Happy and a prosperous New Year to my numerous readers out there. I hope you all had a splendid and fun-filled festive season. This year surly has in stock greater packages for us all. And as we mark the beginning of the year 2015, I pray all our heart desires shall be met in Jesus Name… Can I hear a resounding AMEN!!!

This is that particular time of the year when people tend to turn away from their evil ways of life, unnecessary excesses, evil plans and other vices.

Time when people make New Year resolutions, and struggle to stick to it against all odds.

Sometimes, New Year resolutions could be very easy to make but very difficult to keep. You’ll find out before the middle of the year that you had gradually gone back to your vomit subconsciously.

Back then in my school days, I remember this popular saying amongst us: New Year- New System. Do you remember that slogan too?

It actually means that new system has to be adopted in all we do, especially in our dealings with guys.

We dump the old ones for the new and fresher ones. Those who are usually affected are guys who didn’t do up to expectation during the festive period.

Those who neglected their babes and didn’t shower them with gifts and affections were also shown the doors.

We tell whoever cares to ask that it’s a new year and old things have passed away.

Consequently, guys who loved their babes dearly try all they could to please them during the Christmas season to avoid the boots. Besides, ‘toasters’ and secret admirers often seize the opportunity to go after the chicks they’ve been lusting after.

They try to win the girls over to their side with tempting and assorted gifts. It was a case of the ‘highest gift presenter, wins her love’. It was more like a competition, but a very interesting one,

Funnily, the so-called gifts then range from greeting cards, cheap perfumes, cheap clothes, etc. Guys, who are daring enough, go as far as buying pants and bra for their babes. Worse still, they would buy assorted colours and upon presentation, they would lure her to a hidden place and urge her to sample the ‘precious gifts’. If she was a novice, she might fall to their plans and get a little bit more than what she expected.

Anyways, that was back in our secondary school days. Now things have changed so much. Babes and guys as well ‘done soji’ (Smarter now)

But in earnest, guys that didn’t ‘do’ their partners well last year should not expect much from her this New Year.

Those who dodged from their responsibilities and ignored their girlfriend, fiancée or wife should pray and wait for their fate.

How about those who ‘misfired’? I mean guys who derive pleasure in taking advantage of the festive period to ‘visit’ as many ‘treasure islands’ as their sugar sticks could stand. Do they still expect love, care, affection, trust and fidelity from their spouses? Yeah, it’s unarguable that this period babes appear to be hot and tempting.

Their dresses, make-up, hair-do and their general appearance could be very enticing for the randy guys who can’t take their eyes and joystick off a lady’s salacious body. But the Holy Book advises that we should flee away from sin or cut off which ever part of our body that would lead us into the ocean of sin.

Men who always claim that a girl’s indecent dressing led them into temptation, should kept their passion in check and try not be controlled by lust.

If they allow themselves to be satisfied by their selfish and lustful desires, they might end up in a pit full of troubled waters.

I am not side-lining the ladies who dress provocatively, but self-control is one of the qualities of a perfect gentleman.

Although sometimes, a guy might be putting in all his best efforts to resist the enticing temptations to grab a girl carelessly flaunting her assets, squeeze her boobs and suck them until it bows in submission, but his ‘little man’ would be doing otherwise.

While he tries to take his mind away off the ‘temptation scene’ and concentrate on something abstract to calm his nodding John Thomas down, the bulging one eyed snake would assume life of its own and would keep jumping and nodding happily to the revealing body of the babe.

Even an attempt to take his mind to Iya Bose’s dirty body, sweating at the bus stop, or to the mad woman on the streets, it wouldn’t help matters. Because the third leg would still refuse to act according to the boss’s mind. Needless to blame the ‘thing’; whosoever sights what fancies him will always salivate for it.

I kept wondering what our girls are gradually turning into in the name of modernity. You would hardly pass a street these days without noticing the packs of used condoms carelessly used to decorate the environment, especially those lonely and bushy paths.

As I went to visit close friend of mine who was dedicating and warming his new house on Sunday, December 28, I observed that the moral decadence on our country has increased drastically.

Due to the far distance of his house, i had to go and sleep over in his house on 27th night ahead of the thanksgiving service the next morning.

On getting to their street that night, i was told they were having their street Jamz. I was wondering what that was all about before my friend told that on a day like that the youths would come out in their numbers to have fun and ‘free-style’.

Still very curious, i begged to be told what ‘free-styling’ was all about. My friend Victor squealed to me that such things are better experienced than explained.

I waved the discussion but was still very curious of the word ‘free-styling’.

Lo and behold, the next morning on our way to church, i fully understood without been told what it was all about.

From the end of the street where my friend built his house to the entrance of the street, the whole place was littered with used condoms, abandoned pants and tissue papers. It was indeed a ‘free-styling night’.

Boys had free sex with any babe of their choice that graced their ‘Shoki Night’. To worsen it all, they did it all in the open irrespective of the environment, after all, everywhere is dark and noisy.

I felt so bad for our young girls who have decided to label themselves ‘cheap items’ and allowed themselves to be used as a trash can.

How i wish they knew the consequences of their stupid actions. I bet you, they would put in all efforts to remain chaste and prestigious.

This is a brand New Year, time to look back and get back on track. Make worthwhile New Year resolutions, and stand by it.

Girls who derive fun and satisfaction in savoring different colours, sizes, and shapes of turgid pole of guys should desist from it and stick to one partner.

An Igbo proverb says ‘ ihe na ato uto, na egbu kwa egbu’. In English it translates thus; anything that seems to be too sweet could also kill. So ladies beware of that sugar stick dangling between randy men’s thighs.

Guys should also try and mend ways with their girlfriend and hold unto one sexual partners.
Painfully, until now, some ignorant people don’t still believe in the existence of the deadly virus called HIV/AIDS.

Make your 2015, enjoyable, relaxing and trouble free. Multiple dating can be very tasking; financially, emotionally, physically, and other wise, so save up your strength for one partner.

Once again happy New Year to You all- Don’t forget to Impact positively in more lives these year!