satisfaction to him or another.u think u want use pregnancy hold him for marriage is impossible..
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Why should try such again u be mugu
Chisom | 5/15/2012 11:43:08 PM
Y do u allow her to take d advantages of u again.ar u a kid.u hv to sort ur self out.my advance is never u try to abort the child.if u cant hv d child wen born this is my number kal me 07061042360 den i can hv it
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Why should try such again u be mugu
Chisom | 5/15/2012 11:46:28 PM
Y do u allow her to take d advantages of u again.ar u a kid.u hv to sort ur self out.my advance is never u try to abort the child.if u cant hv d child wen born this is my number kal me 07061042360 den i can hv it
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kill ur self!
odiblo | 5/19/2012 4:35:32 AM
kill ur self! because u can never take our advise. .u go swear say that guy dick no dey sweet u. kill ur self because ur the one in love.
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Not 2b aborted
Cocolet | 5/21/2012 7:31:19 AM
Why is't that gals dnt want 2 stop bein emotional wit somthings lik this,she mayb emotional naw dat she is soppos 2 get on her fit nd knw 2 go abt everytins.he wil want u 2 abort dat baby bt pls dnt cos u dnt knw wat da feature holds 4u nawoooo.
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keep it.
NK | 5/22/2012 3:23:09 PM
pls keep d baby. Do not terminate it but plsss be CAREFUL
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Leave dat man
Lady g | 5/24/2012 8:03:33 PM
Leave dat man n his house, more ova u're nt marrid 2 him, wy are u living with him? If u're there xpect more abortions cos he isnt goin 2 marry u, tink girl.
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27-5-2012; 05:17
Ije | 5/27/2012 9:17:51 AM
Dear pls don't remove d pregnancy ok,have it. And stay away 4rm dat guy,he will be d one coming to u . Do not hav sex wt him ok
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Used ur girl
Faith | 5/27/2012 10:42:44 AM
My dear used ur head &dont abort it cos u dont kw who dey child is going 2 b in future, leave dat guy he dont luv u, as 4 guy i no blame u u only sabi 2 f**k bt u dey fear baby may God arrest u where eva u r
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Were u drunk!
Flaky | 5/29/2012 9:54:35 AM
Were u drunk when the man was having sex with u again, use ur number six and dump this man now. Stop aborting, you may be damaging ur womb.
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Whao
Fads | 5/29/2012 12:45:26 PM
Pls,dnt try 2 abort it God wil help u 2 take gud kia of d child.It's well
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Whao
Fads | 5/29/2012 12:46:00 PM
Pls,dnt try 2 abort it God wil help u 2 take gud kia of d child.It's well
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na wah
hotcinqy | 6/2/2012 1:45:57 AM
u be mumu,how guy go do like that u gop sleep with am again.ODE
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Chai! yaa
Precious | 6/6/2012 4:39:26 AM
Mi dear God wil be ur strenght ok,jst kpi d baby nd as 4 dat big 4 nutn guy,God wil arrest him!
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That baby is a gift from God!
Uchay | 6/7/2012 3:11:15 AM
My dear, people make mistakes..There's no need to cry over split milk. the only thing you can do now is to give your life to Christ and He will make a way for you.
please dont abort that baby and make another mistake. That baby is from God and your chance of correcting your past mistakes.
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Dont about it
Donsabs | 6/12/2012 2:57:15 AM
The mistakes hav be done ensure u did not abort ur baby cos he may be last one cos there is joy in motherhood. As 4 guy ask God 2 charge him but next time know who u open ur legs 4.
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He still care about u!
Blessing | 6/17/2012 8:37:13 PM
God still loves u, my dear keep that child and forget about the guy. I understand your feelings but don't worry because i know that God will help u. D right man wil come at the right time. This is what love can cause. Pls be careful, a man that really love u wil always have respect for ur body. Stay cool dear. Love u:-)
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Hmmmm
Etima | 6/18/2012 7:28:13 AM
God will hv mercy on u,dnt abort it cos u dnt no wot dat child u b,is a pity
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hhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaa
sarah | 6/20/2012 3:23:35 PM
give him a dirty slap
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Keep the pregnancy
Harmony | 6/26/2012 3:52:27 AM
Please my dear,keep the child.go to d welfare n report him.dnt allow him to have sex with u again. God is ur strength. He ll c
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pregnancy
vio | 6/30/2012 4:27:51 AM
My sister if u know u want to drop ur replica in life b4 u leave this life pls keep the pregnancy and leave d b***h. but if u just want to come to this life and go empty handed it is left unto u. but remember God will require of u.
the man is not fit to be called a man . Also remember that someone gave birth to u so it is COMPULSORY u do like wise. a word is enouh for d wise
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Hi pals
Brave | 7/20/2012 3:18:17 AM
What is d name of the contraceptive for preventing pregnancy
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lydjoe
QUESTION THAT NEEDS AN ANSWER | 8/15/2012 1:28:14 AM
YOU ARE ASKING FOR WHAT TO DO.... HANG YOURSELF INSTEAD OF KILLING THE POOR BABY. YOU ARE ALREADY A MURDERER I THINK YOU SHOULD BE THINKING OF HOW TO ASK FOR FORGIVENESS
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u r d cause of it
uchechi | 9/7/2012 11:10:27 AM
y did u allowd him 2 touch u again huh after wat he did 2 u. First prenancy is a mistake bt 2nd is f*****hnx. So carry ur cross ursef nd stop seekin 4 advice. I b/live if u remove dis 1 nd he cums bk 2 beg u again u will f*****hly accept.
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hey girl
stelma | 4/17/2013 8:52:59 AM
hey........Girl face it you messed up big time, after what you went through the first time? well you deserve what you are getting now is he the only man alive . I the only advise I for you is have your baby and never go back to him again not even he comes back shading blood
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uFckKBdamUUUeLMVEkO
Allie | 5/22/2013 10:22:41 PM
Plaeinsg you should think of something like that
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