Aisha Babaginda's 2nd marriage Collapsed!

Story by Babajide Ogunbumi/Nigeriafilms.com
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Last Updated:Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Nigeriafilms.com has gathered through the streetjournal that the second marriage of Aisha, the beautiful first daughter of Nigeria’s former military President, General Ibrahim Babangida has hit the rocks.

The marriage that gathered the creme-de-la-creme of the society in 2008 is dissolved due to irreconcilable differences.

Aisha who was married to Alhaji Aliyu Shinkafi, the former Governor of Zamfara State had earlier been married to Basheer Nalado Garba, a nephew to the late Head of State, General Sani Abacha.

The marriage attracted celebrities from all over the world to the General’s Hill Top Mansion back in September 2003 with friends and cronies of the gap-toothed General jostling to outdo each other in terms of gifts. The marriage however packed up three years after. The couple had a child. Though there had been speculations that all was not well with the union before the eventual break up, it took Aisha’s decision to revert to her maiden name to convince many that the marriage had actually ended and had been officially dissolved.

Though many reasons were adduced to the short life span of that marriage, close sources to the family disclosed that the former President’s daughter displayed some attitudes that sparked off a major disagreement with her husband. One of such was her alleged decision to travel abroad when her baby was to be weaned, against Basheer’s wish and marriage cracked.

After some time, Aisha found love again. Before long, there was another gathering at the Hill Top Mansion when she got married as the third wife of Muhammad Aliyu Shinkafi, the then Governor of Zamfara State. The marriage was contracted in April 2008 and a little less than five years after, Aisha is single again. Concerned parties are still keeping mum on the issue and what led to it.

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Thief Money
Chakachaka
3/19/2013 5:06:44 PM
The girl is used to "barrells" of money and if it is not rolling, she will quit. Na Banagida's daughter so we should not ecpect the norm from her.
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Mamangida's daughter
Sly
3/19/2013 9:57:10 PM
So what? Don't give a freaking crap.
Second base fun mi jare.
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Incompartibility
Ugo
3/19/2013 11:41:54 PM
If u ask me, the 2nd attempt was not marriage. The man had 2 wives already. Hiw was she going to cope as the 3rd. She went in there out of confusion.


Reason for break up wt the first is flimsy. How can decison to travel abroad wreck a home? Was she planing to live there for good?

Anyway, she is still young and may be lucky to find a third man. Perhaps the 3rd one will be the one she will find chemistry with. U never know.

Many marriage breakups is just imcompatibility and not that the person is bad or not marriageable.
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incompatibility
kay
3/20/2013 1:37:52 AM
u are on point. very matured way of reasoning.
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"THEN " GOVERNOR
MOVEON.ORG
3/20/2013 6:07:01 PM
The "then" Governor., 'THEN' IS THE OPERATIVE WORD!
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I wan marry her...
Chief ajagba
3/19/2013 5:20:00 PM
Na this woman I love well well. NFC I beg help me with her number na make I call her. Chaiiii I go help ein papa finish ein stolen wealth wella and help am go early grave. Raw bush pepo
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Give your life
Jolade
3/19/2013 6:04:55 PM
Aisha what I am telling you is not a cliche, it is what you need. Give your life to Christ and He will give you a wonderful life. You can't choose a lide partner on your own.The powers that are fighting you is called 'ogun idile' they are bigger than money. They only respect the name of Jesus. After giving your life, go to Dr Olukoya in MFM. Dr Olukoya is not a man who talks anyhow, he will keep your issue secret, the most important thing is that the issue is resolved once and for all, when the devil wants to bring recurrent shame, you go to the one that us greater.JESUS. You will make it if you forget about the past and go and cry to God. I am talking out of experience. Since the Lord chose my man for me I have had peace.
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Really dont agree
Ugo
3/19/2013 11:52:38 PM
Is it really that a power is fighting her, or is the women who bring unhappiness to their lives by marrying for the worng reasons?

Mány times we dont look b4 we leap. We marry bcos we are running out of time or for other reasons like money and class. Then when the marriage collapses we start blaming some powers.

Marriage should be based on true love and compartibility. Many time we are not patient enough to find these qualities bcos of societal pressures
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Jolade shut ur mouth
cool
3/20/2013 1:39:06 AM
Are christians n pastors not divorcing n doing bad things after giving their lifes to christ. dumb ass
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cool
Sade
3/20/2013 4:43:07 PM
When you want to buy good stuff do you refuse to buy it because fake stuff exist. Who told you that all christians and all pastors are knowledgable. If you have been through college you must have noticed that some had first class, some barely passed and some failed woefully. If you have read the bible, didn't you notice there were 5f*****h virgins and 5 wise virgins.So why are you talking as though you don't live in the real world. Are there not christian marraiges that are working perfectly. I expect you to know that the marraiges of the below haven't crashe. Pastor Adeboye, Bishop Oyedepo, TD Jakes, Fredrick Price and thousands more. So why are you talking like an ignoramous. Think deeply before you insult people.
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cool
Jolade
3/20/2013 5:17:56 PM
I am extremely delighted to first reply someone like Ugo. Ugo must be a refined person who probably has a college degree or even a doctorate. This is because Ugo intelligently canvassed the point. If I were to argue on this website, I'll rubb minds with people like Ugo. Cool you are somewhat unrefined. I don't know how old you are but I think you must be about 12years old or thereabout, I'm picking this up from your unrefined expression on matters. Ugo is partly right, people make bad decisions, sometimes evil forces work on people, have you ever thought of who told you to lie, steal, fornicate or get involved with the wrong relationship. You listened to a voice via whatever means, thought, friends, family, tv etc. So Ugo has a second point. But cool needs full total and unadulterated deliverance from a concept called ignorace, it's victims are called ignoramous.Sade has explained to you, hope that helps you. Not all christians and pastors are walking right, isn't that why Jesus will still deny some even on the last day, even you. I am sure your wonderful parents thought you not to use the word 'dumb ass' but you decided to use it, that should tell you that not all learn and those who don't will soon fall. Before you get yourself into trouble, read Ugo's comment, do a comparative analyses and let Ugo teach you how to write and express a contrasting opinion. No matter what you write I won't reply you because I am afraid of coming down to your level. Ugo is wise, learn from the wise cool Learn Learn. that's how to write. Take care of yourself cool and don't forget your manners.
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NFC, more news on IBB'S pickin
Hot
3/21/2013 12:02:22 PM
Wao! Hot arguement! NFC bring us more news on this woman! I like the debate going on here! Jolade, Ugo, sade and cool all made good points. Just that cool is taking it personal.
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SHE CANNOT MARRY A POLYGAMIST!
Tay
3/19/2013 7:14:16 PM
when I heard Aisha married this ex-governor, i laughed. I knew it will not last.
How could the daughter of Mariam and Ibrahim Babaginda survive in a polygamous setting? No way!
Her late mother , Nigeria's former glamorous first-lady , was very unhappy about the idea of her daughter marrying a polygamist.
She said to the hearing of everybody and from the wedding pix , you could see that Mariam was pretending to be smiling.
If there was anything that the late first lady hated , it was polygamy and abandonment and ill-treatment of wives by their husbands.
During her tenure as first lady , the late Miriam laid down the rule about this to ALL the state governors and other top officers of Babagidda's cabinet.
Aisha , though a muslim , is not your typical muslim woman. She is a top-class , highly-educated and widely-travelled Nigerian woman with Western / Christian values when it comes to love and marriage.
Most of all , Aisha grew up in a loving home atmosphere of one man , one wife. Her father was not a polygamist and her parents were happily married till her mum died . So Aisha had no experience of the horrors and dirty politics of polygamy!
Aisha is too polished for all that nansense.
My advice is she should not bother to remarry , ever again
It is not worth her time and effort.
Thank God she has children . What else does she want?
Where would she get a decent muslim man who will treat her well in a polygamous set-up which they all operate?
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RE
Omo aus Deutschland!
3/19/2013 11:23:47 PM
Thank you! End of discusion!
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she married a polygamist
kay
3/20/2013 1:42:17 AM
u are very correct on this issue of polygamy.
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she can not marry a polygamist
Tay Tay
3/20/2013 8:13:50 AM
U know not what u are talking about. Were u at the wedding? if there was any1 that encouraged her, it was her late mom, her father was so reluctant to come out of the house for the wedding. Yes IBB didnt marry many wives cos of mariam's highhandedness, did that stop him from having other children outside of his home? No, he has like 3 known kids out of his matrimonial home. and according to pple in the know, he is very gay.
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she cannot marry a polygamist
tay
4/26/2013 9:40:47 PM
Tay, but she did !!!! with the highly education, polished loving home and family.... oh yea!!!! for real you think so!!!!... oooooh the late Maryam Babangida was against the ill treatment of women and polygamy in the Babangida carbinet... she wasn't happy with the marriage..... question is my dear, if this Aisha was so polished and highly and well travelled as proclaimed, why get romantically involved with a twice married man in the first place..... From a loving home..... why wasn't that an example for her in her first marriage... it is not about the wedding day, but it is about when all the guest are gone, and you both take off your wedding attires... that's when the challenges of marriage begins, obviously she had no time for that.....if there was morals in her, why go ahead with the 2nd, if she knew her mum was against it, why did Maryamm attend in the first place? yes Maryam Babangida was the so called only wife , to BaBangida himself and her first husband right? well WRONGGGGGGGG!!!!!! Maryam was married to Bognus Isikwe of then Gongola state , now Benue.... they had a son. And very well in her marriage with him, when she herself started this torrid affair with a young Brigedier called Ibrahim Badamosi-Babangida. she left her husband for him. As well as her son they both had together , who was later shot down at the gates of Dodan barracks Lagos. The army officer who did it , claimed he didn't know he was the one, how can?.....This is why Maryamm Babangida's first husband sang.... oh mary yamma, my darling maria, maria yamma my baby woman, am forever be your man,when i see mariaaaaaaaaaaaa, then i will feel so glaaaaaaadddddd!!!! this was a hit in the 70's as well as in Africa.. even BBC London..played that track, it was such a beautiful, loving emotional song.... Bognus Isikwe is still alive today to testify, he still sings to this day, a great singer, a living legend.... where is Maryamm Babangida today?... is Ibrahim Badamosi still the president of Nigeria today?, when he tried to come back, what happened?.... so you see Maryamm Babangida isn't the right person or in the right position to be against this union, simply because her daugther naturally inherited her mother's triats......in conclusion... NA BIG MAN PIDKIN, A WHOLE PRESIDOR DAUGHTER , DOES ANY ONE EXPECT HER TO BOW DOWN OR MAKE HER MARRIAGE WORK, SHE THOUGHT SHE COULD OUT DO THE OTHER WIVES.... WRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!
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aisha ibb
mulikatcardoso
3/19/2013 11:52:16 PM
Is very good for her,in her first marriage she was the only wife,the man love her so much,just the way are parents are marry,her mother was the only love and wife of the father ,even after die ,he refused to marry any woman. she pack out and want to be first lady,even in only state first lady,by marry a man with 2 wifes b4,she took over all the older wife, she became only first lady, push the 2 wifes aside, now divorce,is very good for her, next time she think b4 rush to be nr.3 wife just of first lady,better beg ur first husband if is still signle or he have place for u again.
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ME
SHES TOO POLISHED.
3/20/2013 12:20:51 AM
"AISHA IS TOO POLISHED FOR SUCH NONSENSE". I LOVE THE WAY THAT SOUNDS MAN.I LOVE SOPHISTICATED AND POLISHED WOMEN, I REALLY DO CAUSE THEY HAVE A WAY OF BRINGING OUT THE BEST IN A MAN, A WISE MAN I MEAN.
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JUST FOR NOW
ODM
3/20/2013 1:45:31 AM
She be polished for now but not for long if she is going to hop from one man to another. she needs to search her inner soul to know what she wants with her life. Too polished for such nonsense and she got married as a third wife. Comeon wake up and smell the coffee.
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Aisha Babangida
Apple
3/20/2013 1:55:39 AM
As the guy no be Governor again she don waka leave am....yeye family. You need to see the way she forth the first wife, her late mother made sure she pushed her into that marriage because of first ladyship.
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Rotten apple
Kudirat
3/20/2013 3:22:32 AM
Amebo kill you!! Were you there? You people on this site should watch what you post.Alha is watching you all.
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na wah o
chibuzo
3/20/2013 5:04:03 AM
i still do not understand why people get married and get divorced. If a guy/lady is not a perfect match then why not stay single/free. I see no difference in living together and getting married. My relationship must be akin to marriage before even considering it. I expect some conflicting points against this but that is how i see it. One more thing i thought things like things do not exist within the hausa people. It is an improvement though because i support divorce 100%. There must not be any sort of patch-ups in marriage.
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where is chioma a.k.a lala
da don
3/20/2013 6:57:35 AM
where is dat wicked soul called chioma toplis alias lala? akwuna umuahia! ezi offia.
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it is a pity
ebere peters
3/20/2013 7:07:21 AM
it is a pity,wat is money witout happiness . D basic tin in a marriage is love and trust and understanding d other person's needs nd accepting it. All d money in d world can never buy tru hapiness. Some pple leap into marriage without full understanding of wat they are going into.
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Is she not the one that as sup
JoyB
3/20/2013 7:31:44 AM
Isn't she the one that was supposed to marry Kola Abiola and the arrangement broke after the June 12 wahala?
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AISHA
sleek
3/20/2013 8:26:47 AM
Dis lady problem wit her 1st nd 2nd husband is dt dey cnt satisfy her sexually dis lady is a spoilt brat dat luvs hot nd c***y sex nd shud b properly f**ked in nd out, ope a sharp smart 9jiran man with a heavy big fat long king-size dick ll catch her attention nd fhuck her 8times a day so dat she go calm down stay 1 place at her young age don marry 2tyms inshort aisha na big tym ash*w* 4 politican nd big boys dem mtcheew
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sleek
hello
3/20/2013 4:52:39 PM
This is too bad now, you wan corrupt everybody. How can you say this kind of private intimate thing about this woman haba i no goo o. change and repent.
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AISHA
sleek
3/20/2013 8:27:29 AM
Dis lady problem wit her 1st nd 2nd husband is dt dey cnt satisfy her sexually dis lady is a spoilt brat dat luvs hot nd c***y sex nd shud b properly f**ked in nd out, ope a sharp smart 9jiran man with a heavy big fat long king-size dick ll catch her attention nd fhuck her 8times a day so dat she go calm down stay 1 place at her young age don marry 2tyms inshort aisha na big tym ash*w* 4 politican nd big boys dem mtcheew
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WHO CARES
WHO CARES
3/20/2013 9:27:36 AM
WHO CARES
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DO NOT ABUSE
Not necessary
3/20/2013 9:33:59 AM
She is not the first to divorce and she would not be the last so don't abuse her
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RECYCLING
Watcher
3/20/2013 12:22:43 PM
She love being recycled. Recycling is the new and on going biz now..There are always those who like TOKUNBO(2nd hand WIFE) than original.(FRESHER) Before you say Jack Robinson she is on another recycling process.
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WATCHER
JERSEY GIRL
3/21/2013 9:45:19 AM
SOME SO CALLED FRESHERS (SINGLE LADIES) ARE MORE USED THAN 2ND HAND WIVES
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Jonathan's brother next
Umar jonathan
3/22/2013 1:38:09 PM
D current presido's brother should b next
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yayikew
danfodio
3/23/2013 1:55:59 PM
zomu zauna zomumatane
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haba
forget
3/24/2013 2:26:34 AM
na wah fine girl like this
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hammer
BIG BOY
4/11/2013 11:12:35 AM
Aisha bring your father stolen money i am a single, i will b gud 4 u as husband
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big man pidkin
ade-kirsty
4/26/2013 9:54:59 PM
SHAMELESS f**lS, SHAMELESS i***tS, STOLEN MONEY WELL OFF PEOPLE.... WHAT DOES ANYONE EXPECT... HIGH AND MIGHTY, WHO IS WHO IN THE SOCIETY, GLOBAL POLITICAL POWERFUL FRIENDS IN ATTENDANCES, DIDN'T DETERMINE THE LONGEVITY OF THIS SO CALLED MARRIAGE, AS THEY IN THEIR SICK MINDS CALL IT.... HOW CAN YOU MARRY A YOUNG MAN, LEFT HIM AND THEN MARRY AN OLD MAN WITH TWO OTHER WIVES, AND THEN BECOMING THE THIRD, AND SHE THINKS IT IS OK.... SHE THEN PARADED HERSELF AS THE FIRST LADY OF THE STATE WHEN THE OTHER TWO WIVES KEPT QUIET, WHAT A WOOFA, WHAT A f**l, SICK MIND s****d MONEY.... PRIDE COMES BEFORE A FALL IS A TRUE WISE WORD.......BRILLIANT
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DhedIWACjEcgVJ
Sahilin
5/21/2013 8:11:28 AM
Great advice. I am a worinkg mom with two kids, with a very stable job, but the yaya-hunting has left me no choice but to seriously think of quitting my day job and join oDesk. Do the clients pay well? Do they pay on time? These are my hesitations. I have a few interviews lined up this weekend on oDesk, as I applied for a few jobs related to what I'm doing now. I plan to take on part time jobs first before finally quitting my stable job and just stay at home with my kids.
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