At 29, Nollywood actress Joy Ayim has been married twice and divorced the same number of times and she was also accused of being arrested and given a one count charge of stealing four hundred and sixty thousand naira from a patron in Uyo, the capital city of Akwa Ibom State; south south Nigeria were she had gone to satisfy the said unnamed man sexually.


The actress who was silent on these allegations; has now decided to speak out about the allege theft as well as domestic violence and court battles, simply because people will make reference to all these issues in future.

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In a lengthy narrative , the mother of a pretty daughter named, Sherebiah, a product of her second marriage to Joseph Etiebet says she has been unlucky with marriage even as she declared she has not spoken to her former hubby In ages.

We haven’t spoken for long now, he doesn’t think he has anything to say to me but believe me, he does and there will be a time that he will ask for audience, I pray God gives me the heart to listen to him because I have tried everything possible to contact him because of our daughter but he does pick calls nor reply text messages. Funny enough I wasn’t even calling for money but for him to be part of our little girl growing up life and I have stopped.

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I know right now he is seeing me as his worst enemy and that I may expose him to the world, which I am still considering that option.

“I have been very unlucky with marriages but that doesn’t mean I have given up on marriage. I will still get married but for now, I think I need a long break from the drama it carries.

I will be 29 years old very soon and I’ve been married twice and divorced too, people saw it as crazy and a lot of mouths opened to call me names but if any of those marriages took my life, I believe same people would ask why didn’t she just leave? Well, I am not a Hypocrite, it’s not that I wouldn’t have spoken about this marriage issue long ago, I had a lot of writers inbox me to hear my side of the story but I told them off.

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I remember every day I woke up, I will tell myself, Joy, it is you that matters forget about what people say but on the second thought internet never dies. So for tomorrow sake let me bring you into my marriages story, I was 22yrs when I had my first marriage, I was young, innocent it was a beautiful thing to behold but it wasn’t for long, I suffered from domestic violence and not being able to conceive made matters worse.
We grow out of what brought us together and we decided to part ways 2013.

It wasn’t easy going through the process but it was better to walk away alive than to be carried away dead. 2014, I decided to give it another try and this time I entered into a womanizer’s hand. A man that will be bringing women into our matrimonial home, a man that is powerful in preaching Bible but his life was the opposite. He doesn’t even use a condom to sleep with these girls, I have records of girl that has aborted for him and he keeps denying.

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The only thing I bless God for in that marriage was for my daughter. I really wanted that marriage to work is my second marriage and a child coming in too. I don’t want to go into full detail of thing, there is a saying that goes if a dog bites a man it is no news but if a man bites a dog it’s a news. A lot of women have seen things in their marriage. I believe marriage was made to be enjoyed not endured. I was breastfeeding my daughter when my said husband came up with a story of infidelity, and that he needs separation, I got saved from the court.

Little did I know that someone I called my friend was also sleeping with my husband and has gone extra miles to pin him down.I got to know about this, and I was advised by my lawyers not to accept separation from him rather I should file a divorce while I followed the advice. Marriage was not made from heaven but it was made by God to be beautiful and anything apart from that I will not be a part of.

She then move on to argue her theft case stating that no man can sleep with her for the said amount and that she has never met anyone like the person described in the case, pointing out that she has never been to prison before

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I don’t even know that young man and I’ve never met him before but I now know who paid him to do what he did.

I’ve never borrowed money nor steal from him or anyone. I remember I was in Lagos that day the story came. I had calls from my co actors and friends. It was funny because renting me and the amount mentioned, it was just too small, I remember one of my colleague calling me to say ” Joy that money too small nah, they would have said 460million people for believed’ it.”

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This man is said to be an undergraduate with a local studio and also a friend to my supposed friend that took over my husband. Her plan was to get me arrested and put me in prison so she could move in fully with my ex-husband.

She feels I will come fighting her for what she did to me so she just needed me out of the way. I wasn’t arrested and I have never been in prison before. The said young man was used to report a frame up the matter to the police against me, when I was invited, I told them to take it to court and to my surprise the only witness to him is the same mistress of my husband and her sister.©