Fact about my break up with Chris Okotie--Stephanie Henshaw

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Last Updated:Thursday, July 5, 2012

Wedding Fallout: Stephanie Henshaw-Okotie Reacts

After the announcement of the separation between the man of God, Pastor Kris Okotie and her delectable wife, Stephanie Henshaw, the aggrieved woman, Stephanie has been consoling herself with words of God and pouring her heart out via social networks sites.

Stephanie Adie Henshaw appears to be in a very sober mood since her divorce from her politician/pastor hubby. She has been pouring out her feelings via her social networks most especially facebook and twitter. Find time to savour her comments

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Enough said
breakup Noni
7/3/2012 12:32:03 PM
The whole write up makes no sense; it would have been better she keep quiet and allow people wag their tongues like a leprous dog afflicted with a rare strain of a psychiatric condition.
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Wow
Someone somewhere
7/3/2012 12:40:53 PM
Awwwwwwwwwwwwww this is so sad,i pray u two come back together,with this write ups,i have a better idea now,it is well,marriage isnt easy,na wah o
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Na wa o
bat_woman
7/3/2012 12:57:13 PM
No need to seek sympathy at all,it seems u were seeing this man while he was married to his 1st wife,well this might just be karma...just accept wat fate has brought ur way...i pray God help u both.

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WHAT DA FHUCK?!?!
Lalaland
7/4/2012 3:17:18 AM
So now we are copying oyibos who like to tweet about their personal life online abi? What happened to privacy and what would we have done before the internet and tweeter or facebook? Ok before internet came, i wasnt born sha. but common so called "woman of God" what the fhuck is this about? Are you pepo for real or is this the twilight zone? So all you ediots are just doing is fhuckin each other knowing that the so called pastor is married? Kai! Shameless ediots! Mtchew! If you like tweet your dirty pants for the world to see, STOP quoting the bible to cover your shame! Mtchew!
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Nawa ooooo!!
Nneoma
7/4/2012 7:28:49 AM
Dis woman must be shameless o! So u are proudly telling us that u ve been dating dis man even wen u were in ur previous marriages, am so sure he left his previous marriage bcos of u. Anyways, dis is pay back time bcos 4 every action, there is equal & opposite reaction. So leave God out of dis, mtchewww!
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Nneo
Lalaland
7/4/2012 8:13:13 AM
No mind these shameless fornicators! Them go do their evil deeds then use God cover their their nonsense! I am surprised that God never do slay them down sef! Mtchew!
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Lala
Nneoma
7/5/2012 12:38:03 AM
Yes ooo my dear, dont mind all these useless, desperate & god4saken layabout women. God is already paying her back, its just one step at a time.
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useless asewo
tina
7/4/2012 9:09:19 AM
Mind u she was Okey's 2nd wife and okey is still with his first wife so stephy stephy na u get fault so go and pay all ur buy 2day pay 2moro debts u incurred trying 2 look good.What pastors wife cannot cut her coat according 2 her size?U beta jump into 3rd mainland bridge water n let d poor sharks feed on ur evil remains.useless ashewo.like mother like daughter thas why ur father dissowned u and refused 2 collect ur dowry for ages from okey
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YOU too should shot up
Israel
8/4/2012 12:48:50 AM
Some Men always lie when they are looking for a woman to sleep with. Okey lied okotie lied. And you are there passing judgement. Well done. Am sure you know the lies you have told to girls. Imagine okey lying to her. If someone lie to marry his own daughter how would he feel. Think my guy and do sow seed that are good. Truth hurt but set free.
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De signs of de end time
Okechukwu obidike
8/23/2012 12:06:41 PM
De word of GOD prove it that as a light of de earth a man of GOD should not live like de pharisees who wash de outer side of de cup leaving de inner cup with rotteness,
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@stephany!
HEAVY
7/3/2012 10:06:58 PM
Stephany, I will advice u you to close ur mouth for the moment no matter the pressure, stress and agony u are passing through.Its a very difficult moment.Most of ur friends,family members or any body can push u to say or do something that u will regret at last.And dont forget that u are dealing with a man of God that has large congregation,dont tarnish his image ,nobody is above mistake.Keep praying and God will direct and lead u out of this problem.Pray for him also,he is human.
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Shut up!
Stben
7/6/2012 1:04:39 AM
Who is this one! Where is God in the man of Chris Okotie?both the pastor(depending on wat he pastors)and his ex-wife are making mockery christainity and only God will pay them back.
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@Stben
JJ MARTHINS
7/6/2012 11:11:16 AM
Its like u are a senseless i***t who doesnt reason with intelligent people.U will rot in hell with ur devilish father ,satan.Go and do deliverance to save ur soul.
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HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH
A MARRIED MAN IS BADLUCK
7/3/2012 11:34:09 PM
SHE SAID FOR 15 YEARS, THEY WERE THE CLOSEST FRIENDS::: HIS MARRIAGE TO THE 1ST WIFE ENDED IN 2001 -- THEREFORE WIFE NO 2 WAS THE CLOSEST FRIENDS WITH CHRIS WHEN HE WAS STILL MARRIED TO THE 1ST WIFE, TINA!!

I THINK GETTING TOO CLOSE TO A MARRIED MAN IS ONE ON THE WORLD'S WORST CURSES... IT MUST MUST COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU IN THE END.


I THINK THE ANSWER IS TO GO TO GOD IN CONFESSION AND REPENTANCE, AND IF POSSIBLE, ALSO APOLOGISE TO THE 1ST WIFE - IF SHE WAS AWARE OF THAT RELATIONSHIP.[whatever the nature]

AS AN INDIVIDUAL, GOING OUT WITH A MARRIED PERSON IS THE WORST CURSE IN THE WORLD!!!
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oh my God! STEPHANIE WHY?
Linda
7/3/2012 4:03:07 PM
If anybody who knows Stephanie is reading this , P-L-E-A-S-E tell her to shut up and stop this childish display of comments on Face Book!
Why all this nansense?
She should dignify herself with SILENCE.
Nobody deserves to read what happened or did not happen in her marriage!
How can they help her in this matter?
The people who are encouraging her with their comments are laughing at her and encouraging Stephanie to make a f**l of herself, by keeping on writing all these her unnecessary comments.
Stephanie, as a Christian lady , STOP this now!
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Linda
Lalaland
7/4/2012 3:18:49 AM
Why should she have dignity when she was fhucking a married man anyways?! Let her continue t o disgrace herself and bare the shame but the ediot should STOP hiding behind the bible!!
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Lala
Nneoma
7/5/2012 12:43:47 AM
Gbam! Am so much loving dis comment my dear, let her come out plain & stop hiding behind d bible or using God's name in vain. She's only looking 4 pple's sympathy, i guess it only desperados like her will sympathize with her, as 4 me, let her even take it to twitter & other social networking sites, who cares!
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Nneo
Lalaland
7/5/2012 1:51:00 AM
I am even surprised sef that she has "sympathisers" telling her all these nonsense o. The swollen jaw arab looking woman has been fhucking their pastor while he was a married mand and these fake prentencious "sympathisers" are writing sheit! Why can't people just be honest for once?!? Mtchew!
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Don' Bring Cause Upon yourself
Exotic
8/3/2012 2:53:20 AM
Please and please, it is not in your position to gorge ok. you might look at the man as fake, it might be possible. But! you don't have the power to post such comment at a man in-charge of authority in church. We are humans with lots of mistake we are not perfect. Only God is. God Bless Us All.
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IMMATURITY
Ben
7/6/2012 9:07:36 AM
That's very true. Marriage is for 2. stephanie can't keep on telling the whole world about her own side of the story. Silence in this case is dignifying.
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TO BREAKUP NONI
TO NONI
7/3/2012 11:23:53 PM
WHEN YOUR MARRIGE BREAKS DOWN, LETS SEE HOW CALM, COHERENT AND COLLECTED YOU WILL BE!

INSENSITIVE CREATURE
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u no what u are doing
CHI
7/5/2012 5:26:02 AM
listen steph i dont think u are a christian
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sure
carol
9/16/2013 3:23:39 PM
Sure the write ups are loads of senseless bullsheets. If she hasn't got anything meaningful to say, why don't she shut up and move on with her life rather than being marwkishly sentimental. Must u seek for sympathy when ur relationship breaks up. I know is quite emotionally, physically and financially distressing but is not the end of the world. Move on and create a more useful life for youself with or without a man or woman.
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She's really beautiful
Quest
7/3/2012 12:35:59 PM
Such a beauty with pure soul. Very spiritual. What baffles me is, Charlie Boy is able to keep marriage for 35yrs, yet a pastor cant live with a woman, divorce every time.All these politico-pastors.
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Yet they condem a lot
Kama
7/3/2012 1:39:14 PM
Well said man, not even 5yrs out of Charlie's 35yrs, it's a shame. Am sure they will be quick at condemning Charlie's life. Well the woman fine no bi small, if she ready to remarry she will get another nice bobo.
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Pastor chros
Hello1212
7/4/2012 2:21:37 AM
True talk,it all goes to affirm a very popular igbo parable "the,mighty trees that is expected to last till eternity snaps while the fragile one's keeps standing firm
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Charlie
Regina
7/4/2012 9:57:23 AM
My good Lawd you no go kill me quest! LMAO say charlie boy fit marry for 35 yrs , na only me dey house o see as I dey crack up
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chagh
chi
7/5/2012 5:28:34 AM
my broda God will bless u pls tell them more
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hmmm
helen
7/3/2012 12:36:06 PM
Na wah o! I dont know what to say o! However, i know man looks at the outward appearance, but God looks at the heart. He knows even the hidden secrets
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Be strong. It is well
Nne
7/4/2012 5:39:47 AM
Those asking her to keep quiet should shut up. Sometimes when you are faced with problems like this, talking abt it makes your heart lighter.

My dear stephanie, take heart. God will see you through.
Don't die bcos a man threw u out. You have wndeful kids to take care of.

Plz be strong for them. It is well my sister.
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Nne
"O"
7/4/2012 12:39:18 PM
No my dear, this lady desecrated matrimony and we will not shut up. Tell her to zip it!
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uche
Truth never lies
7/3/2012 12:40:34 PM
The courage to speak out is God.s wisdom,.....you have given but never recieved signifly alot of things,....we cannot judge but god knows the best,..so both of you were best of friends even when he was married to tina,.....that,s why you makes his meal and knew him for 15 yrs now,...beauty of woman can make a leeman think like a baby and take a decision like a f**l,...but wise one can think brave,...

stephanie,....what ever happened,....your future is bright...goodluck!
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Dedication paramount
Tasty
7/3/2012 12:44:54 PM
I long discover sex, beauty, and even money wont make a relationship or marriage work. Dedication is greater than passion. And Passion is always the first casualty after the honeymoon and first baby. Without dedication from both party, its like toiling to the mill.
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dedication paramount
Mum of 2
7/11/2012 8:21:22 AM
Your words ring true Tasty. After the baby comes, the man's dedication wanes because of the age-long excuse that "you don't have time for me anymore". Hello! With only 24hrs in the day and with children who really need her attention to nurture and form their personalities, (and she works to support him) isn't it obvious that he won't be getting the same attention he used to have when it was just the 2 of them?
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@breakup Noni
jenny london
7/3/2012 12:47:34 PM
You're not the one HURTING so stop judging, maybe you would've said more if it was you in that position. Her words came from a very deep place.
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Cheating spouses
Truth is bitter
7/3/2012 12:49:07 PM
So u've knwn dis man 4 d past 20yrs, got married 2 him 4 yrs ago, meang u av been cheatn on ur former husbands and mr okotie last wife, sory u deservd wt u got mrs
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Withoutsentiments
all Dodgy
7/3/2012 1:16:36 PM
Truth is bitter i can't stop wondering too. I feel the pain of all parties involves , but if we were to be honest we should be honest in our reasoning.

When did the Pastor divorced his first wife?

Was she cooking his meals when he was married to his first time then? cos she said she prepared his meals for 10 yrs.

Why would another lady be preparing meals for a married man. just wondering

She said she knows him for 15yrs and closest friends..so she was a friend of the family and probably friend to 1st wifey as well.

You cannot be close to a married man and not be close to his wife .. in all honesty most ladies won't take it...my opinion .

So are you still maintaining that friendship with his ex wife or it stopped as soon as you married him.

When did you and Mr Okotie started having feeling for each other , was before he divorced or after .

Now wifey 3 is around the corner and coming inn December. Is she also a friend of the Family and a close friend as well and already the on preparing his meals now that steph is not available.
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judge
NA ME
7/3/2012 3:19:28 PM
must a man and woman be having sex even if they are just friends,maybe the friendship grew stronger,judge, and that boyalinko Pastor i dont trust him,he will be looking for another catch that is if he has not found one.NIGERIAN'S and pastors,dont be decieved u dont need pastors to make Heaven,ur ignorance makes u give all ur money becos of guilt and u think pastor will make u get acceptance from God,hellno both u and pastor,queen of england,bishop,pope u are equal before God the day of judgement everyone will stand for themselves,pastor will not make u go to heaven,talk to God for free,read the bible,obey God's commandments above all show love to mankind because everyone is the child of God and we all come from one God stop throwing away ur time and money to all these fake pastors even the Bible has warned so wake up people,do the right thing ur Faith works for u not the pastors prayers bcos u are as important as the Pastor to GOD.
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Shut up
Jjj
7/4/2012 1:55:23 PM
You talk too much. U be cris menba. What hapen to the man which when God luk into d family an c first. GOD gv clear instruction.
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hmmm
cutie
7/3/2012 12:57:17 PM
you must be going through alot of pains...hang in there sweetie,,they that look upon thy lord those he will renew their strenght...as for that ur hubby way dey make ppl carry dictionary go church na God go pay am back..
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Hold on to God's words.
Chibu
7/3/2012 1:07:09 PM
What a beauty to behold.All lies have expiry date.Hang in there.You will be vindicated.
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welllllllllllll
crown
7/3/2012 1:18:13 PM
why are you comparing thier marriage with charlie boy's marriage? do you know what chalie boy's wife has been facing? I belived charlie wife just retired to her faith. Common, beware of dog ! it bites.
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stop spitting out bull i***t
fcuk up
7/3/2012 1:49:57 PM
u will be surprised he makes heaven and u don't . stop criticising?. is Charlie not a human being like him / you and did he force his wife to stay married . People like you don't understand the meaning of commitment , yet you claim to be religious and moral chikena!!!!!!smh!!
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Religious Nigerians
Mtchewwwsss
7/3/2012 1:33:39 PM
Some of these Nigerian so call Christians glorify evil and lies in disguise , especially when it comes to church / religious matters. They always refuse to face or say the truth and hide behind misquoted scriptures to justify their waywardness and believe they are the only ones making heaven. When a non believer and the court of law will tell you how it is . Fela Kuti is better than most of them & has said it. They use religion to cover their atrocities.
You can deceive man , but can't be decieve God.
Be not deceived God is not mocked. Hypocrites.
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Bless u,Mtchewwwsss
Elopee
7/3/2012 2:10:18 PM
The word.A word is enough 4 d wise.
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Mtchewwsss
Muhammed
8/15/2012 5:40:58 AM
The way you are talking shows u need God's wisdom b'cos u bend into selfishness against the Lord, holding back you time and money tightly. You also disregard pastors and the assembling of the brethren. They that are giving their time and money know exactly what they are doing. All their actions are scriptural and rewarding. May u encourage people at this end time than discouraging them. Rev Okotie needs to check his actions in the light of God's word; for no good thing is impossible with God. No one is above God's correction and nothing is irreversible to his power. We only need humility before him- Jesus remains the Lord.
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DIS KRIS SEF
ASIKA EBRI
7/3/2012 1:49:34 PM
ANY BODY SAYING HE HASNT HEARD FROM BOTH SIDES SHOULD GO BACK TO

PRIMARY SCHOOL....OKOTIE WAS THE FIRST TO TALK AND HE TALKED WITH SO

MUCH GUSTO,PRIDE AND ARROGANCE...HERE IS A QUALIFIED LAWYER

ANNOUNCING WITH MUCH FANFARE,PANOPLY & FIAT HIS DIVORCE AND

PROMISING TO ENTER INTO ANOTHER MARRIAGE BY DECEMBER...WHAT MORE

HUMILIATION DOES A WOMAN GET??HOW MUCH HURT DOES A PERSON GET??DID

YOU WANT HER TO DO SUICIDE??IF HE TRIED THIS IN AMERICA ,HALF OF HIS

WEALTH WOULD BE GONE BY NEXT MONTH....WHERE HAS PIETY GONE??WHERE IS

COMPASSION?WHERE IS LOVE??IS THIS A REAL MAN OF GOD??SHOULD THIS

LADY BE TREATED LIKE A CRIMINAL AFTER 4 YEARS OF SUBMISSION AND

MARRIAGE?? NO WONDER???..THE WOMAN JUST NOW SAID SHE EVEN SERVED

MEALS ON THE DAY SHE WAS BOOTED OUT...MY BROTHER,MY SISTER...WHAT IS

BARBARISM???IS THIS WICKEDNESS??.DIS LADY ISNT MY SISTER AND I CANT

FIND MYSELF NEAR THAT "I NEED SOME ONE" CHURCH...NEVERTHELESS I FEEL

FOR HER...SHE OBVIOUSLY CANT GET HERSELF PREGNANT...THEN 17

YEARS??NOW 4 YEARS??HE TOLD US TINA WAS AT FAULT...NOW STEPHANIE IS

TO BE CRUCIFIED..RIGHT?? I REFUSE TO CAST A STONE..GOD FORBID THAT I

PARTAKE IN THE FEAST OF THE UNGODLY...KRIS IS INCAPABLE OF MAKING

MISTAKES...YET CANT GET A WOMAN PREGNANT...THE MYSTERY IS EXPOSED BY

NO OTHER PERSON THAN KRIS HIMSELF..YES, SOME ONE WAS ASKING OF MY

EMAIL...I DONT CARE..
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na waa oo. na dem sabi
owusagi
7/3/2012 2:01:27 PM
y d capita leter na? hah hah abeg no carri another percn matter kill yaself oo wen all ya mates dey hammer moni an tidying sequenceing . No worri Stephane na fyn lady and can also remarri anytym. no be by force 2 stay married na. dem both gat right to waka if dem don tire . i dey laff in capital letter.
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evil u do live with u
NA ME
7/3/2012 3:27:41 PM
she has written the truth but evil people like owusagi will die of evil and supporting evil,generational curse is a bad thing,but i guess u dont care but my happiness is that u know u are an unhappy person a troublemaker,pastor boyalinko evil supporter and someone without integrity so keep supporting evil,time will tell.
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Na Me -u outta order
Jawonsi
7/3/2012 3:57:43 PM
What has Owusagi written to generate such insult from you.
It is not by force to stay married .is it? .
Is stephany not a fine lady? yes she is. she has the right to remarry when she wishes .
They both have the right to walk out of the marriage if it doesn't work.
So whats the evil in what was written you Christian fanatic. you people never cease to amaze me. You are the one dying of evil here and supporting evil.
The problem is not with JESUS CHRIST, but with the hypocrites like you in Nigeria who claim to be "Christians".
Go sleep jo.
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pastor ukwu wanyi
NA ME
7/4/2012 3:03:38 PM
jawonsi im not in nigeria,i live in a developed society where u cant treat women anyhow,so u better get ur facts right and vanish,i am not supporting evil a pastor should show a good example for how long will he be using women and chasing them out dont this so called pastor have a mother or sisters,his cup is full the next one he wont get away free,mark my words,yeye boyalinko pastor.
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No Xtian right 2 mrry divorcee
Emma
8/15/2012 6:29:47 AM
Don't bring world tradition to the dilute the word of God. Pastors and brethren should not power of God of non effect in their life by mixing the Word with the world. Rev. Should not impact the world and the tradition of men to the church- the body of Christ. We need to know the word well and the real enemy before we get to teach on the pulpit and also marry the pastors. Rev what is the quality of your preparation after the calling of God. Marriage is one area Satan is targeting. Jesus' power is more than all the power of he'll put together.
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No Xtian right 2 mrry divorcee
Emma
8/15/2012 6:34:13 AM
Don't bring world tradition to the dilute the word of God. Pastors and brethren should not make the power of God of non effect in their life by mixing the Word with the world. Rev. Should not impact the world and the tradition of men to the church- the body of Christ. We need to know the word well and the real enemy before we get to teach on the pulpit and also to marry the pastors. Rev, what is the quality of your preparation after the calling of God on you life? Marriage is one area Satan is targeting you need two review your steps. Jesus' power is more than all the power of hell( satan and his demons put together.
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aww
lea
7/3/2012 1:58:00 PM
I really dont know what to say,she sounded so sad and not like the person people were making her out to be.May the Lord comfort you stephanie..He alone knows what is really going on and he NEVER forsakes his children.Give your love to your kids.I wish you all the best
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Passionate
B¡t¡ng Z£dd To€¥
7/3/2012 1:58:46 PM
You must have seen it coming then! You are the cause of your own misfurtune, baby. Did you think in the first place that what goes around comes around? Or you had it in your thinking that you'll impress and convince him with your beauty and all that? Oh no! You definitely did not back up your meditation with prayer before coming in, an that's huge mistake you undermined as christain. i can't help but, that is where you missed it, ma'am.....still beautiful anyway!
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@ you
Ama
7/3/2012 3:13:13 PM
Get out of here, we dont need gay here, your ass smells.
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satanic person
jessee
7/3/2012 3:29:06 PM
help urself before helpin who is better than u,awunpama,sadist
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realistic
genie
7/3/2012 2:05:08 PM
Let's face the fact: the silly man is tired of her and wants a new one(coming in december by the way).
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BY THEIR FRUITS.....
Elopee
7/3/2012 2:07:37 PM
Look them,see them,na them....YOU SHALL KNOW THEM BY THEIR FRUITS,i pity the ones that will be included in the many that will be deceived in this last days.Ka Chineke mezie okwu.
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Religious cobwebs
Amaka
7/3/2012 3:17:22 PM
They are really christians, but christianity itself is a failure. It has failed to deliver on it's claims. It has not washed any corruption away and it has failed to make new men and new women, 'new creations'. you don't marry a man just because he is a pastor, you also have to seek God's hand before agreeing to marry any pastor
what's with the silence from both wives?

rather eerie..
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PASTORS
MR. KINGSVILLE
7/3/2012 3:00:07 PM
Pastors live a secret lives and subject their members to do what i say but dont do what i do...God is watching. you said u make his meal for ten years before ur wedding to him, hmm what can we learn from this? that mean he was already sleeping with u secretly b4 u guyz went to the registry to exchange vows....God have mercy on u and Kris. i rest my case
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wonder shall never Cease
ajua afima
7/3/2012 3:36:59 PM
Infact , am in short of words. May God forgive both of u, cos d bible says, Anything That seemeth righr to a man at d end is Destruction n Death. So u both were commiting. Adultery.Hmmmmmmmmm
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Soul searching
Jawonsi
7/3/2012 4:09:54 PM
The WORLD has infiltrated the CHURCH! Many came into the Church and brought the world in with them! They are supposed to leave the world behind! Ye cannot serve God and mammon! Jesus said there are those he will say to 'go away from me, you workers of iniquity'. They will be Christians/Churchgoers who refused to let go of the world; the ones who profess Christ but do not bear any fruits that resemble whom they profess! . What is so ironic is that these churchgoers all feel that church is the place for unification and love.
The bible never talked about any "church" either. That word was added during the english translation.hat we call Churches today are not the Church the Bible is talking about.
The same impressionable and innocent brothers and sisters posing and posturing as your fellow Christians are still the same cheating, lying, stealing and plotting more evils to harm and even kill others. Looks or beauty does not make anyone innocent or righteous either.
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God knows best
Harmony
7/3/2012 4:20:51 PM
Jst hand everything in Gods hands and watch HIM fight for u. Jst wonder wats he preaches to d couples in his church.
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Churchianity instead of christ
Amaka
7/3/2012 4:25:11 PM
No one likes to be told he/she is a sinner, they want to do it themselves at their own pace. but they will sure love to hear how you got so rich being a man-of-mammonGod and all. So preach prosperity for sinners and believers (God is infintely merciful and hell is not for members of their church.Preaching Hell and End-times prophecies No one wants to hear the bitter truth, stick with the message of prosperity.
Christians, Churches in Nigeria are preoccupied with what can we get from God, not obeying God or Loving him.
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PASTORS
MR. KINGSVILLE
7/3/2012 4:35:58 PM
Pastors live a secret lives and subject their members to do what i say but dont do what i do...God is watching. you said u make his meal for ten years before ur wedding to him, hmm what can we learn from this? that mean he was already sleeping with u secretly b4 u guyz went to the registry to exchange vows....God have mercy on u and Kris. i rest my case
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Quite Unfortunate
Mr. T
7/3/2012 5:29:38 PM
My surprise is what these men of God actually tell their congregation each Sunday the gather for service that makes them to continue to attend these churches. A so called man of God who invariably would have been the president of Nigeria according to him. I really wounder the kind of example these men of God set for there congregation. Only God will be the good advocate at the end. If we know we can not be married to the end then quickly remove that phrase" For better for worse" in ur December marriage you can say For better to stay for bad situations to separate. with these words people ll now know you are in a contract of gain gain and gain. Please these pastors should grow up and stop confusing themselves.
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PASTOR,S WIFE MY FOOT
Serena
7/3/2012 5:52:05 PM
STEPHANIE KEEP WASHING YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY IN THE PUBLIC, WOMEN LIKE YOU SHOULD NEVER BE PASTOR'S WIFE ANYWAY.... GO ENJOY YOURSELF WITH SOME OLD POLITICIAN COZ THAT'S WERE U BELONG. I BET U CAN'T STAND THE ENDLESS CHURCH PROGRAMS.
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i***tic thing
nne
7/4/2012 3:08:13 PM
i bet u dis serena has slept with this pastor keep laughing in God's eye u are not better and u will get ur share of punishment.GBAM.
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Mr Namanama
Serena
7/4/2012 5:33:22 PM
GET AWAY FROM ME U USELESS SON OF A b*****d ISE EWU.
DEM SWEAR FOR U? ID10T!!! WHY DON'T U MARRY D w***e WHO CALL HERSELF PASTOR'S WIFE. EDEDE LIKE U.... EKWENSU
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Chris Okotie
Lulah Dabale
7/3/2012 7:29:32 PM
"The truth is that nobody has monopoly of good wife or husband but the bulk of the blame must go to the manof God,looking at his antecedent's as it relate to his attraction to beauty than true love it clearly show his tragic flow to women judging by his unseasant string of divorce that becomes part of him,he knows very well what d Bible say's about marriege.Upon all the failed marriege's he indulge in he is committing adultery with all these chain of women and sin against God.He should have known more than we do that his first wife he divorced still remain his true wedded wife till death do them part,coz no two way about it.He will marry again and divorce for fourth time it appear's he take's pleasure in it may God forgive all of us b'cos nobody is perfect b/4 God."
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What do you expect
Ebuka
7/3/2012 7:53:02 PM
I have only read two or three comments I am already fed up with this nonsense. We all know who Chris is. He was a musician and he claimed that God called him to be a pastor. He was still a pastor and God called him to be a politician. Well, pastor/politician has not read enough bible to see that "what God has joined together" .... even himself the pastor "has no power to divide"

What do you expect from those who think that God speaks to them. The Holy Spirit who said you will marry this woman has also told you not to marry her. HOLY SPIRIT CANNOT CONTRADICT HIMSELF OOOOO!!!!!!

Madam what I see here is that you and Chris are the same people who cheat people through the word of God. Take what came to you. It is all business and nothing to do with God. See what people are telling you. If you have known this man for such a long time even you and the pastor were married. What type of people are you two girl?

Please go do good soul searching and repent even the pastor/presidential candidate. All is only a game and don't ever play games with the word of God. Good night.
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Na Pity
Modestus agu
7/3/2012 10:43:00 PM
No be so GOD tell us for bible say make we dey married,e say make we no married another person husband or wife,but why pastor chris go dey marry person wife,if he dey do like dat na witin he go dey teach de member of his church,make he search his bible well, God write am boldly say a man must not married second wife and say dose way dum go back to their first wife bcause if dey die at de process de dey go hell fire,i make u no say de wife no burn becos na GOD dey give pekin abeg pastor chris go back to ur first wife before it is too late.
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so sad
rightmind
7/3/2012 11:11:06 PM
some people miss use God,lies about him , make f**l of his name, and this provoc the mind of the lord, okotie how u say the lord want u to marry , i laugh when i heard the story , u know what stop deceiving urself
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so sad
rightmind
7/3/2012 11:11:57 PM
some people miss use God,lies about him , make f**l of his name, and this provoc the mind of the lord, okotie how u say the lord want u to marry , i laugh when i heard the story , u know what stop deceiving urself
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DONT CRY.
OLA EGEM
7/3/2012 11:14:46 PM
My sister you look like maidmad true-true try and become urgly now? Dont worry God will vindicate you from the evils ones
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only God Knows
ogongo
7/3/2012 11:58:38 PM
Only God knows what was going on with thie woman and Okotie, she was married to another man while she was also seeing Okotie, why did she leave her second husband, i heard that the first husband died and how did she want another man to father kids from another man, Nigerians are the most f*****h followers on earth, Chris claimed that God told him to marry a woman that left her husband and and also said she the woman heard from God, making mockery in the name of God, there is a lot we dont know all i want everyone to know is that Tina is still Chris Okotie's Love and no woman can take her place in Chris's heart, all the women at HOG that are thinking that Okotie will marry them can go ahead marry him but Tina is the Love of his life, nobody should judge here only God will judge.
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kris
kristen
7/8/2012 1:43:44 PM
That's just the whole truth and nothing but the truth and we are praying that she comes back to her place.
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cry no more stephanie
ijay
7/4/2012 12:22:34 AM
stephanie, cry no more, baba God knows best all dis is happening
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what goes around comes around
lyn
7/4/2012 12:54:42 AM
This is quite interesting n unfortunate. Stephanie God led u into confessing to us that u re d main reason why pastor Chris's marriage broke so u were sleeping wt him... I beg ur pardon "making his meals" while he was married n u were married uhmmm ...interesting! You know our God is not be mocked, our God is d all knowing, D all seeing, He is a just God, He gives us what is due to us and what we deserve. This is just d scripture, am sure u n ur hypocritical hussy don't understand this. Are calling d name of d Lord to vindicate u, who re u ?..a husband snatcher, a homebreaker, a slut, a harlot in her husband's house, no tell me who re u? U ruined someone's marriage of 17yrs good years, u didn't even stay that long in ur 2 previous marriage, u thot by coming in u ll be better than Tina, u ll give him all d children he so desperately need but u see our God is NT to be mocked, that is why u re facing d repercussion after 4 years, The judgement of d Almighty has finally visited u n u hypocritically talk of vindication? The only person that has been vindicated is Tina n I give God all d glory 4 keeping her alive to see today. As 4 u n ur fake pastor u deserve no pity, no mercy is wrath of d Almighty is already upon d both of u, so u can go ahead n wash more filthy linen of urs, we re listening.

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God sees all
tw
7/4/2012 2:05:11 AM
u've said it all....
This is end time, we just av to stand in Christ Jesus not looking unto anybody but God the author and d finisher of our faith!
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humanssssssssssssss
amaka orji
8/17/2012 2:12:02 AM
u dnt hv d ryt 2 cal her a slut,nd u no get ryt 2 dy judge her.pls,dr is no pesin hu hs nt done worse thins.wen ur corner is tyt,den u kno watz up.we shld only pray 4 her or mind our biz.he whu hs no sin shuld cast d first stone.
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sorry o but
princess
7/4/2012 2:01:04 AM
Abeg where you buy your earring?I like am. I wan buy too
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princess
Lalaland
7/4/2012 3:20:36 AM
Na for AGBOJU market na the ediot buy her earring from!
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u funny princess
chummy
7/5/2012 5:01:08 AM
lalaland don answer u so na only earring u see 4 dis mata i laugh die.
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be quite
lizzy
7/4/2012 2:07:54 AM
madam,no matter what happens God is aware of everything.Pls for GOD`S SAKE BE QUITE FOR NOW,YOUR GOD WILL SURELY SEE U THROUGH.Becareful of who you talk to be calm let God plead ur cause.
It is well.
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Lizzy
Lalaland
7/4/2012 3:20:01 AM
Stop advisisng the ediot! Let her continue disgracing her pathetic self cos this is called boomerang like we have here in Australia!
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God help us
emeka
7/4/2012 5:37:33 AM
pls 4 God sake and ur follower's.Both of u should reunit
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He is not a God of Confusion
Omo Jesu
7/4/2012 3:44:55 AM
I would assume you are also a pastor Madam as Mr Okotie.
Did you guys actually heard right from God before marrying or you just decided to f**l everybody into marrying because of lust.
where was his wife when you were doing his cooking. were you officially employed to do the cooking or you were doing it secretly without his wife knowing . I believe no Nigerian lady will allow a mullatto beautiful lady like you doing her hubby's cooking and being very closest friend to her hubby without actually not wanting to know everything about the friendship. Even a 17 yrs old will kick a big fuss about it when it comes to their boyfriends.
If God actually brought you guys together and a true praying born again Christian , he will not allow confusion & chaos into your lives , make your marriage unfruitful and allow your hubby to send you unfairly packing and ask him to marry another lady in December. my opinion.
God does not deceive people . If he can bless and deliver unbelievers who does not know him and feed the birds in the air , how much you that called yourselves pastors and his annoited..
So please check and be honest with your selves, both parties have to be careful what they are saying. stop mocking God , what a man sows , he reaps. simple!
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Are xtians christ like?
kkk
7/4/2012 3:52:09 AM
funny aw she took place of 1st wife when she was sent packing.Now the law of Karma at work. Christians haba!
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hmm
george
7/4/2012 4:12:31 AM
maame water or witch lol
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stephanie henshaw
candy floss
7/4/2012 4:40:18 AM
Shut UP stephanie henshaw, what goes around comes around. stop using the name of God in vain. If you were that spiritual, should you not have known that the marriage will only last 4 years. beside, as a christian , you were happy to marry another woman's husband, you did not pity her then but now you want people to pity you now. it is now your turn to feel the wrought of God. You replaced his wife of 17 years, low and behold, he will replace you soon with another. IT IS A CIRCLE. MAN OF GOD MY FOOT. THEY THINK THEY ARE DECIEVEING GOD.
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stephanie henshaw
candy floss
7/4/2012 4:48:59 AM
Shut UP stephanie henshaw, what goes around comes around. stop using the name of God in vain. If you were that spiritual, should you not have known that the marriage will only last 4 years. beside, as a christian , you were happy to marry another woman's husband, you did not pity her then but now you want people to pity you now. it is now your turn to feel the wrought of God. You replaced his wife of 17 years, low and behold, he will replace you soon with another. IT IS A CIRCLE. MAN OF GOD MY FOOT. THEY THINK THEY ARE DECIEVEING GOD.
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Heart Break
Swt2
7/4/2012 4:57:34 AM
Stephanie Henshaw, even @ dis age you'r still looking cute........... you tried your best for the marriage to work out... you can't kill yourslef over noting. Tank God you've children just take kia of them and leave vengeance 4 God................... he doesn't worth it. letz wash till December and how many years he's gonna stay with hs new wife. As a pastor what moral is he teaching us? Chris Okotie you no dey try oooooooh. you have tested 2 women now which one wey the younger ones go marry?.
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It is well
Nne
7/4/2012 5:40:55 AM
Those asking her to keep quiet should shut up. Sometimes when you are faced with problems like this, talking abt it makes your heart lighter.

My dear stephanie, take heart. God will see you through.
Don't die bcos a man threw u out. You have wndeful kids to take care of.

Plz be strong for them. It is well my sister.
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shut da f**ker up
AK45
7/4/2012 5:57:48 AM
listen to yourself .
Go back to school and take reading lesson. Of course she is being pitied but the truth have to be said. Don't they have a counsellor in their church or spiritual fathers and mothers to lament to and seek counselling instead of washing their dirty linen in public. These people stand in front of Congregations Mothers, children , teenagers, daddies, battered women,abused children , rich , the poor etc to preach the gospel and holiness of christ. so they should lay good examples If they are truly working with God and stop making a mockery of the Gospel .

If they heard from God it will interest us to know what conversation took place.People look up to them

It's people like that make fake pastor exhale in their ministry. Didn't the bible teach you to test all spirit and hold on to the truth and the spirit of God. stop denying the truth and let people ask the right question . It's a lesson to all those claiming to hear from God when they did not .

Abeg carry your pity party somewhere else jare ode.
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Break Up
Ufan
7/6/2012 3:29:44 AM
God is NOT a man that He should lie! Let ALL men & Women fear Him.
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Stephenie
Tina
7/4/2012 6:26:21 AM
Pastor Chris is getting married to his ex wifey, tina
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You can't cut corners with GOd
Tunde
7/4/2012 6:27:26 AM
There is nothing like half -born-again. It 's either you are truly born again, filled with the spirit of God and living a very righteous life or you are not. You are either in or out. Going to church, being active in the church, preaching the gospel and quoting the bible off head does not make you born again. Search your souls. God is no respecter of person.
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Did they really hear from God?
Brymo
7/4/2012 6:50:47 AM
Stephanie was a widow of Pastor Chris Okotie's friend. He was said to have rented an apartment with a round-the-clock security for Stephanie at Marwa Gardens, Ikeja, Lagos for Stephanie.

He was also said to have also given her a security escort attached to his cars; a black Mercedes Benz Jeep and a black S Class Mercedes Benz.

As reported, not long after Rev. Okotie and Stephanie married, one woman named Remi Odutola surfaced alleging that she has a 9-year-old girl for the singer turned pastor and politician. Quoting NFC

something rather fishy here
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GOD IS ALIVE
UNWANA
7/4/2012 7:00:24 AM
Be strong my dear, this is the time to hold firm to your God knowing well that He is the Mighty Man in battle, the great deliverer, His very presence help in every situation. He will not leave u a lone until He finishes with u.GBU
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Na waa for christians
chukwudi
7/4/2012 7:32:59 AM
na the problem with religion from day one be dat o--hypocrisy and double-standard are written all over it. Na demm go be judge and jury at the same time.
no be Bible say
KING JAMES

matthew 19:9

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.


NIV VERSION

I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery."

irreconcible difference aint the same as marital unfaithfulness. .pastor getting divorced.u go fear fear.'till death do us part'shey?

Peace!
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The Lonely Traveler!
Matths.
7/4/2012 7:48:31 AM
In all these allegations/claims, Pastor Chris Okotie have remained mute! Is it not what it if he comes out to tell us his own part of the story? All these controversies & allegations is just TOO MUCH for a man who calls himself a man of God to have! What really is wrong? Why & how did he let himself SO LOOSE! Could it be a case of a demon at work or what!? I can bet, some of the members of his congregation must have left his Church for another @ the onset of this newest ugly development. May God save us!
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Do not judge
Suzie
7/4/2012 8:01:24 AM
She said she has known him 4 twenty years not she has been sleeping with him 4 twenty years pls people does it mean dat u cannot b friends with somebody until u are sleeping with him? Haba my people lets b careful with what we say
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Hmmm!
kay
7/4/2012 8:05:13 AM
Poor lady, Cant help but feel her pain, I dont know if this angel cud hve been dating the man of God while he was still married to Tina, hmmmm! they could have just been mere friends. God help her and home breakers
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steph d f**l
tina
7/4/2012 8:38:17 AM
she is so s****d.Gozie was never married 2 her.she abandoned dson she had 4 him then she met Okey.had 2 boys.milked him dry and she even put him behind bars cos she was having an affair with Krisnow she wants sympathy.mind you she switched 2 okey from sam ejiogu.d list goes on n oooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnn so hide ur face in shame,What goes around comes around so u deserve it and lots more, u beta hide urself in shame with ur overbleached skin cos now that Kris has left u who will pay ur bills cos u r no more tokunbo u r condemned goods,ha ha f**l,
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stephanie henshaw
LIZZY
7/5/2012 3:23:20 PM
tina u are raving like a made dog with all your jealousy,u better get it over with because u cant do anything to chris or stephanie,im embarrased at the rate of yr jealousy.cool off.most of the infomation out there is based on hear say,and im sure u have yr own issues so deal wt them and stop wasting yr energy on what u haVE NO CONTROL OVER.
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steph d f**l
tina
7/4/2012 9:15:52 AM
she is so s****d.Gozie was never married 2 her.she abandoned dson she had 4 him then she met Okey.had 2 boys.milked him dry and she even put him behind bars cos she was having an affair with Krisnow she wants sympathy.mind you she switched 2 okey from sam ejiogu.d list goes on n oooooooooooooonnnnnnnnnnn so hide ur face in shame,What goes around comes around so u deserve it and lots more, u beta hide urself in shame with ur overbleached skin cos now that Kris has left u who will pay ur bills cos u r no more tokunbo u r condemned goods,ha ha f**l,
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informant
nne
7/4/2012 3:13:03 PM
tina we are watching hope u are not d december wife cos ur own turn will come and urs will be worst why do u hate ur fellow human like that are u God,no one knows tomorrow so be careful of wat u say madam
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informant
tina
7/5/2012 12:31:28 AM
sweetheart.i will rather die than marry mr jerry koko and im married with 5 kids;u can tell i know much bout d b***h n wat she put her 2nd husbands wife thru.if not 4 GOD d lady almost lost it but now she is still with her husband. her kids r graduates n madam stephies woes have jusr begun;she aint seen nothing yet;like they say d end justifies d means so all u home wreckers n husband snatchers b warned cos a word is enough 4 d wise
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obit
oyibowoman
7/4/2012 9:34:16 AM
the man don tire to swim, bewhen he say flashing thinging she is flashing inside. but latar realize na so so water
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obit
oyibowoman
7/4/2012 9:35:37 AM
the man don tire to swim, when he say flashing thinging she is flashing inside. but latar realize na so so water
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obit
oyibowoman
7/4/2012 9:58:04 AM
the man don tired to swim, when he saw a flashing, thinking she is flashing inside, but latar realize say na so so water.any marraige that is not from God will surely break up.devilish love, bad spirit of love, serpent love we surely come to past in every relationship that the devil as made to make it difficult for the real couple to found themself. will be destroy in jesus name amen
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relax
jadejeje
7/4/2012 10:00:27 AM
I can hardly make nay sense outa dis write up so I suggest dat former mrs Okotie should move on with her life and stop wallowing in self pity cos I dnt see hw dat helps, to me it would have bn betta for her to just kip her cool rather than making all these remarks
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Steph, You Are A Hypocrite...
"O"
7/4/2012 11:02:51 AM
Wow..this lady is so perfect in every way that there is no error on her part whatsoever for the alleged split? Hmm. Quite frankly, I am kinda very skeptical of people who are so "faultless," but have absolutely nothing nice, or even neutral, to say about others especially those whom they once loved!

You were dating him while he was still married, weren't you? That is, you were the "other woman" when he was still married to his ex wife? You were feeling so special when he was taking you to places and hurting her in the process. Now you are crying buckets, remembering how "you prepared his meal the morning he asked you to leave". My questions, has it dawned on you yet what you put that lady through? Have you thought for once that this might be the same way he asked her to leave in order for you, his heart desire to come in??? In other words, a home wrecker. You remind me of a lady who boasted that her boyfriend loved her so much that they were together celebrating her birthday when his wife was in labor. You guess the rest.

I rarely say this, but you deserve every treatment you've got, baby! You deserve absolutely everything!
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KARMA AT WORK..
RAZ
7/4/2012 11:03:53 AM
Hmmm... Tina,with all these ur analysis,I hope u are not d December wife oo? Hmmm??? Fingers crossed!
Stephanie,I said it right frm day one dat u and dat ur Ogigolo pastor chris have very serious spiritual problem.
There's no need crying & lamenting,Karma just visited u guys... ESPECIALLY YOU..bc u connived with dat hot d*i*c*k pastor chris in his adulterous living,even while both of u were both married to ur ex-partners,u ontinued cheating on them. CAN U SEE D OUTCOME NOW? Anybody who cheats on somebody 2b with u,MUST equally cheat on u 2b with another. The truth is dat d Ogigolo funky pastor has finished f*u*c*k*ing u to his satisfaction,NOW he has deserted u,so he can continue his f*u*c*kology with another 'sister'. Probably,d sister must have been secretly cooking for him for three to fours now,just like u secretly cooked too. It's a pity.
BUT THE DAY GOD WILL SEND THUNDER TO YOU FORNICATORS IN DAT ENDTIME CHURCH,I PITY U ALL!
Accept my sympathy,..wipe ur tears & ask God for forgiveness.
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nnnnnnn
mmmnn
7/4/2012 11:16:12 AM
nigerian people. whoo na bi rasis oh o blackrasis
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mmmm
mm
7/4/2012 11:19:11 AM
because say the woman na oyinbo that why whoo na da cast insult on her.
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What was d Accusation Steph
Bolanle
7/4/2012 12:21:37 PM
Quoting Steph 3rd Twitt >>>>>>:
I have loved - but I have not been loved
I have given - but has not received
Accusation and lies not from the world but the church
my Husband loves and adores me

Quest
If Kris does not love her , he would not have married her , being a woman with 3 kids from different men. Kris has loved.

What abou the material wealth he bought her : He was said to have rented an apartment with a round-the-clock security for Stephanie at Marwa Gardens, Ikeja, Lagos and have also given her a security escort attached to his cars; a black Mercedes Benz Jeep and a black S Class Mercedes Benz. Kris has given.

If accusations were from the Church , what happens to trust as pastors . Don't pastor trust his own wife anymore and listening to hear say from congregation.
What was the accusation & lies ?

Your husband loves and adores you, that was before my dear ,not anymore is the reason he asked for separation because may be the lady he 's getting married to in December is a prettier finer babe

There is more to this story that meets the eye jo.
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GOD HAVE MERCY
GOD HAVE MERCY
7/4/2012 12:34:05 PM
chris is not a rely man of God he is fake and dicivine ppl which man of God will call his wife manmade or wish if he is true man of God before he married his wife he will no wether she is all this name he called her and wished man of God will be contesting for president leaving God work for money but one day God will deal with him period
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GOD HAVE MERCY
GOD HAVE MERCY
7/4/2012 12:37:12 PM
chris is not a rely man of God he is fake and dicivine ppl which man of God will call his wife manmade or wish if he is true man of God before he married his wife he will no wether she is all this name he called her and wished man of God will be contesting for president leaving God work for money but one day God will deal with him period
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so naChurch pple caus d wahala
Nnene
7/4/2012 12:39:29 PM
na siddon look mood i still dey. yet 2 hia d accusation an lies wey im hia 4rm the church and tek drive her comot. wetin d church accuse her for sef wey cause all dis palava? Okotie na her 3rd husband . Okotie too wan marry d 3rd wife. e get as e be . mek dem try settle am na unless Pastor wan chop meat and we dey give am kpomo
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cutie
wifey
7/4/2012 1:11:37 PM
wow she so pretty ..just like an Angel.
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hi steph
Bindel-Mary
7/4/2012 5:03:45 PM
My dear, just know that it is only God that is faithful 1 THESSELONIAN 5:24(read it)
also (read)palsm 85:8:10
Thanks and God bless.
Know that u are not alone God is with u,(bindelmarymary@yahoo.com)
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lier
Blossom
7/4/2012 5:32:29 PM
She's pregnant for another man that's the main koko... Stephanie why not tell D world D truth.
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lovel
rebecca
7/5/2012 2:05:16 AM
Love is something we all need, but sometimes u finde_out dat u'r partinal is not given u de love ad other care u may deserv so what would u have done if u found u'r selfe in such a sutation , above all he is asking for u'r hand in marriage• Reply is thread
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Chris okotie
Dan
7/5/2012 10:53:42 AM
Lts gt sme fcts clear.hs 1st wife tina divourced chris okotie.d MOG.did nt divource her.stephanie is d only woman he hs divourced.wuld u realy say he is changing women?he did nt reveal d reasön 4 d divource bcs he wanted 2 protect both parties privacy.i wnt 2 ask if u gt married 2 a witch,wuld u die in d marriage wt her bcs u dnt wnt 2 divource?i tnk d pastor tort abt ds tins b4 going public.by her revelation,she is accused of witchcraft.if she kpt quiet wuld u hv known.ds ws y d pastor did nt disclose d details 2 protect her.
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chris okotie
tina
7/5/2012 1:51:16 PM
Chris is mad we all no.steph u met ur last husband with a 300ce. pathpinder.honda.bm535.do u want me 2 go on?u locked im in alausa wit kris?kicked okey's mum out in d mdle of d nite wen u were livin in d house he paid 4 off allen cos he was fighting 4 his wife;i 'm not an unblver like u n ur evil so cald husband n if u no d hurt?pain n suffering u caused his family u'll commit suicide.LOOK at Bianca;YES. with her beauty she married d man of her life n now she is an ambassador;DAISY DAMJUMA'with all due resoect left n is still married,





















u s****d f**l spentall ur time buying Dermovate n ur bleaching agents n 4got 2 not even educate urself cos ur composition is poor my dear u will die cos u r evil
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stephanie henshaw
tom
7/5/2012 3:13:55 PM
TINA,FROM ALL YR COMMENTS U CAN NEVER BE BORN AGAIN,U TALK WT SO MUCH HATE AND JEALOUSY,AND U CLAIM TO HAVE CHILDREN WONDER THE KIND OF WOMAN U ARE,PLS PURGE URSLF OF THE HATE BECAUSE YOUR OPINION DOES NOT GO BEYOND THIS POST.ONLY GOD DETERMINES OUR PARTS IN LIFE,NO MATTER OUR MISTAKES
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stephanie henshaw
tom
7/5/2012 4:12:08 PM
but u no its true.she should hide her face in shame.ive told d world nothing but d truth.steph has sold noting in her life but toto n now its 2 old for sale.i will never support my kids 2 destroy another man's home,Why will i ever envy someone who has nothing 2 show for her sins n asewoness[ha ha] but debts n return 2 sender?She didnt even dump mr gorilla look alike.he dumped her with her so called beauty.i have more 2 tell d world so keep talking n i will quote names n dates as well.She did wrong in d past so lets call a spade a spade
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stephanie hensaw
tina
7/5/2012 4:49:09 PM
Mr Tom.im far from jealous.steph in ur so called 20 yrs.y did u not may b go 2 skl.open a shop or even in d name of xtianity start an ngo instead of just trying 2 beautify urself.Dats my main grudge.ok look at ur situation now. u have nothing 2 show 4 ur waisted time wit d chimp;u r back 2 marwa gdns instead of even a bungalow dat u built 4 u n ur kids 4 d rainy day n u have d impetus to say im jealous.its a case of waisted beauty n tiime an also reaping wat u sow cos GOD is my witness u r evil.d money u spent on ur cheap cloths n fake gold [kpanda] may have done a foundation on even half a plot of land 4 u n ur kids.u r desperate 2 go back cos u no not where 2 start from but u aint seen nada
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seeking for a manager
odafen aigbomobea
7/7/2012 3:08:25 AM
Dear sir/madam,
I m odafen aigbomobea endurance from esan west local government area ekpoma edo state nigeria west african.i m singer a member of kegite club international all over the world i m seeking for a manager i m good songito,but no money to promote my aim and objects we kegite we promoting the african culture.
May your dayz be longer.thank you for your concern.
Regards
odafen
my email address lumenfia@yahoo.com
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Pastor okotie,,l
Peggy
7/7/2012 5:29:48 PM
The problem with pastor Chris be say him dey find society women wey get beauty and class especially yellow women..and as a pastor he does not need such women as wives because these women has dined and wined with the devil they are into everything with no knowledge of God in them and when he gets himself involve with these marine witchcraft women their duty is to pull or disorganized his Christian life..my advice to him is that he should take is eyes off flashy society women that don't know God, pastor Chris pls take ur off promiscuous and worldly women and look for a decent woman, a Godly Christian woman that is not attracted to the things of the world as wife.he should take real Godly wife and copy example of Godly wives of most men of God like Adeboyes's wife, olukoyas's wife Mfm, etc. if not u will continue to experience what we call setbacks and people will start questioning ur Christian life if u were truly called by God or u were working for your own belle.
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Adie n okotie
Licia
7/11/2012 1:16:37 AM
Whn ds two married i knew it wont be long b4 they seperate.adie has always been a vain(vanity) person evn in school zero-upstairs,her entire life n thots is men n to live on men n hav evrytng without lifting a finger,she left sch wth f9 in al her 8subjects n it never botherd when she wz always promoted on trial,also d father being an occultic which okotie found out at d mans burial recently where d occult group went to struggle with d church at beecroft street in calabar,adie is vain n has no fear of God n has no spiritual knowledge.infact i realy wandered how she'l cope wth okoties grammer,no doubt she speaks well afteral she went to fggc.calabar n thats d only positv thing about her.God hav mercy on ministers of d gospel n their uncontrolable lust.
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adie n okotie
shocked
12/25/2012 4:10:42 PM
i am reading all the lies about my pastor and his wife stephanie and am shocked at the lies told about both of them,householders love them both and are trusting God for help in their marriage.Licia,we were all at the burial of sis stephanies father and no occult people were fighting wt the church for his body,ask any householder they would tell u because we all were active,we all had such fun in calaber and every one got back safe,u are watching too many home videos,also her father never disowned her,he always told the church how much he loved his daughter,
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GOD hates divorce
Ken
7/11/2012 4:30:23 AM
Rather than criticise okotie now, he needs more of our prayers. Your prayer 4 him will do more than what your condemnation will do to him. Men of God are not angels even though they are supose to be good examples 2 follow, lets learn 2 pray 4 them too
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:40:44 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to school for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:41:28 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to school for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:41:54 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to Fschool for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:42:11 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to Fschool for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:42:26 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to Fschool for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Calm down people
Titi
7/11/2012 8:42:44 AM
We are so quick to judge. Now it is alleged that this said woman was never the one who wrote on the facebook page. People calm down. Eventually, the reason behind the divorce will surface. Shes been married three times, so frigging what? He wants to marry again by december, its his choice. You guys should not be slaves to the media. U read stuff and immediately believe and start writing crap. You all went to Fschool for a reason! Be objective in your judgements. People r busy throwing insults at each other over what exactly? Now i hear tshe woman with the love child is denying going to press. Already people are talking of striking resemblance and abusing both the lady who claim to be the baby mama and the said pastor chris. Nigerians, u guys should calm down!!
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Be careful, cos of cut & join
Glow
7/15/2012 1:14:12 PM
If you look carefully, first comment is more an experience of a widow that she is alleged to be! Is there a possibility that different comments at different stages of this woman's life have been cut and paste together. Everyone stop and reason cos it could be you. Let him without sin cast the first stone? Just pray for them pls, these are the end times, we must all take heed lest we fall. Encourage on another in love. Judge not that the same measure may not be melted out to you. Pray for one another. Young woman, the bible says if any lack wisdom go to the lord and ask! Make no further comments! The office of a Pastors wife is a high calling. Not to be treated wantonly! Did you hear Tina talk to anyone when she left! The life of the flock are preacious in Gods sight. It's not just about your emotions now, find a good bible school and immense yourself in the word. He healed ALL their disease. He mends broken hearts. I hope to God these comments reach you somehow. It is well.
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f**ls
rich girl
7/21/2012 11:20:38 AM
pastor chris what on earth are u teaching ur members?u ar nt worthy 2 b a pastor.ur lifestyle is bad and nt worthy 2 emulate.
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marriage
Nafi
7/22/2012 4:03:21 PM
who is this Stephanie lady? she is beautiful my sister shed no tears god is on your side.
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HOW FAITHFULL WAS STEPH
Samy Yayo
7/23/2012 5:24:18 AM
Stephanie, u keep telling the entire world that u were accused wrongly the the church members, but u never really mentioned what the accusation is all about. From what I heard, is it true that u were not faithful in ur marriage with the man of GOD? Because I heard u were still seeing ur former husband secretly. Again, what caused ur first relationship to fail because I heard ur first husband was always beating you up because of this same unfaithfulness....pls explain to us how true this is...
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Judge NOT!!!
Samy Yayo
7/23/2012 5:36:37 AM
...and for those that are judging the man of GOD remember, his righteousness is of GOD and not of u, so don't condemn ur tongue...Isaiah 54:17
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Re:
Exotic
8/3/2012 3:11:29 AM
Please and please, it is not in your position to gorge ok. you might look at the man as fake, it might be possible. But! you don't have the power to post such comment at a man in-charge of authority in church. We are humans with lots of mistake we are not perfect. Only God is. God Bless Us All.
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I ordered a Love Spell
eric
8/6/2012 3:01:03 AM
I ordered a Love Spell from prophetharry@ymail.com one months ago. My wife Kathy was about to ask for a divorce, I was desperate. I asked for return lover spell and my wife came back within 3 days (I still can't believe it!), then we got married, and she got pregnant, Well I would like to thank prophet harry one more time, as our first baby, (I choose this name harry for my baby,) thanks prophet. Love you forever! Eric, Colorado
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Critics
@Critics
8/10/2012 5:38:58 PM
PEOPLE GO STILL OPEN MOUTH DEY ADDRESS THIS MAN AS MAN OF GOD AND WETIN OTHER PERSON'S LIKE ME BE?. MAN OF SATAN? OF COS NO.
THESE MEN DON ENRICH THEMSELVES ALL IN THE NAME OF PREACHING THE WORD OF GOD DEY COLLECT FUNDS FROM THE POOR. THEM GO BUY PRIVATE JET AND YET MANY OF THEIR MEMBERS NOR GET OKADA..... THE PEOPLE I BLAME NA THEIR MEMBERS WEY NOR WANT WISE. FAKE PEOPLE
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WOW;;;
Iyke
9/2/2012 5:46:40 AM
lets not judge lets just pray,remem david killed somone husband and married her n God stil cald him man after his own heart.he who is witout sin cast d first stone
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They Are Not Whorthy
Bennie
9/28/2012 5:17:31 AM
Both Chris Oketie and the lady are not whorthy and that woman should stop ranting about and this same advise goes to those her sympartizers.

A woman and man that have been living in sin and she has the impunity to quote the bible. Go to hell and die
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holy pastors
nwabuike
10/1/2012 5:15:11 AM
somtym i do wonda if God is not seing all dis evil did of dis our end tym pastors and prophets, a whole pastor chris datin anoda woman outside his matrimonial home, pastors my foot, tufiakwa!!!aru!!!
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Nigerian man
Ladi
1/3/2013 1:29:19 PM
Take heart my dear sister, if you had known Nigerian man are not the best marriage material, they see women as furnitures when done with they change, pls brace up and move on with your life. God is in control and HE will see u through. Don't cry over spill milk.
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mesage
de youngsunny
2/20/2013 5:31:06 PM
both of them the deriverance then they will see cleary,devil is de figure head accuser of brethren,put ego aside just straight to deliverance.
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19, 4, 2o13
federal nwaokocha
4/19/2013 2:43:50 AM
All. I. Know is that, okotie Need to see, T,b. Joshua. And, okotie is not, o,k
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Holy pegan
tonibekwe
6/24/2013 5:17:42 AM
During the period she claimed she was cooking for and serving Pstr Chris (as corroborated by the pstr himself in a separate interview) he was still married to his first wife. This I find very difficult to comprehend. Were they having secret affair or could the 'cooking' be with the consent of the first wife, Tina? It is most likely they are withholding some information from the public. Whatever be the case the Bible does not allow either of them to remarry since their individual spouses are still alife. There is no provision for divorce in the holy book except on the ground of infidelity.
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thank God
Emma
11/12/2013 1:09:16 PM
Almighty Jesus knows de best.
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