My Girlfriend Says She doesn’t Love Me Like She Used To – Please Advice

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Last Updated:Thursday, January 17, 2013

Dear NFC,

I am a 21-year-old man in a relationship with a 29-year-old woman. It started romantically and we quickly became serious. A few months ago, when I made a passing comment about how I wasn’t sure if we would be together for the rest of our lives, her reaction made me think she felt the same and that we were just in this “for the moment”, which suits me fine.

However, after this I noticed she wasn’t being as affectionate. When a little drunk I asked if she still loved me. She said “not like I used to”. I am devastated. she doesn’t want to split up and says she may fall in love with me again.

Should I wait or cut my losses and try to find someone who does love me?

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my girlfriend says she doesn't love me
dick
1/17/2013 9:09:02 AM
God will see u thru
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my girlfriend says she doesn't love me
dick
1/17/2013 9:09:29 AM
God will see u thru
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my girlfrd said she donot love
dibor cha cha 07060515534
2/9/2013 2:55:52 AM
many be she donot love u
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you got time to get prepared.
chibuzo
1/17/2013 9:26:47 AM
You are lucky. Mine broke up with me. At least she still harbors some love for you. Be happy with the little you get, i think that will give you enough time to prepare yourself for a break up. That TIME is what i didn't get but you have got it.
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My response
Trikish Tre (TT)
1/17/2013 9:42:57 AM
I think you should just be patient perhaps you need to try and win her love back by wooing her or being a little bit more affection to her, if you feel that she is slowly loosing interest in you try to show appreciation to her by buying her nice gifts, show her your interest and give her

loads of attention ladies love that!! and most importantly try as much as possible to communicate lack of communication kills a relationship you need to tell each other how you

really feel about yourselves at any point in time that way if there is any making up to do or any unresolved issues at hand it can be taken care of as soon as possible
I hope this helps
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WETIN
GOGOME
1/17/2013 10:34:52 AM
NONSENSE,PLS NEXT!!
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no think too much,she would come back
Eg
1/4/2014 4:00:41 AM
na ocho
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Love is about Understanding
Nintag
1/17/2013 11:39:48 AM
If i read your comment loud and clear it seems that this is not a love issue but communication issue. Understanding were both of you stand in your relationship. It also sound like you are assuming too much. Communicate heart to heart and talk about your future together. To me it seems your woman is hardheaded and very proud and to express herself to you completely is base on what you said. You also need to consider the age gap between you two. though age is nothing but a number age also deal with experience. so in another word she has gotten the experience and know how to psychologically make you think more than you should. She is madly in love with you least a 29 years old woman will have noting to do with you. Now truly ill advice on your behavior as well. your maturity in this relationship. a 29 years old don't have time with a child game. So if you have any childish behavior in you ill advice you get reed of them and become a man rather than a boy. Thank you Bought to you BY NINTAG.com
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hmmmmmmmmm
jones
1/17/2013 12:15:31 PM
Useless talk
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dnt give up
zee
1/17/2013 12:15:45 PM
If u real lov her dnt gve up on her
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dnt give up
zee
1/17/2013 12:16:09 PM
If u real lov her dnt gve up on her
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This Lazy Lover
Mr Goodluck Ekwensi
1/17/2013 12:41:51 PM
There are many fishes in the ocean,so shine your eyes well well.
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Mother n child
Liliano
1/17/2013 12:46:01 PM
Dat 'passing comment' of ur is deadly...u shld kno dat out a billion meaninles words spoken,only few meaningful words are undastud n dat meaninful words were 'not spending d rest of ur lives 2geda'. 21yr old man listen,u aint ready 2 conform 2 family life,go catch fun wit girls of ur age grade,allow 29yr old lady 2 find n settle down wt a mature man...she wants 2 settle n start her own famly...period!
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economies
kemisolah
1/17/2013 1:24:48 PM
Both are not. Ser
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Funny
Nikky
1/17/2013 3:55:28 PM
Both are not ser.... U are a young boy , let her go and settle down with are mate.
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He need prayer!
makky
1/18/2013 6:17:45 AM
21yr old boy is a disgrace to his own mother.God have mercy.
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Garden of fun
Chizzy
1/17/2013 10:53:16 PM
Dear z jst child's play go luk 4 ur age mate & leave d poor lady 2 luk 4 ha agemate.so bear in mind dat she dnt luv u bt she lust. Funny pple playin childz play all in d name of luv.
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MY Girlfriend say she does'nt
uche E
1/17/2013 11:11:03 PM
My brother i don't have mush to say, u said dat u are 21y y she is 29y plc run 4ur life ok she is ur mother
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What?
Chy
1/18/2013 4:38:57 AM
U are a boy mind u and not a man, u are to concentrate on ur studies now and not this rubish u are doing with someone as old as ur auny. pls go and study and get useful to urself and people around u.
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story
charles
1/18/2013 6:44:47 AM
greedy f*****h boy with
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story
charles
1/18/2013 6:46:53 AM
greedy f*****h boy lusting after something bigger than his little brains
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u no get fear
chinwe
1/18/2013 12:24:00 PM
So there is no fear in u ?so u dey chop what ur uncles are eating?abeg u r too young for a lady at her 29.pls say someting more serious here.
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MY Girlfriend say she does'nt
my opinion
1/18/2013 5:20:12 PM
i believe u should forget it because at 29 a woman wants a man to settle down with and knowing most 21 year olds they r not ready for that kind of thing so is better u let it go now before someone gets really hurt and u still have time so go on sew ur seeds ;)
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4GET
KONEL
1/21/2013 1:40:33 AM
AT UR AGE. I THINK U SHLD 4GET ABT LOVE AND FOCUS ON WAT TO BE IN FUTURE, U AR A SMAL BOY, AND HOW DOES IT FILL ON TOP OF A WOMAN DAT IS 8 YRS OLDER THAN URSELF.
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Forget her
Joy 2013
1/21/2013 5:01:12 AM
Smell it boy<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< that woman is already satisfied with the volume of blood she has sapped from you and of course your boyish love irritates her right now. She is on her way for another fresh sap. Too sorry.
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I can help
Tunde
1/24/2013 7:39:15 AM
Give me her phone number so i can help you talk to her..
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I can help
Tunde
1/24/2013 7:45:02 AM
I have what she want, Give me her phone number so i can help you talk to her.. I am 33 and i need a mature girl of 21, so i can be of help: hope she is pretty with big ass and b**bs with no dont send it o thanks
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21 & 29
mike
1/25/2013 5:15:27 AM
what are u doing with a 29yrs old woman, women gets older than men quickly, and besides u are too young for all these, your mate are in the university, and if you need a woman she shld be between 18 and 21 like you.

I hope what killed ur grand father will not kill you. sorryooo fullest f**l of the universe
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Wonders shall never seize
Omolara
2/7/2013 3:53:49 AM
eee see dis guy o 29 years old lady wonders shall never seize,am sure u won't mind my grandma i beg let go jare and go for a better one.
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Greed kills
Martins Joe
3/23/2013 8:51:02 AM
Pls my friend,learn hw 2 cut ur coat according to ur size.[ mind u dat every shoe has a size] THINK WELL & LISTEN 2 D WORDS OF D ELDERS>>small boy.
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how i got back my husband
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3/27/2013 1:53:26 PM
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God
R truth
10/1/2013 1:20:16 PM
Oooo boy the girl don use ur fresh blood finish go and marry ur age girl like u
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too early
nells
10/4/2013 12:42:48 AM
my dear age is not what counts in a relationship, but age counts when it come to the choice of a life partner... you are just 21 so for me i think you have seen nothing and too young to think of if you both are perfect match. what you feel for her is infatuations... take your time and get over it.
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GOD HELP
STARRIEST
10/17/2013 12:35:05 AM
Eeeeeeyaaaaaaa am sori o bros as 4 me i tink u should go nd luk 4 anoda gal bcoz dat grndmoda is older dan u ooo.
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i must tell u the truth
Ernest
11/1/2013 7:53:15 PM
i must tell u the truth ur my fellow guy. A 29yrs old lady is ready to settle down n not having a fling. She has seen a whole lot of differnt classes of men both rich, working class and middle class men. but for ur age 21yrs u are still an undergraduate n am sure she has as well graduated n even gotten her masters n working so dont u c that u are a set back to her. My guy are u normal please get real n reason like a man. unless ur dir becos of her money else there is no future between u too. u better back out before it becomes late. thats my honest advice from me to u cos ur my fellow guy.
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Lolz
jacy
11/19/2013 4:10:23 PM
Hahahaha
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re-think
pricklong
12/6/2013 7:25:29 PM
oh boy I have read your story my advice for you is for you to go and look for yourmate she don't have anything to do with you again you are not banging her the way you use to.the speed has drop f**k her very well she we change her mind.are you not afraid when you see the p***y
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gal frd at ur age
maureen adanwa
4/19/2014 2:11:23 PM
ar u nt ashame of ursef,talking abt love at ur age,i***t.post sth beta pls.u dey climb ur mama
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