I am a 31-year-old guy dating a 43-year-old woman, who is not a Nigerian. She also has a 21-year-old son. I am employed, comfortable and have a house of my own. But my parents and siblings are against this relationship. They even told me that they would not give their blessings and threatened to disown me if I go ahead. They now call me a gold-digger because this lady is more comfortable than I am and we planned getting married this year. We are deeply in love, complement each other and we are of the same faith. But my family is driving me crazy and I am going nuts! What do I do?