Sella Damasus was absent at her deceased husband, Jaiye Aboderin’s fourth burial remembrance party that took place on the 5th of December at The Oriental Hotel, Lekki Lagos. She claimed to be at her mother's side, who's recovering from eye surgery. The Aboderin family reacted saying ‘they didn’t as a family feel bad about her not being there. The reason being that she no longer bears their name. She has swapped Aboderin with Nzeribe‘. Stella was said to have been invited and she even requested for extra invitations.
Late 2008, she was sighted at Club 868 with Emeka Nzeribe where they tried as much they could to prevent being photographed together by paparazzis and in March 2009, they got married – Emeka Nzeribe became her second husband. Reports reaching nigeriafilms.com claim the marriage is not going eazy, as sources say incompatibility between them is due to Emeka's is frequent trips to Abuja. Stella , the mother of two from her previous marriage, reportedly insisted that Emeka’s frequent trips to Abuja have been for business. She denied rumours of sending Emeka out of their matrimonial home. The reports have also been fuelled by the absence of her wedding band [ring] . Sources close to them maintain and divulge that Emeka got fed up because she became stubborn, insisting on having her way and she wouldn’t submit to Emeka.