Married Abuja Big Girl Caught In Adultery Mess In London
Story by Bola Dauda
Click for Full Image Size I got a call last week from Mr. Olaitan Iwalewa, a London based Nigerian businessman, who complained bitterly about how the wife of a top government official in Abuja deceived him into believing that she was single, started a relationship with him and spend several nights with him in his London home.

Mr. Iwalewa furthermore explained that he visited Nigeria to spend time with his woman only to discover that Ajoke Tolani, who is the owner of Bubble Boutique and Accessories in Abuja, is indeed a full-time house wife. He thus stopped the unholy affair. But there is a big problem now; the crux of the matter is what you will read below:

We gathered, a melodrama is currently playing out in the adultery scandal between the wife of a topshot at Nigeria Deposit Insurance Corporation (NDIC) and Mr. Iwalewa who is bitter after discovering that his beloved woman was actually a wife to another man. Their long rosy and romantic relationship has gone sour and the man seems ready for a showdown.

The woman is denying her “ex-lover”, while the man has everything at his disposal to prove that they were romantically involved in a serious relationship that could have been altar bound if not that he discovered she was married.

Mr. Iwalewa who before now had misunderstanding with his wife and separated was planning to make Tolani his second wife legally until he got winds last year August that Tolani was a married woman. “It was when I came to Nigeria last year that I got the gist at the hotel she lodged me when one of the staff whom I have been good to told me that the woman that brought me here is married and known by lots of people.

“Immediately I heard that, I was shocked and scared of my life. I had to leave the place and left for London. Since then, she has been begging me because I refused to pick her calls.”

Now, Mr. Iwalewa wants Mrs. Tolani Afolabi to repay all the money he borrowed her which is about 3,000 pounds for her business and another sum of about N800,000 which he gave to her to use to lodge in an account in Nigeria. He said he met only about N100,000 in the account.

While trying to cover her acts, Mrs. Afolabi had told a soft-sell magazine that the man was her pastor and used to pray for her whenever she’s in London. But Mr. Iwalewa said it is a BIG lie. “I am not a Pastor, I don’t know what she meant, she stays in my house in London anytime she’s in town, I will provide you some of the text messages she has been sending to me including the one she sent when I refused to pick her calls after getting to know she is married.”

Anyway, below her some romantic SMS she sent to Mr. Iwalewa while their relationship lasted, as published in Global excellence, with her personal numbers:

(1) “Honey Mi, olowo ori me, I will always luv u do have a beautiful day at work. Missing u and feel like wrapping u round my body luv u.”
From: +2348161665517

(2) “Honey pls forgive me its all beyond me.”
From: +2348127124488

(3) “missing u will call u as soon as its safe, luv u.”
From: +2348033200607

(4) “Honey I can’t write much am on drip.”
From: +2348033200607

(5) “Honey am missing you I love you so much don’t ever leave me alone, am so lonely here.”
From: +2348127124488

(6) “Honey thanks tot u were angry with me. Cld not sleep----Iluv u so much, I need you to make luv to me and make me feel like a woman.”
From: +2348127124488

(7) “Honey u need 2 be in my place 2 know how I fee, when we meet I never knew ur marital status, it was much later I knew I was already in luv wt u. Pls take it easy wt me I hv my own mind and I knw wat I want. I luv u and will never leave u unless u ask me to.”
From: +2348033200607

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Women and d love of money
Focus | 5/2/2012 9:39:27 AM
I can't just imagine d gist. A married woman 'cause of money get married to abroad-based man when another marriage is on. Haba! u think so dat u can be managing d 2 husbands at a go, madam u be thief. Anyway dat's a good xteristics of a s****d woman. Mr New husband i think u too will learn 1 or 2 lessons frm someone u just met few months and proposes to without knowing her relations and her marital status. Anyway she must return ur money.
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THINK AGAIN
EMEKA | 5/18/2012 9:28:46 AM |
Look at this write up again. something fishy is there. Am a guy and i receive lots of text from ladies, if not 4 blackmail purposes or set up why is london guy keeping d texts? 2 in this era of info tech why didnt this guy check d ladies background? why is he posting it all over d internet. will he collect d money on d internet? Madam, PLS SUE THIS MAN AND DO IT NOW.
For Phuck's sake!
Delima | 5/2/2012 9:59:12 AM
This woman don turn this fine man into Adamu Garba!....hahahahahaha
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Adamu ODE Garba
Cleff | 5/2/2012 11:37:51 PM |
Adamumu Odemumu Garba kunu aka Fake IDs was uselessed by a woman. Adamumu's brain is filled with Akamu. Adamu Akamu.
Y focus
Mira | 5/2/2012 10:02:28 AM
Y will she return the money,the f**k way the man f**k her nko.divide the money into 20 rounds of f**k way the man f**k her since this relationship start.u will know the Man still the owe her self,for society lady like that.
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a good lesson to MEN
Feminist | 5/2/2012 10:46:28 AM
Men always cheat and get away with it but with women, its a different ball game, wont be surprise that her hubby is so busy and doesnt even hav tym for her but rather all this small small girls besides he's a top gov't official, we know wat they do..JUST SAYING
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Ewoo
Debra | 5/2/2012 10:55:26 AM
Hahahahaha.f**l y ar u complainin ,dat is wat u guys do to women.good 4 u
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U mst b a strng man
Zedd toey | 5/2/2012 1:01:55 PM
She didnt dup u she only 4k u bcos u get wat her huby dosnt hav. so jst shut ur unfens mout an 4k out of cryin.
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Go and settle with your wife
jdsjskd | 5/2/2012 3:51:33 PM
Go and settle with your wife if it's not too late. You will always get this hundred times from another woman. Separated, that's always the case. London people like separation too much.
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Shame on her
Ify | 5/3/2012 2:21:44 AM
Shame on her, a married woman? U r a disgrace to womanhood
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Y complaining
best | 5/3/2012 5:13:31 AM
This is serious ohhh! kai, why is he complaining?becos u gave her money, u no serious at all.Did u build a mansion or buy a house for her at London on an island.What abt the one u collected from her, she no work for u eh?s****d ,f*****h man, go back to ur wife and amed ur ways.If u like , jump to another one, u ar nt even ashamed of urself, u gave ur full name and contact.Please send the remaining 100,000k to me.
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f*****h man
tito | 5/3/2012 1:40:31 PM
Ewalewa or wht did u call urself ds so call woman u ar talking about is on ur facebook and her profile status is married another thing is dat her family picture is among the picture on her picture hw come u ar telling the public u dont know she is maaried.... u better come out and tell the public nothing but the true,,,,,
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No Judge ooo!
The Real Deal | 5/4/2012 5:13:01 AM
No one should judge oooo. U never know what she's going thru in her marriage..Some men can push u to a breaking point. They can push u to a point where u begin to do things that u've never imagined u could do in a million years. Not saying what she did is right ooo but only the one that wears the shoe know where it pinches.......Never say "i can't do this" till u find urself in the same position and same circumstance
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No Judgement
Mrs. Annonymous | 5/5/2012 9:44:32 AM
Pls nobody should blame Tolani o, do you know if her marriage is rocky? Do you know what her husband is doing to her at home. She MUST not refund Mr. Iwalewa o, he can go to court of law, if he think his wife is bad enough for him to pack her up, then plenty of Tolani will spray pepper in his eyes and all other men alike!
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Smart Woman
Chioma | 5/5/2012 9:53:03 AM
Chie, this Tolani na correct woman o, you are very smart unlike my coursin that ironed her husband clothes that he wore to his marriage to another woman within Lagos where stays without knowing, after some months, he called my cousin that the girl deceive him that she was pregnant, he has already built a bungalow & school for her & my born-again cousin always pray to God to continue to bless the man. I am sure she is wise now, if any correct man, (not this 3,000 that's making noise o) comes her way, she will hook him!
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junk
dope | 5/5/2012 10:02:17 AM
wey the picture of the adultress na? no story here, second base jare!!!
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the guy na mugu
infogermiston@gmail.com | 5/7/2012 7:29:31 AM
the London man na current mugu.
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FUKKKKKKKKKKKKKKERR
TRUTH | 5/8/2012 4:45:44 PM
LET HER COME AND f**k ALL THE GUYS IN THIS FORUM FOR FREE.....
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London blackmail n frustration
Ijeoma. | 5/13/2012 3:39:39 AM
The story sounds incredible...the woman profile read married and how come eewalewa said he didn't know. Let his come tell d world the truth. no be london guys.
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I see them everyday in Houston
Chakachaka | 5/15/2012 11:17:52 PM
Very typical for Nigerian women who come yo overseas to buy! They lodge with guys and surrender themselves while hussie and children are in Nigeria saying, "oh she is on a business trip to London, USA, Dubai, China etc" - Money for hand back for ground - international ash*w*s!!
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Frustrated man
tatafo | 5/17/2012 9:21:29 AM
London biz man wetin u dey sell? I see this as HATE mail. Go and look 4 work. Here in Naija, we correct Naija guys we no dey cry for £3,000 or N800k. This is money that is given to campus babe. U said u gv d money to a business lady. I will advice u, dont u have a family name to protect? Even if u a seperated as u claim, why dont u respect yr children's privacy. what is yr employer saying. They need to sack u because u a definately a frustrated and mad man. Come back to Naija and hustle with us on Lagos Island. Women be careful so u dont fall for a psycho Ewalewa.
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blackmail
anony | 5/18/2012 1:32:54 AM
May be Ewalewa was privy to some financial information about the woman knowing well that her husband is loaded as a topshot in his establishment, he can use this story to blackmail the family and extort money from them. I see cheap blackmail here, it's common among these frustrated london guys n babes who doesn't have anything to show for their long sojourn in Queen's land except their british passport n frustrated acts. Please big time business women need to be careful in their dealings in whatever form with these type of frustrated souls who may come as a business partner/men of God. Lessons abound here to be learnt....we have a lot of Ewalewa roaming the street of london looking for cheep money thro' blackmail.

Disgusting......3,000pds??? Msweeeeeh.
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JOSEPH QUIT THIS CARE JOB IF IT DOES NOT PAY U
MEG | 5/26/2012 3:16:33 AM
Joseph, quit ths care job u a doing if it cannot pay your bills, this is disgusting. U a always looking 4 ways to dupe and blackmail people. U remember d case of :??? Leave this business and think straight and even if u a frustrated think about the future of your chilldren and stop embarassing yourself. D people of Aiyetoro Ekiti are embarrassed by your conduct. Your family should call u to order. At the age of 51 even if u dont have anything 2 show 4 your 21 years stay in Europe. Come back home and protect yr name if you still have one ane stop dragging people down. U will call people with unknown nos to defraud them. Stop it now. You are embarassing everyone, Take appropriate steps if u feel aggrieve. Check into a psychiatry home now. Thats how Funmi, your wife left u for the past 11 years and we are all blaming are not knowing u are actually SiCK. Pls come back to Aiyetoro at least u can farm.
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JOSEPH QUIT THIS CARE JOB IF IT DOES NOT PAY U
MEG | 5/26/2012 3:18:56 AM
Joseph, quit ths care job u a doing if it cannot pay your bills, this is disgusting. U a always looking 4 ways to dupe and blackmail people. U remember d case of :??? Leave this business and think straight and even if u a frustrated think about the future of your chilldren and stop embarassing yourself. D people of Aiyetoro Ekiti are embarrassed by your conduct. Your family should call u to order. At the age of 51 even if u dont have anything 2 show 4 your 21 years stay in Europe. Come back home and protect yr name if you still have one ane stop dragging people down. U will call people with unknown nos to defraud them. Stop it now. You are embarassing everyone, Take appropriate steps if u feel aggrieve. Check into a psychiatry home now. Thats how Funmi, your wife left u for the past 11 years and we are all blaming are not knowing u are actually SiCK. Pls come back to Aiyetoro at least u can farm.
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4*9 MAN
CHIKE | 5/27/2012 11:37:09 AM
So hm name be joseph the dreamer....he wan take 4*9 destroy the woman home. Do you think u can make tangible money from blackmailing after spending 21yrs in london with ur 51yrs old you no get anything God go punish u. Do u think u can play on nigerians intelligence....we know ur type. How come ur peolple they call u joseph and u say ur name Olaitan....my country people this man na 4*9 oooooooooo.
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4*9 MAN
CHIKE | 5/27/2012 11:55:09 AM
So hm name be joseph the dreamer....he wan take 4*9 destroy the woman home. Do you think u can make tangible money from blackmailing after spending 21yrs in london with ur 51yrs old you no get anything God go punish u. Do u think u can play on nigerians intelligence....we know ur type. How come ur peolple they call u joseph and u say ur name Olaitan....my country people this man na 4*9 oooooooooo.
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cPHsvSHwHyB
Hazuki | 6/9/2012 8:31:27 AM
Somehow weeks that involve pulbic holidays (which of course should be excellent), instead end up being horrible, problem filled days with much less time to sort things in.But now it is the weekend. And I am going to get my hair cut in a few hours, and have a lunch tomorrow to go to. And my best friend had a baby this week as well, which is of course exciting.
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Na wa oh
Princess | 6/11/2012 5:13:40 AM
This sounds ridiculous cos the woman never said anything to defend herself and the guy the waste precious time and money the whitemail the woman.but wait oh even the woman husband no shake body.this is nawastic
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Na wa oh
Princess | 6/11/2012 5:20:36 AM
This sounds ridiculous cos the woman never said anything to defend herself and the guy the waste precious time and money the whitemail the woman.but wait oh even the woman husband no shake body.this is nawastic
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Turfiakwa
Suzy | 6/29/2012 7:41:50 AM
u c this woman she deserves trilling, make that man divorce am because if him c another man na so she still behave
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Olaitan Iwalewa stop 4*9
BOLAJI | 7/11/2012 7:12:39 AM
No more odu, u wan chop money, Ole, go and look 4 work
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Na ole
Muzik | 9/20/2012 12:29:14 PM
This one is truly blackmail. no mind d thief
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God deliver you
Nice | 10/23/2012 4:00:10 AM
Mr sunday or wat do u call ur self, hw can u survive in dis world wt dis kind of life? Beta look for gud job cos if u continue like dis dat means u re a f**l forever. God help u
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Group of ninja's
M'swhyte | 10/23/2012 3:11:13 PM
I wonder.
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english
chukwudi emmanuel | 11/23/2012 6:28:36 AM
i thing mr latin was daed but i confan dat he was not daed so may the god conutinew blessing beause mr latin is a gud actor and i like is movein in yourba mr latin is so funny in famil have a g8t day
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Complainant / Accused
Ije Uwa | 4/26/2013 4:30:37 AM
Nigerians should stop to tarnish their image, enough is enough.
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Blackmailer
Anon | 9/9/2013 7:36:51 PM
Odu don't pay in uk anymore, this ass hole decided to turn to blackmailing, as 51 too, f*****h man, you're a disgrace to ur kids and family
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Check this London woman.
Bab | 9/10/2013 1:02:33 AM
WAT ABOUT AYAYA OBY IHEGBOROW OF thonton health London, the woman that conquard America and many men in ger life.
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08063619664
bethel.c | 6/15/2014 10:50:00 AM
hi frnds,happy sunday to u all.big mama.
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08063619664
bethel.c | 6/15/2014 10:50:14 AM
hi frnds,happy sunday to u all.big mama.
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London lover
Chief Priest | 9/11/2014 2:25:02 PM
If the story is true as told, then the man is not worthy to be called a man in this time and age. He was so fast to lend money and even to be giving her money to pay into his account in Naija. Why didnt he wire d money direct to his account from UK? Seems to me like he was trying to reap where he did not sow and it back fired. While staying wit d woman, werew she not receiving calls from d husband in naija? Abeg forget matter.
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Evil
Tachen | 9/25/2014 5:11:01 PM
She needs God to touch her sexuality life
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