NO BOYFRIEND OR HUSBAND CAN MAKE ME QUIT ACTING
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Oyindamola Odesola made a name for herself when she beat 23 other contestants to emerge winner of the last edition of the Next Movie Star reality show that took place between October and November, 2009.

The Covenant University graduate of International Relations told Saturday Punch that she was determined to come out on top. She said, ”The experience was very challenging. But it was fun and very educative. At first, I didn‘t know I was going to win. It didn‘t cross my mind at all. But eventually, I started thinking of the possibility and here I am. I was a lot different from those that came into the show just to be a part of it and have fun. I was focused.”

The pretty and aspiring Nollywood actress admitted that she needed to win at all cost and one of the things she did was to quit her job at Skye Bank. Apart from the fact that she was not getting fulfilment working in the banking hall, she had had to follow her mind and do what she had always dreamed of doing.

”I have always wanted to be an actress. After working in a bank for over a year, I just made up my mind that I was going into acting. Somebody told me about the Next Movie Star show. So I resigned from the bank and entered for the show”, she said.

While she was still in the bank, she worked in the marketing department. But it was not because she couldn‘t meet up with her huge target that made her quit. She said, ” I just wanted to do something else and when this opportunity came up, I had to go for it. Even if I was in another department in banking, I would still have left.”

Now that she is gradually fitting into her new career, Odesola revealed that ‘war‘ broke out in her family when she made the decision to quit the banking hall for the movies.

Describing how tough it was to persuade members of her family to accept her decision, she said, ”I lost my dad when I was three years old. So it was just my mum that took care of us. She wouldn‘t listen to my explanations when I told her I was going to quit banking. It was war in the house. My uncles didn‘t want to hear of it. But I had to make them reason with me. I told them this was what I wanted to do.”

Eventually when she was able to make her relations to reason with her, Odesola said she started her journey to Nollywood by taking part in the reality show.

”Nothing would have stopped me from acting. Even if I had lost at the reality show, I would still have followed my dream. I am not regretting my move from the bank. I am just happy”, she said.

Now that she is no longer depending on a monthly salary, Odesola said she made ends meet through the assistance of members of her family.

She said, ”My mum still helps me out. I have people all around me and I know they would be there for me till I am able to stand on my feet.

”I got a car and five thousand dollars and movie contracts. I have not received them, but I know I will get them before the end of the month. Moves are been made to redeem the prizes.”

Although she is yet to take part in the first movie, she has started cutting her teeth by appearing in some Yoruba movies. She said,”I will soon be on a Yoruba movie set. Before now I have been attending events and doing shows and granting interview. I intend to do both English and Yoruba movies though for now. I am still concentrating more on Yoruba films.”

Odesola said her talent and her determination would pave the way for her in the industry. Apart from that, she said she was not intimidated by the presence of many stars in the Nigerian movie industry and declared: ” I am going to do what I know how to do best. I am determined and I am very focused. This is all I know how to do and I am going to keep on doing it and hope that it I will make an impact”.

Even as she aims to hit the zenith in her chosen career, Odesola does not appear to be scared of the scandals and controversies that are usually associated with stardom. She told Saturday Punch that she had made up her mind to take everyhting in her stride ”I have put my mind to it. Even if you don’t do anything, they would still write about me. But I will try as much as possible to behave myself in public so that negative things would not be written about me. I am not going to live above my limits or live an amorous life”, she said.

Dwelling on her early life and childhood experience, Odesola said it didn‘t make much difference in her life that she lost her father at an early age. ”My mother made up for that. I am not saying I wouldn‘t have wished for a father but my mum was a father and a mother to me. We were just two in my house and my mother took care of us so much. I didn‘t really miss my father that much”, she disclosed.

When Saturday Punch asked the pretty actress about the ‘Romeo‘ in her life, she chose to keep mum.

”I don‘t want to talk about that at least not for now. I don‘t like discussing my relationships. That is the way I want to keep it. I want my affairs to be private. I am sorry, I will not tell you anything about my relationship”, she said.

Whether she has a boyfriend or not, Odesola said she was not going to quit acting even if a partner asked her to do so. “I doubt if I would quit acting for anybody. My career comes first. I am not ready to quit at any cost. I hope to be married one day but I don‘t think it has to be now. I am more concerned about my career for now and that is what I am facing.”

Odesola‘s role models include Genevieve, Funke Akindele, and Joke Silva. She confessed that she admired these actresses very much and hoped to be like them because, “they know what they want and they take acting seriously as if ther lives depend on it.”

Apart from acting, Odesola has another vision. ”I hope to have a forum for young people to be able to let them know that you can be what you want to be. It took me a long time to get here. Eventually, I got here and I know this is what I want to do. I want an opportunity to tell young people to follow their desires just as I have followed mine”, she says.





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go gal
lexy | 2/16/2010 4:17:11 PM
i like it when people take the bull by the horn. u've followed your heart and i wish u all the best. ride on the stardom gal, the sky is ur limit!
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you are an angel
Beauty | 2/17/2010 3:43:23 PM | aba-nigeria
baby gal i like your courageous worlds because people like your are motivator and your words of encouragement alone can make one move the mountings keep it up
Wig
Lucia | 2/19/2010 10:54:50 AM | Madrid-Spain
Pls can someone help me,on how i can get this WIG.Is beautiful.
bone da tyn!
scobaba | 2/17/2010 11:31:25 PM
dont worry!

shes runnin her mouth now cos shes up comin'
by the tym shes 40 with no man in her life, not even all d money and stardom
will fill dat space.
My advice, oyin make hay while d sun shines!!!
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The bitter truth
Steve | 2/23/2010 6:42:45 AM
D crown of evrwoman is there husband,wt hapi home.al ur fulfilment in actn without these wl only amount to use n dump.i'm sure durn these interview u may be drunk or dnt mean it cos no career cn stand in d place of a good home try n learn little manner of word to encourage sincere humility of d young ones.djtutor2010@yahoo.com.08037283192
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DITTO
folu vick | 2/26/2010 4:18:31 AM
MY SISTER I PHOTOCOPY MY BROTHER STEVE LIKE THEY SAY D TRUTH IS BITTER N I WISH U TAKE TO HIS ADVISE PLS N GOD BLESS ONE LOVE
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Matters of the heart!
Isabel | 3/18/2010 11:03:19 AM
I do really appreciate your honesty and courage. But my dear, when it comes to matters of the heart, You could do anything. Everyone is entitiled to his or her opinion. Putting caeer first is good but remember a woman's clock ticks very quick and before you know it....... All the best.
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Truth is BITTER !
Morayo | 4/2/2010 3:10:36 PM
Marriage for any woman is a good achievement. Nobody can dispute that.
But it is a wrong and deceptive mentality to adhere to the culture which says that a woman who has achieved a lot in life BUT who is not married is a failure ; she is sad and is desperate for a husband !
Some people even call single women "irresponsible p********es" who jump from one man to another!
This is utter r*****h ! Who is f**ling whom here ; are we children who don't know what is happening?
Are MOST married women not sad and desperate in secret ; but pretending to be happy in public?
Some married women have become secret p********es, psychiatric cases or have attempted suicide , several times; because of their sad and terrible marriage experiences !
Millions of married women , nowadays , are even worse than p********es but they use their marriage as a "respect" camouflage and cover- up for their numerous extra - marital affairs with dozens of men !
These married -p********es , openly, compete with and even exchange blows with other women , over rich men ! We see and hear this happening all over the country .

What of the women who are married but have NOTHING to show as their own personal achievements in life; except wearing their successful husbands' ranks, posing and parading all over the place! Usually , it is the illiterate women who make the loudest noise about husbands.
I can assure you that , soon or late , such women will cry and regret , for life!
With the types of MONSTER- HUSBANDS we have nowadays, not only in Nigeria but all over Africa , any f*****h woman who puts men and marriage FIRST ; is digging her own grave !
In Africa , there is NO SECURITY or PROTECTION for ALL married women; unlike what obtains in the Western world where married women are accorded their full respect and human rights.

What happens when and if the "wonderful" husband dumps the f*****h dependent wife for another younger wife or if the husband drops dead, suddenly ? It can't happen? Hmmm...... !
Nowadays, men dump their uneducated and low-achieving wives for successful women !
Also, the irony of life which I see and hear is happening frequently nowadays in this period of economic crunch; is that , these so-called "happily " married women who had valued and rated men and marriage higher than getting an education , career or profession for themselves ; are now full of envy and bitterness and they are now going to BEG and BORROW for help , in cash and kind , from the women who have no husbands but are very successful in their careers and businesses!
So where is their all-important essential commodity they called "HUSBAND"? No more wonderful?
For most of these married women , it is TOO LATE to get an education , a good job or to manage and finance any business venture, in this harsh economic climate .
Today, many women are regretting wasting their youth and their future on depending on a man and they cry themselves to sleep , every night !
If you are a single but very successful woman and any of these AWO-OKO ( HUSBAND WORSHIPPERS) , come to beg for your help ; send them back to their wonderful husbands!
She who laughs last ; laughs loud and longest .
So my dear girl here , Oyindamola , my advice to you and other young women is: you will plan to get married in future but GET A LIFE FIRST , for your own sake ; just in case...........
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