I am married to a nice lady. We have a four-year-old son and the second baby is on the way. I had sex with another lady and she is pregnant, but she has refused abortion. The pregnancy is growing and she made me realiSe that she would take care of the baby. Though we both admitted that we would not get married, it still bothers me everyday. I love my wife, but how do I tell her if this other woman eventually puts to bed?