John Dumelo may be a single guy but he makes sense when it comes to marriage issues. Maybe, this is one of the reasons why he is yet to get married because he is yet to know the lady he is planning to take to the altar.


John is asking people to really know the person they want to marry instead of reading them on the social media.


He advises “…Focus on what will make the marriage work. The pre wedding shoots, the Social media hype, the big wedding, the cars, the gifts, the expensive food all will mean nothing if you don’t focus on the work that will make the marriage last. After that day, it will be left with you and your partner in the room alone…everyone’s gone. Just the two of you.’


He explains more “Get to know your partner before marriage, be friends, spend time, make time and always remember to place God first. Also don’t get married because of your in -laws name. “Oh, I’m getting married to the Prime Minister’s son/daughter, “oh my mother-in -law is Africa’s richest”. Names don’t make marriages work! Besides, those with the “names” these days worked hard to get to where they are. You have to work hard with your partner too! Don’t focus on the destination….work on the journey. “