I am 26 years and my husband is 37. We have been married for three and half years now. My problem is for about two years that I have lived with my husband, he has cheated on me with more than 10 girls.
The first time I discovered his infidelity, I couldn’t believe it because one of the major reasons I married him was because of his religious disposition.
I was naturally devastated. Worst of all, he didn’t even try to explain things to me. Instead of apologies, I got the beating of my life that very day although he later came to ask for forgiveness. I forgave him with the confidence he would change, but he didn’t, he continued cheating and beating me. This has happened more than 10 times.
Three months ago, I heard him telling someone on the phone that he would send money to pay for a hotel accommodation where they would stay when he comes.
I was forced to check through his phone and discovered he was making an arrangement with his girl friend on where they would meet.
I got the beating of my life that same day and was admitted in the hospital. According to him, I had no right to go through his phones.
Agatha, I now hate him for all the pain and embarrassment he has caused me.
We are yet to have children; we have been to hospitals and they confirmed he has watery and low sperm. He was told to stop smoking and drinking, though he drinks once in a while but he doesn’t want to give up smoking as instructed by doctors.
Right now, I don’t know what to do; my father is an evangelist and I always consider my parents in all that I want to do.
I am in tears as I write this. I have no kids yet, the person that should be my source of happiness is causing me so much pain, always beating and cheating on me. Please advice me on what to do.