Popular OAP and controversial Vlogger, Toke Makinwa finally has who to blame for her marital hiccups with estranged husband, Maje Ayida.
Recalled that Makinwa’s marriage with Ayida hit the rock, after he cheated on her with one Anita Solomon who eventually had a son for him.
Makinwa never addressed her marital scandal with Ayida, but eventually did in her memoir, On Becoming.
In her recent episode of Moment, which dealt in details why men cheat, she narrated how she endured at the hands of women when her marital crisis became known to everyone.
The media personality during her talks in the episode, believes men succeed in hurting women because other women protect them (men).
“Some women are the problem,” she said. “Your son has four, five girlfriends. You know them, you smile in their faces. We live in a society and the culture that we have unfortunately believes that cheating is….you can’t sue a man for cheating in this country.”
She further stressed, “If the man is selling and we are not buying, he would stop. We, women, are the problem. You find a man cheat on his wife and you find reasons to make excuses for why he cheated. Maybe she wasn’t sleeping with him, Maybe she wasn’t unhappy, maybe she is a witch. I have had that been said to me. I have been cheated on publicly and I never saw women come out to say you know what, what this man did was wrong. You find them say is she the only one? What’s the big deal? Guess what, your child would go through it.”